Hubby is barkadista

[Ms.Beau]

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@Zahara: so he was not like this at all before? Or barkadista jud siya daan pa sa una?

[baruto]

naa moy giawayan nga wala jud ma resolve till this very day? basin naa cya problema nga dli lang jud nya masulti nimo... basin ikaw iya problema (seryus ko)... try going out nga kamo rang duha (as in no kids hap).. storya mo beh... and pray...

[Zahara]

rey04 : excuse me. Im sure dili bati akong nawong 'no. In fact, it was him who pursued me relentlessly before...and cyay gadali dali minyo.

For him man gud, i've committed the worst crime a wife is capable of. But para nako, dili ra man big deal. Kay cheating man ang pinaka-big deal and i've never cheated in my life!!! So our issue is not about cheating...

[dexterdal]

well unsa may inyong g awayan... ayaw lang mention ug mga names, para in case. basin maka tabang mi nimo

[labyrinthbw]

yeah, cheating may be a big deal for you.
but for him, what you've done wrong must be a very big deal too!!!
i don't think he would act that way if he thinks otherwise.
sometimes, we just have to accept that we and our respective partners have different thoughts.
you'll have to respect the way he thinks how things are...

[Zahara]

well unsa may inyong g awayan... ayaw lang mention ug mga names, para in case. basin maka tabang mi nimo

Tnx jud but its too personal. Tabangi na lang ko unsaon pag-cope ani nga problem day to day

yeah, cheating may be a big deal for you.
but for him, what you've done wrong must be a very big deal too!!!
i don't think he would act that way if he thinks otherwise.
sometimes, we just have to accept that we and our respective partners have different thoughts.
you'll have to respect the way he thinks how things are...

Yeah, you're right.

naa moy giawayan nga wala jud ma resolve till this very day? basin naa cya problema nga dli lang jud nya masulti nimo... basin ikaw iya problema (seryus ko)... try going out nga kamo rang duha (as in no kids hap).. storya mo beh... and pray...

Yeah, he told me that im his problem. But what can i do? Im trying to change and it cant happen overnight. He should cut me some slack. Im human.

[tolstoi]

well unsa may inyong g awayan... ayaw lang mention ug mga names, para in case. basin maka tabang mi nimo

boy abunda pud ni c dexterdal dah..nice try bai =)

bitaw Zahara unsa man gyud inyung giawayan? para maka huna2x pud mi unsa i-advice nimo..bweheheh

[dexterdal]

boy abunda pud ni c dexterdal dah..nice try bai =)

bitaw Zahara unsa man gyud inyung giawayan? para maka huna2x pud mi unsa i-advice nimo..bweheheh

hehehehe, btaw serious to akong pangutana, kay i was in the same situation sa una. kay grabe man ko ka barkadista. Lisod man gud mohatag ug advise kung wala ka kebaw unsa ang hinungdan sa away. Cause if its too personal wala nalang unta ni g abli na thread, opening this thread is personal enuff.

[zakidog]

Tnx jud but its too personal. Tabangi na lang ko unsaon pag-cope ani nga problem day to day

a lots of prayers will do.

[Zahara]

hehehehe, btaw serious to akong pangutana, kay i was in the same situation sa una. kay grabe man ko ka barkadista. Lisod man gud mohatag ug advise kung wala ka kebaw unsa ang hinungdan sa away. Cause if its too personal wala nalang unta ni g abli na thread, opening this thread is personal enuff.

Personal na man gud kaayo. Sorry kay maglisod kog open up. Basta akoa kunong fault. Pls understand. Di lang ko gusto i-spread sa tanan. And thank you diay for your willingness to help. Try helping me by giving general advice lang.