Tips for being a great wife

[zakidog]

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@ tolstoi...

huh.. taasa ato bro oi..

nice. worth imo time pag basa..hihihihihi

[tolstoi]

^^take it from weedmeister :mrgreen:

[WinFlo]

observe lang ko diri. kailangan sad ni naku. i'm not striving for perfection coz nobody's perfect. i'm striving to be the best wife to my husband.

[rey04]

best tip: just shut up your mouth and eat his thing!!!!!

[Ms.Beau]

best tip: just shut up your mouth and eat his thing!!!!!

then you cant?

[rey04]

its a vice versa thing MISS BEAU......

[charmz_fire]

ThE WaY To A MAn'S HeArT iS ThRouGh His StoMaCh...

StuDy CuLinARy ThEn BooSt HiS AppEtiTe... HehHEhEh bOoSt HiS AppEtiTe On SomE OthEr ThiNgs Too.

ReAd KAmA SutrA. WAtCh KamA SuTrA DaGhAn Man Na VerSIon... DaGhAn mAn EAsY To FoLLoW PoSitIons DiDto... wALa ko NagBinUanG HAp!

StUDy ShIaTsu.. KanAnG ThaI MassAge... OR UnSa Pa... NaHan KaaYo Na Ang MgA LakE mAgPamaSahe EspEciALLy KuNg StREnOuS KaAyo Sa Work.

Don'T Be LoSyANG... Be ThaT HoT MoMMA eVen If You StiLL HAVe KiD, ThAt Is NoT An ExCuSE... MAkEs Him WaNNa SaY 'Oh LaLa' EvEryTime He SeeS You...

GiVe Him A LiTtLE BiT OF SpAce, If He WanTS To PLay BaSkEtBaLL, PokEr, OR WaTeVer WiTh HiS FrieNDs... GiVe Him ThAt.

"Plain women are always jealous of their husbands.... beautiful women never are"

Be SeNSiTiVe To YouR HuSbAnd. LiSten To Him... DoN'T Be SuCh A NaGGeR.

dOn'T OpEn YouR MouTh UnLEss you HAve SoMeThinG Nice To SaY.

HoPe ThiS HeLpS... HeHeHe... GamBate KudAsaI!

nice..pwd ka nang...mag-asawa.. hehehe

[zakidog]

best tip: just shut up your mouth and eat his thing!!!!!

bro, saon pag eat sa iya thing kung shut iya mouth..

[shiftleft]

Seven ways to avoid desperate times in your marriage
From Every Woman’s Marriage
By Shannon Ethridge

1. Thank God daily for your husband, mentioning specific attributes that you admire and appreciate.
Ask God to show you some specific ways that you can be a blessing to your husband that day, then be still and listen. Ask God to help you hold your tongue when needed and to speak the truth in love when needed. Express your desire to keep your heart soft toward your husband and for his heart to be drawn lovingly toward you as well.

2. Chase away each negative thought about your husband with three positive thoughts.
It’s OK to pray for God to change him or sharpen him in some way, but avoid complaining to God as if you don’t appreciate the gift he’s given you in your husband. Acknowledge that you don’t have the insight to know what your husband truly needs, then trust that God knows (and will deliver) all that your spouse needs to become more Christ-like. Also, each time you pray for God to change something in your husband, ask him to change three things in you.

3. Thank God for the opportunities you have to create a happy home environment for your husband and children.
If you don’t enjoy housecleaning, laundry, cooking, decorating, and running errands, or if your work outside the home doesn’t allow you the luxury to focus on such tasks very often, ask God for the grace to do what you can to make your house a place your family wants to come home to. Frequently remind yourself that your family and home life are your priorities and that what you do for your husband and family counts for all eternity.

4. If you are feeling crabby, give your husband fair warning that you just don’t feel like yourself and perhaps need some time alone to relax, take a bubble bath, read, pray, or do whatever else will help to calm you.
If he can’t give you that time, call a friend and ask her to take care of the kids for a little while, offering to do the same for her when the need arises. Our emotional and mental health can be fragile at times, so we have to handle ourselves with care when we’re feeling out of sorts, being careful not to damage our relationships.

5. Because our disappointments are most often fueled by unmet expectations, avoid filling your mind with contrived ideas of what your husband “should” be like.
Don’t compare him to other men and harp on the ways that he just doesn’t measure up. Especially avoid comparing him to characters on television, in movies, or in romance novels, as these forms of entertainment paint very unrealistic portraits of how men typically conduct themselves in relationships.

6. Don’t put on your husband’s shoulders the burden of responsibility to meet all your emotional needs.
Rather than blame him, remind yourself that getting your needs met is your responsibility, not someone else’s. Look to God first, then other family members and female friends to satisfy some of your cravings for connection. Also keep in mind that he’s not a mind reader. If you feel there is something you need that he can provide, don’t hesitate to simply ask for it.

7. Take care of yourself by getting plenty of rest, balanced nutrition, and consistent moderate exercise, and avoiding unnecessary stress caused by over-commitment.
Often the discontentment and disillusionment that a woman feels in marriage aren’t as much about her unhappiness with her husband as about her feeling too tired, too fat, too sedentary, or too busy. All these issues can easily spill over into the marriage relationship, allowing the wife’s misery to negatively affect both her and her husband, not to mention their children and other loved ones.

[Zahara]

@shiftleft : nice advice again. Actually, all of us knows na unsaon pagpanindot sa atong marriage. Makalimot lang ta kay gikapoy or gisapot, etc...

@mata_hari : thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it.

@rey04 : i don't know what to say to you... I know what you're saying but sometimes, dili jud sakto ani nga thread.