nganong dili manko pinangga sa akong mama?

[Sol_Itaire]

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nganong dili ko pinangga sa akong mama?
tungod ba bisexual ko? tungod ba ga skwela ko nga lain taw(my partner) nag support naku? tungod ba mas datu ako bro? and he have baboyan? and tungod sad nga ako bro nag gastos niya after this first week of nov na admit siya?
sometimes before i was really think nga love ko niya but after all i really feel nga pinangga kaayu niya ako bro and iya jud isagpa naku in every time we talk iya ko ikumpara and iya i shout sa tnan ako jud bro gagastos niya nga bout huna-hunaon i spent 2k+ man sad and all hospital bill niya is 5k+ rman and my partner sad sige atiman iya tambal daily and hapit ko naundang kay ako enrolment ako gigastos iya tambal.
before when i was kid permi naku kadungog nga better jud ako bro kai naku and now i ask her "ma ok raba mag apil2 ko sa business sa ako bro?" ana siya ayaw nalang kai naa baya dimalas sa kasosyo, then wala lang ko inom lang tubug then lakaw. sakit ayu ako dughan i wanna stop and go abroad nga dili na siya kta naku. and sometimes magyawyaw ko kay badlongon naku siya kai bawal iya gipanghimu then anaon noon ko HAWA RAGUD DIHA IKAW MAN MOPATAY NAKU, i know our mom always know what is good for us but not in my case.

ey, sakit jud gipanulti ug gipangbuhat sa imong mama. sayop gyud siya. but then, you can't dwell on that coz changing her attitude is her job, okay? in other words, iya na nang problema.

sa imo pod, you are doing things that she might think are unacceptable. basin dili siya kadawat nga nag live-in kag laki. she might not be open to the homosexual lifestyle kay di gyud niya ma take. so, respetar nalang gamay sa iyang sensibilities. you can live far from her. maayu pa nang layu kay mingawon pa siya nimo. she will also have time to reflect on herself.

ug ayaw nalang apil-apil sa negosyo sa imong bro kay wa man kaha ka gipaapil? na hala pag negosyo nalang og imo.

unconditional love is hard to come by. that's why we have God, kay siya atong ideal of that concept of love. we humans are on different levels of consciousness/enlightenment so that we can't love unconditionally. we just love when things benefit us--when the person is rich, handsome, pretty, agreeable. so, sabta nalang nang imong mama. she doesn't feel unconditional love. dawata nalang na and move on. ikaw, you can work on having that kind of love. you love her despite her character flaws.

good luck.

[froi]

ey, sakit jud gipanulti ug gipangbuhat sa imong mama. sayop gyud siya. but then, you can't dwell on that coz changing her attitude is her job, okay? in other words, iya na nang problema.

sa imo pod, you are doing things that she might think are unacceptable. basin dili siya kadawat nga nag live-in kag laki. she might not be open to the homosexual lifestyle kay di gyud niya ma take. so, respetar nalang gamay sa iyang sensibilities. you can live far from her. maayu pa nang layu kay mingawon pa siya nimo. she will also have time to reflect on herself.

ug ayaw nalang apil-apil sa negosyo sa imong bro kay wa man kaha ka gipaapil? na hala pag negosyo nalang og imo.

unconditional love is hard to come by. that's why we have God, kay siya atong ideal of that concept of love. we humans are on different levels of consciousness/enlightenment so that we can't love unconditionally. we just love when things benefit us--when the person is rich, handsome, pretty, agreeable. so, sabta nalang nang imong mama. she doesn't feel unconditional love. dawata nalang na and move on. ikaw, you can work on having that kind of love. you love her despite her character flaws.

good luck.

very well said. sakto jd.

[yhokz101]

you mom loves you in her own ways.. take it constructively lang pod. don't be bitter and be thankful maski unsa man gani.. naa jd na cya reason y ana cya but that doesn't mean dili ka nya love or pinangga.. pinangga man gani nang mga baktin sa ilang mga inahan na anay.. tao pa kaha. love her in return unconditionally..

[epoaxlan]

i think love ka sa imong mama, though she didnt show it the way you want it..bacn sa imoha sis d kau sya ka express sa iyang love nimo kay d tngay kau mo soud..sakto man iya ingon nga dna lng ka apil2x sa negosyo sa imo bro kay tinoud man gyud mag away jud na ang business partners ay hadlok sya nahitabo na ninyo kay igsoun bya mo..sa amoa lng sis negosyo ray giawayan sa akong mga ante ug uncle hangtod karon wala ga tingog..

[treize]

ambot lang, pangutan-a lang imong mama..

[KASAAC]

she has a reason why she's being hard on you TS but whatever that is, never take it negatively... do what you think is right and beneficial for you and your family...

[binarypill]

she just feels "uncomfortable" around you. you aren't exactly what she expected. you have to remember, she is not only your mother. she is also a sister, a daughter, a neighbour, a friend, etc. etc. these things weigh on her behaviour around you.

[emjee17]

prangkahi na imung mama pero tarunga lang sad arun di atakihon.
at least makahibaw siya how you really feel when she's treating you that way. TAO sad ka. Naay emosyon ug pwede masakitan.