Is it right to stay in a relationship just because you have kids with him?

[jntio]

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mka luoy ang bata

[MoeHan]

Work it out first, If dili na... why stay if it wont be settle..

[dimplesheaven]

Mahirap to be in a broken family... If married naman gud sometimes you need to offer selfless love...Consider all angle and not just your own personal happiness...Try to look back on how you started and rekindle the memories of the love that you once shared... Huwag padalos2x ng decision..

[Blackjellybean27]

my parents tried to make it work long after i was born. ending k i always see them fighting. in fact the "war scenes" were so bad, it affected me so much i would pretend i was not feeling well so i don't have to go to school. i just hated everything in school that time 'cause i didn't understand what was going on at home.. anyway, they finally separated when i was 10.. then got back together when i was 12, then separated again when i was 14.. they got back together again when i was married, hmm when i was 21 or 22 years old.. anyway, i was always happier when they were separated. things at home were just stressful if they're together..

i also separated from my husband. we have kids of course.. but things were not doing so good. we were having a hard time working it out. it got to a point when my eldest daughter cried because she witness a really ugly fight between me and my husband.. sometimes you just cant avoid fighting in front of the kids when you get really pissed off..

so my answer to your question is, you don't have to stay if it's not working out. making the kids your reason to stay is a lousy excuse.. if you can't stand the person, then move on. Good luck with your decision TS.

[cromagnon]

mag buwag ang minyu , unsa na kaha ang di minyu . unsa na kaha ug uyab2 palang ny awala pay anak..

[r51d3r19]

If it's not working anymore then so be it...LEAVE.

about the kids...for me it's better wala pa sila kasabot kay mao lagi bata pa. at least you still have time to explain it to them everytime they will ask and while they were still young. it may be difficult at first but sooner or later all of you will going to get over with it.

[baloy]

the kids suffer more if they see the parents fight. peace at home is best for kids. after effects of parents separated are less traumatizing to kids than living in one roof and kids seeing them fight.

[cromagnon]

and shall kids will have step fathers , whahaa

[KASAAC]

I think it's better for the kids to see their parents separated yet actually civil to each other, kesa seeing their parents live under the same roof pero sige ra pud ug away.

I agree to this.

[Metz]

kung di na matabang then leave.
para nako mas maayo ang future sa bata nga buwag ang parents but civil and very supportive, kaysa nagpuyo lagi but ga pretend lang and cge away. mas bati noon ang environment so luoy kaayo ang bata.

although dili ko minyo when this happened.

and when I say supportive dili lang cash ha, you have to be there for the kid.