Which one do you choose?

[azaleayve]

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Most of us would pick the 2nd option... But what if,

We love that someone who loves us for what we are not than the person who loves us for who and what we are? that we are trying to change ourselves for that person to accept us and we tend to forget our true self and change it because we know he won't love us back if we wont?

Thought the sad part of it, is that if we tend to change ourselves to be that someone he wants us to become, we lose our own selves...that is called "the me that I lost".. but if we changed ourselves out of freewill, i guess, there is no problem in choosing the first, if we really love the first person though

[yaj.em]

Most of us would pick the 2nd option... But what if,

We love that someone who loves us for what we are not than the person who loves us for who and what we are? that we are trying to change ourselves for that person to accept us and we tend to forget our true self and change it because we know he won't love us back if we wont?

Thought the sad part of it, is that if we tend to change ourselves to be that someone he wants us to become, we lose our own selves...that is called "the me that I lost".. but if we changed ourselves out of freewill, i guess, there is no problem in choosing the first, if we really love the first person though

may tama ka sis
nakatry pd ko na gihimo jd nku tanan ug ng-usab jd ko para lang ma accept sa taw na ako gi love, and naging successful pd bya. ng kauyab jd mi... infairness mn pd gd nya, she want me to change para sa kauyohan nku. And if dili pd tungod nya, dili pd ko kamata ug makat-on. So worthy ra pd tanan nku pag usab sa ko kaugalingon para nya. Because I am becoming someone na iya gipangita na dili ako sauna (which is more better pa).

PERO

"Be with someone who loves you for what you are not or Someone who knows everything about you but still love inspite of it?"

Choose jd ko sa second one, that is if dili nku love ang first one.
(meaning, i am willing to change for the first one if love nku xa)... tanga na kung tanga, we are all stupid when it comes to love anyways

[Merchant Joed]

I'd go sa 2nd choice... eventually mulutaw man jud ang true personality nato kung madugay ang relationship... it's the accepting that helps the relationship go on...

[ambotani21]

maybe there are some reasons to consider when choosing the 1st opt

sometimes a satisfying lie can do more good than the awful truth.

just don't pretend as someone that you are not.

[pinkcount3ss]

mao na kung makig uyab ko or nanguyab pa alng sya nako ako na jud ipagawas akong tinuod na batasan.. para di ko maglisod ui.. lisod bya ng cge ra ka pretend.. kapuy kaau...

[YaeL]

2nd one.. syempre geting 2 know man sad na.. acept acept hangtod sa kaya ma acept den love love love hehe

[Crimson_Viper]

ill choose the letter

[SixSleeve]

choose both nlng TS kung pwde hehehehe

[rickflag]

perhaps the next question is will you have the guts to tell the one you love your dark past? will you take the risk of losing her/him if she knows about it?

[katski11]

I'd choose the 2nd option...