Is being "hard-to-get" still in? or is it being "easy" ?

[papzkie]

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I agree. haha..

But most guys nowadays just give up after one sign of rejection. or sometimes, they wont even bother trying 'coz there are many girls who are easy to get nowadays.

mu ingun ra sila "ah, di ko ui.. kapoy!"

Pasabot ana TS wala jud na ganahe ang guy sa girl

[bowee]

*nod nod* you have a point...

but say, that the girl does like the dude, but doesn't want to seem 'easy'. in most cases, the guy takes it as "oh, she's not interested in me".

opportunity loss. hahaha

depende g.unsa nimo pag pa hard to get...

if you show interest pud sa guy.. in a subtle way.. pero playing him hard to get gamay.. ok ra na..

as long as you show interest in the guy.. and you give him hope nga soon youll say YES to him...

^^ mugukod jud na ang guy nimo

[ulyssa_marie]

depende g.unsa nimo pag pa hard to get...

if you show interest pud sa guy.. in a subtle way.. pero playing him hard to get gamay.. ok ra na..

as long as you show interest in the guy.. and you give him hope nga soon youll say YES to him...

^^ mugukod jud na ang guy nimo

hahahah you make it sound like fishing -- reel it in, then release, then reel it in again, then release! hahahahah

ka lingaw

[istoryamember]

depende ra na sa guy if ganahan jud siya sa girl, magdugay jud na bahalag pakipot kaayo ang girl.

[2kELEVEN]

naa man lagi.. pena hard to get..dugay jud ni abot jud nag ka sila. dugay ayo gi sugot ako migo sa ako miga...

nya diay to... easy go ra pod ila situation... Dili jud na mag matter wue...

Easy come - Easy go...lols

[annerhexian]

its the attitude of the guy..
bisag hard to get pa ka or easy to get
if ga duwa ang lalaki
aw padaplin kay ma hit and run jd ka sa taman. hahahaa

[botoy0917]

Yah, hard-to-get is still in! I always believe in this: Men are hunters, if they know that the one they are hunting are hunting them, they would lose interest.

Easy come, easy go!!

sakto jud ni oi...

may nang ma challenge sad me mga laki. hehe.
pero ayaw palabi. basin mapul.an pud bah.

[ulyssa_marie]

Question: many of you say "not too much", or "ay palabi"

What's the limit ba? haha i mean, when do you guys start to think "enough na"

[Klave]

Admit na lang...You really really like the guy!

Otherwise, you will have to change your perception a bit.
How seriously do you take relationships?
If you do take relationships seriously, don't you need to find out more about that person for you to decide if he has potential in being a good boyfriend?
Don't you want to experience him being a friend first? Rather than giving him certain access to yourself right away.
Are you sure he takes relationships seriously as well and won't just leave you?
Are you sure that he will be the type of guy that will make you a better person?

The point is rather than thinking about when is the right time to say yes, focus on why you would like a relationship with this person.

If all your questions are answered even if it took one day, then why not? You are sure with your decision right?

[ulyssa_marie]

Admit na lang...You really really like the guy!

Otherwise, you will have to change your perception a bit.
How seriously do you take relationships?
If you do take relationships seriously, don't you need to find out more about that person for you to decide if he has potential in being a good boyfriend?
Don't you want to experience him being a friend first? Rather than giving him certain access to yourself right away.
Are you sure he takes relationships seriously as well and won't just leave you?
Are you sure that he will be the type of guy that will make you a better person?

The point is rather than thinking about when is the right time to say yes, focus on why you would like a relationship with this person.

If all your questions are answered even if it took one day, then why not? You are sure with your decision right?

Hahah great advice.

Im not asking for advice on being easy or hard.

I posted this thread coz i observed that girls like being easy coz boys like easy girls. It's like all the easy-to-get girls usually have all the guys swarming around them while all the girls who are pakipot are either single or left out.

So i wanted to see people's opinions here... let me just add this to the thread post so people will see it.