this is so sad. i think the best thing you guys can do is stick together and talk to her, tell her how it hurts you guys to see her that way.....ask her to go to rehab if affordable.....she's not just hurting herself but your's too.....good luck!
this is so sad. i think the best thing you guys can do is stick together and talk to her, tell her how it hurts you guys to see her that way.....ask her to go to rehab if affordable.....she's not just hurting herself but your's too.....good luck!
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there is always hope. God grants the desires of your heart. First, continue doing what you are doing right now, praying, which you mentioned already in your post. And second, do not feel useless if the problem seems unresolved. It was not your fault that your mother got into this vice. It could be some unresolved issues in the past when she was much younger which can recur during middle age or later in life. As of the moment, the problem mgiht seem bigger than you and so overwhelming but there is always hope. Ask for help, which you are already doing now. There are also some organizations which offer support for family members like you who are faced with some distressing problems. Try the center in Sto Rosario, i am not sure if i got the name right but i think it is Kahupayan. They sometimes advertise in sunstar with their telephone number. You can also have a support system within the family, like the ones mentioned by the istoryans here (older aunts, uncles, family friends). Your mom needs help and she got into this because of some crisis she is going through herself Being rude to her will not help. You will only hate her in the end and both of you will be losing this battle.
if all the talks has been made then wala jud effect after a given time. Ipadakop na siya. Make sure lang nga she's on drugs during that time. Ayaw kahadlok, first offense ana is only 6 months rehabilitation. Also, dili na moapeear sa iya NBI record. But still if dili gihapon, magpadayon na lang jud ka sa pag-ampo until such time nga mapandol na siya sa kaamgohan nga sayop iyang binuhatan.
2 man gud na ka problema ang naa ana.
1. physical
2. mental
ang first sayon ra na, but the 2nd one is lisud. why, because naa naman gud na sa utok sa addict nga lami ang tama.
*Mao lang jud ni ako, forced rehabilitation is not a guarantee nga maayo siya...not unless personal niya nga gusto. Trust me, I've been there.
basta if you need help, text me... 09265680483
Pray to St. Jude for your Mom. Very powerful na siya. For the impossible or desperate cases. It really works. You dont have to be catholic to pray it. Trust me on that. Mga trials ra na sa inyong life. Tanan tao naay trials magka lain lain lang ang sitwasyon. For God will never give you anything he knows you cannot handle. So take things one day at a time lang. That's the only advise i can give you. More on spiritual because when nothing seems to work, dont forget prayers. Actually it should be the first one you should try is to pray. But i know most people just want to get into the heart of matters. But when all else fails, prayer is very powerful. Dont lose hope about your Mom.
the sad thing about using is that only your mom can stop it and if she has a compelling reason and will to do so. get a private and professional treatment. i also have had heard success stories of former addicts stopping on their own as long as the family intervenes and does it consistently. you can also ask about AA meetings at redemptorist.
try to communicate sa imung dad, also sa imung mga igsuon para, atleast maka gather ka ug idea. try to consult sa imung mga relatives.. e open na sa ilaha kay kung imuhon lang na nimu, lisod jud na..
ur dad is the best person to solve this prob. he must have known about this also. talk to daddy, or ur mother's family. seek hellp from them, u cant solve this alone
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