I m still in love with my ex boyfriend

[bellah]

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hunahunaa na maayo sis kon angay paba ka mobalik niya ug hinumdumi kon giunsa sad ka niya pagdala dili kay modritso dritso ka ug decision...hinoon imo ma ng decision..

sis.ing ana nku ka blind niya,,

[bellah]

bantog ra sa sinultian pa lang kay teenager pa ug dating...hehehe

anyway move on girl. you're still too young, daghan pa ka ma meet nga guy...

daghan bitaw ko na meet na guy.dili gihapon ko happy kay naa jd kulang..huhuhu

[butong101]

wait..wala paku kahibaw if happy ba siya sa iyang new gf now..ask sa ko niya girl,

ma happy man xa o di sa iyang present girlfriends, it should have been none of your business anymore..
usahay mg illusion ta nga dinhi ra ang taw ma happy nato..
nga feeling nato kita ang best para niya..
for example makabalo ka nga dili sila ok sa iyang present gf, maka ingon ka nga.. ako ra gyud ang para nimo.. ako ray maka sabot nimo, ako ray ni love nimo.. etc..

pero dapat nato dawaton ang kamatuoran, nga wala na silay gusto nato..
the mere fact that she left you, naka uyab ug lain..
is more than enough reasons for you not to hold on..
sayon isulti pero lisod buhaton..
remember, letting go is a constant process of letting someone go, until such time that you have totally moved on..
ako pasabot, make it a constant effort nga mo let go ka niya ug mo palayo niya..
he's not worth keeping..

just my two cents..

[organizedchaos]

you need to stop living in the past and start living at the present TS... dili pana true love oeiz.. you've got a long way to go.. Do not let an old finished relationsip ruin the rest of your life...

[medwarc]

you need to stop living in the past and start living at the present TS... dili pana true love oeiz.. you've got a long way to go.. Do not let an old finished relationsip ruin the rest of your life...

very well said... 19 pa ka TS. much better focus sa ka sa imo study...

[bellah]

ma happy man xa o di sa iyang present girlfriends, it should have been none of your business anymore..
usahay mg illusion ta nga dinhi ra ang taw ma happy nato..
nga feeling nato kita ang best para niya..
for example makabalo ka nga dili sila ok sa iyang present gf, maka ingon ka nga.. ako ra gyud ang para nimo.. ako ray maka sabot nimo, ako ray ni love nimo.. etc..

pero dapat nato dawaton ang kamatuoran, nga wala na silay gusto nato..
the mere fact that she left you, naka uyab ug lain..
is more than enough reasons for you not to hold on..
sayon isulti pero lisod buhaton..
remember, letting go is a constant process of letting someone go, until such time that you have totally moved on..
ako pasabot, make it a constant effort nga mo let go ka niya ug mo palayo niya..
he's not worth keeping..

just my two cents..

huhuhu...sakto jd ka sis..nakuha jd nimo ang wala nku ma sabot sa ako self ako try sis if mo effect bah u gi sulti sa akoa..much better dili nlang nku siya replayan if mo ym siya nku,then stop nku think about him,..thanks au sis..i owe you for this,..

[GuyOfYourDreams]

i need some help... ,basin naa mo gamay ika advice..hehe ani ni siya 3 months lang kami ni ex bf klaro pa jd mi unya niya,blema nku kay dili nahan ako kuya sa iyaha...naa jd sigoro tendency sa nga ma lain siya??mao to na feel nku nga nag hinay na siyag palayo sa akoa...tapos mga 4 months lang kami wala siya sulti sa akoa nga mu larga siyag gawas..mao to nakig break siya nku kay bata pa daw ko according to him..ambot lang sad oi nga dli man ko mu buwag sa iyaha..gusto jd nku nga kami lang gihapon..the days passed by naka larga jd siyag gawas 5 months nami ato..pero feel lang nku kami pah..mao to wala jd ko ngita lain,,pero ingon siya 1 year ra siya didto,so pag uli niya from saudi,,sa hapit na siya naka uli nag ka lalis mi sa iyang ate,,ambot nganu to,i admit nga maldita jd ko that time...hay nku! and then,4 months ra siya diri tapos adto nasad siya gawas...mao to wala na jd ko nag expect niya,kay wala naman siyay klaro sa akoa,ma ingon lang gud nato nga ako ray nag sige og gukod sa iyaha...no other choice ngita nlang kog lain..mao to naka uyab kog ikaduha niya tapos wala sad ko mag senerious kay dah siya jd lageh akong love..gugmang maka bungog nani akoa..hehehe..ako gi buwagan ang ikaduha niya tapos,,7 months ago naa nag add sa akoa sa facebook,wala ko kaila tapos.tapos ask ko if kaila ba mi ingon man siya dali ra daw ko kalimut niya..syempre ask jd ko iyang name couz lahi baya name iya gamit..mao to karon chat2x lang mi..pero sahay mag away mi niya sa ym..dali ramn gud siya ma pikon mga storya,,I'm trying do damn hard to hold on tight and wait till he gets back to me.. but sometimes I'm having 2nd thoughts of letting go and move on.. pag nag momove on na ako saka
xa mangbubulahaw ng mundo and he would be sweet again and makes me hope again.. then he would be silent again....I think I m still in love with my ex boyfriend. We had alot of issues when we were together. He has a new girlfriend now! What do I do?

you know TS, i know what your beloved ex-bf is thinking and feeling. Atleast mga 95% exact ko about sa iya kahimtang now.. hee! hee! hee!

[bellah]

check..hehe thanks sa comments

[butong101]

huhuhu...sakto jd ka sis..nakuha jd nimo ang wala nku ma sabot sa ako self ako try sis if mo effect bah u gi sulti sa akoa..much better dili nlang nku siya replayan if mo ym siya nku,then stop nku think about him,..thanks au sis..i owe you for this,..

i've been through to that hell sis..
you can't imagine what i have gone through just to keep our relationship.. everything failed..
anyways, she's happy now with someone new..
i'm happy naman pd with my life though wala pa ko ni sulod ug relationship cz dili pako nahan..

you dont have to force yourself, let letting go become a spontaneous process..
what i did before is akong gi labisan tanan - tanang pg gukod - pg hangyo akong gibuhat..hehe
until such time i told myself its enough.. charot.. haha
dugay2x na sd noon to.. kun maka remember ko maka smile na lang ko..

dont stop thinking of him..
dont stop loving him..
since the more you do, the more you will miss him..

libog noh - but i learned that the hard way - the way of paradoxical intention.. hehe

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In psychotherapy, paradoxical intention is the deliberate practice of a neurotic habit or thought, undertaken in order to identify and remove it.[1]
Used as a counseling technique in which the counselor intensifies the client's emotional state in order to help the client understand the irrationality of the emotional reaction.


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[heisenberg69]

ka gets nako...inlove d i ghapon ka sa imo x...katong x nimo nga ganahan makipag cybers** sa imoha...

post-post ka nga maka irita siya...but inlove paman d i ka...can't you see the point TS?? she's taking advantage sa imong weakness...

ngano focus man ka anang tao na walay care sa imoha... and beside ur still 19 years old..daghan pa kaau kag pwede maadtoan or ma ila-ila...