Teenage Pregnancy?

[captpoloy]

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murag kun mahitabo ni nako (simba ko lang!!!!) maglisod jud ko ug dawat... so mao na samtang gagmay pa ang mga bata we make sure na buhong sa saktong mga values ang among matuldo sa among mga anak...

[JSL]

wa na au

[ms_chief85]

i have a different understanding to this case.

for example, i am the father, and my daughter is already in college

if she gets pregnant
then
she is good in school and her being pregnant does not affect what i am spending for her
then
no problem.
but
if she is pregnant and her grades are failing and is ruining her life
then
that is not a good thing to ponder.

for as long as she is working on something that i am spending for her, which is in fact, for her future and her future family, then i wont have to worry about it. she must learn how to deal with her pregnancy without harming her education.

pero ang gasto sa pagpanganak, adto na sa bana/lalaki kung angkonon.
kung dili gani, dawaton ghpon.




but as soon as my daughter graduates from college or my funds for her schooling has drained, wala nako mabuhat nya. thats as far as i can go. she needs to decide for herself. after all, its her future. not mine.

kung highscool pa sya unya mabdos, dukol kadiyot unya dukol sad ang laki.

na happen nani nko...gdawat ko sa ako dad kay graduating nman sad ko college and i dont have failing grades..and while im still preganant nag cge ghapon ko school til the month na schedule ko for birth...then absent ko for almost one month sa school then rest rko pila ka days then school ko bali. to think CS pa jud ako delivery....then after sa sem pasar ghapon tanan....nka cope up jud tawn ko sa ako mga kuwang..

[evs]

this is not ok but what can you do, nothing but accept the fact and support the pregnant teen. this also serve as a lesson to parents to be vigilant and talk to their kids about *** education. the problem with some filipinos is that they are not open when it comes to ***, they ignored and avoid talking about as if it's still a taboo, which is ridiculous. we have to face reality that some teens will engage in *** unfortunately and without guidance and education on responsible *** then they are bound to be pregnant or get STD's.

[d`monyita]

kids think they are invincible. probably because they are IGNORANT. as what evs said... dapat talga educate ang mga kids natin.... and the responsibility lies greatly on the parents ra ba gyud.

as with any illegitimate pregnancy...my suggestion is always... DO NOT CREATE A BIGGER MISTAKE by forcing the kids to marry. and DO NOT let the father sign the birth certificate. kung later on they are responsible na and they decide to marry... eh di mabuti... but if the father signs and the mom later on marries someone else and they want to migrate abroad or whatever... sus dami daming kyaw kyaw yan sa DSWD.

if the father gives... then let him... but dont let him acknowledge on paper....tutal mas lamang bitaw kayo... the kid is with the mom.

[mheil]

mao na resulta sa mga teenager nga sayo mag biga biga....

well, we cant stop them.. its their life...so, let the baby born don't do stupid things like abortion... coz, wen the bb came out, its the best and the most precious gift of all...

dont force the father to marry the girl, let them decide if they want to get married or if they mature enough for the responsibility and most of all, if they feeling will last forever... they should examine their attitude if they can live together and understand each other... so it will go on separtation for the next years to come...

[aGoi..]

technically it's not ok.. but then again, the child is a blessing. so dawaton nalang jud. pero about the marriage thing and child support, well that's a different story.

[khymm]

its not ok.. dili pana sila ready ug wala pa na sila naka-enjoy ila teenage life..
too sad to say, ang mga teenagers nowadays mga liberated na kaau.. sayon2x ra na nila ug buhat na dili mag-think what are the consequences..
my younger bro got her gf pregnant! to think 19 years old pa silla! wa pa sila ka-graduate college and they both quit school!

[joeyx2000]

dili na ok...pero if dili jud molugnut, ok ra

[Wadexx]

Some say it's not an easy game, where in fact it's NOT even a game!

bawal jud ni cia!