civil or church wedding?

[Edifier]

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I go for both.

Church for God's Blessings. Then Civil for legal matters.
I've heard cases that their Church Wedding was not submitted to the Civil Registrar (basta the office responsible for this). So their wedding was not valid from the start. They found this out when the woman was asking for the marriage certificate and the civil registrar found none.

[koralstratz]

nkasal n kmi s civil then ganahan bitaw q mgpakasal s church..ni ana aq bana di nlng daw ky preha lng to..importante daw kasal n kmi..kas lng s kwarta..unahin muna daw nmin un hinuhulugan nming bahay..sakto ba xa o dili?

Base on your post sis, It's safe for me to assume that you're a R. Catholic, right? Well, if both of you and your husband are Catholics, it is a MUST that you need to be legally wedded by a Catholic priest in order to receive the graces of the Sacrament of Matrimony....and also don't believe that Church wedding is that expensive, you'll only have to pay a minimal and reasonable amount for the church services........What really makes a church wedding expensive for couples is the way they celebrate it with extravagant feasts and "salo-salo" which of course is not necessary...The important thing is that both of you be legally bound in the eyes of God in the Sacrament of Matrimony (kana lagi ug mutoo mo ug ginoo.. which of course I still respect if that is the case)

Naa man gani mass wedding kun gusto mo ug libre gyud, idungan lang lage hinoun mo sa uban pang gusto magpakasal at a schedule appointed by the Church.

[butong101]

mostly, which in practice i consider irrational, is the way Filipinos spend during weddings. That's why due to financial constraints now adays most will resort to civil wedding kay gamay ra daw gasto kay dili mghikay..

but for me, bisan sa church wedding pwede rman sd dili gyud excessive and super extravagant ang hikay ba.. these days, maka sabot nman ang silingan kung dili na sila ma invite.. hehe

[nealotol]

kung naay budget diretso nalang ug church wedding, kay ang mag civil karon murag naa koy nadunggan nga ma expire kuno or contract base na siya, ambot lang kung tinood bani

[lrtañecaz]

church wedding!

[Ityan]

Church Wedding jd..

[annegela]

nkasal n kmi s civil then ganahan bitaw q mgpakasal s church..ni ana aq bana di nlng daw ky preha lng to..importante daw kasal n kmi..kas lng s kwarta..unahin muna daw nmin un hinuhulugan nming bahay..sakto ba xa o dili?

sis pwede man magpa church wedding with a lesser expenses.daghan naman package karon nga barato.or pwede ra sad sa house ang reception.mogawas ra man na ang mga pledges unya from family & friends.hope ma enlighten imong husband nga most girls mao gyud na ang dream nga mopaso sa church.

[Lance_08]

it all depends sa budget bro....church is always better though

[AutomaTed]

i think its not important na to have a church wedding since you were legally married thru civil. gastos lang na kaayo.

[jLuspoc]

TS, ma civil o ma church wedding ang importante diha nga ngaka sinabot mo sa imong bana, malinawon mo ngkuyog ug happy mo.

naa uban nga wala sila makasal sa simbahan (tagsa² ta ug mga rason), ang uban tungod ky wala siguro budget (syempre normal nga mgpakaun kas mga bisita ug mga silingan samot na kung naa ka sa probinsiya, unya kay lagi walay budget nya kinahanglan na jud makasal sa mga rason nga ilang gipang kuptan mao ngpa civil nalang), ang uban ky bahin sa relihiyon. ang naka pait lang kung civil kay ignun daun sa uban nga "walay grasya gikan sa Ginoo, kay dili daw sagrado, dili pod magdugay mgka buwag ra daw gihapon", naa pod uban mo ingun nga "Dili daw legal ang civil wedding"

naa pod uban nga bongga kau ilang kasal sa simbahan, Mayor, Konsihal ug mga Judge pa ang mga principal sponsor pero pila ra ka tuig ngka buwag, sa bisan unsa nga rason.

ayaw i-pressure imong kaugalingun bahin ana nga matter ky gamay ra kaau na. wala ta kabalo human ninyo ma fully paid ang inyong balay mo ingun na daun si hubby nimo nga mgpakasal mo sa simbahan... bisan asa nga simbahan, oh di ba? double pa jud inyong pgka tie. matud pa ni Edifier "Church for God's Blessings. Then Civil for legal matters."