need help with this

[monrose29]

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dont expect too much... maraming namatay sa maling akala.....

been there..done that....

go with the flow lang....

[beyee]

enjoy ur friendship with him and don't put meaning to everything he does for you coz ul only compromise what u both have now

[affascinare16]

pablingz:thanks.. ang ako lang gkahadlokan is while i'm busy showing him that he's special to me, basin he is setting an eye for another girl sad diay.. what i wanna do, kung kaya pa lng nako, is to tell him what i feel..pero d nako kaya motake sa risk..

ayki thanks, mucho girl.. lisod lng sad gud xa sabton usahai..maglibog ko kung unsa jud iyang gusto ba.. i mean, sometimes, maka.huna2x ko nga ganahan sad xa.. pero ambot oi.. libog jud


camille_16 - hope things will be easier for me.. thanks,

tylerdurden -daghan man sad possibilities gud.. i'm really confused and i'm afraid to lose the friendship..

[tylerdurden]

@affascinare16: nothing ventured, nothing gained. what's the use of your friendship, anyway when you're pining for it to be more than what it is? that's just a thorn on your side! either throw it off or embrace it and make it into something more!

...but, it's your life so do what you will

[monrose29]

sis if you afraid to loose your friendship then dont push your self kong unsay deli niya ganahan...like he said very clear to you hes not open for relationship right now...kong sa uban boys pa nah knowing nga ganahan ka gi take advantage na imong pagka babaye..so pasalamat ka nga honest sya diha nmo.. whatever hes reason is respect him as your friend.. if diha ra gyud kutob ang iya gi pakita nga pag tagad nmo as of now then accept it....coz the more nga mag cge ka think ana imong na feel karon basin og ma lahi na inyong pag tagad to each other...mas ma ayo man gud ng neutral lang ang feelings kay deli ta makasakit just for friend lang gyud..tawa deri tawa ddto...pero normal ra sad gyud na nga maka feel ta og more than friendship... control your self lang para deli sad ka masakitan ka ayo if ever at the end you find out nga na-a pay mas dako nga reason why deli sya open for relationship....

[KASAAC]

don't give up sis... sa pagkakaron lang na ang iyang nabati, we'll never know what future lies keep that fingers crossed

[disomniac]

TS we are in somewhat in the same situation guy lang ko..

anyways what happened is...i told her how i felt for her and things went ugly afterwards sakit, pila pud to ka nights na pirmi kong hubog i hated myself pity myself and all that..hehhe but i never gave up so ...


karon i regained back our friendship and even better this time, at least she is now aware, she acknowledges it and we even spend more time together na , the best part??

little friendly benefits pa..but since ur a gurl then just enjoy and treasure lang ur frenship and the moments being together dont expect more...

U see sometimes ther is no need for a commitment just to stay close and who knows dba?

[Peenut]

@TS: He makes you happy? Then, enjoy his company.
We can evade liking a friend especially if he/she makes us laugh.

Do what makes you happy.
It's better if you stay, but complicated if you let go.

[pablingz]

pablingz:thanks.. ang ako lang gkahadlokan is while i'm busy showing him that he's special to me, basin he is setting an eye for another girl sad diay.. what i wanna do, kung kaya pa lng nako, is to tell him what i feel..pero d nako kaya motake sa risk..

thats the risk jud TS. ana man jud na if naay kay ganahan, mo "sugal" jud ka, just be ready na ma "pildi" ka para dili kaau tantong sakit.

kung in-ana na gani ang sitwasyon TS na hes setting an eye for another girl then bet your last card. tell him directly. im-ni ug usa ka botelya nga redhorse, kaya ra na.

[granz]

hi, guys.. i have this stupid problem.. actually i don't really know how you call this.. am still new when it comes to relationships but there's this person whom i really like.. he's not that good looking, really but what i like about this person is that he can make me laugh without doing anything..and when he laughs, you could tell the whole world will laugh with him.. he always teases me and is always there when i needed help.. unfortunately, it's just it.. it can't go far or can't go to the next level. he made it very clear that he is not open to relationships right now..even though he doesn't know how i feel, it's clear that he is avoiding the fact that i might be attracted to him.. we are always together.. i see him most days of the week..now, i'm confused, should i continue liking him or should i just stop.. really, it just hurts knowing that he's not seeing me the way i see him..

- dnt expect to much for him nlng sis, atleast u knw from the start na asa ka kutod inyong relationship. i knw lisod sad bya na na mag false hope ka na naay ma built na relationship ninyong duha but come to think of think, ganahan diay ka sa taw na wlay kasiguradohan o dli commit sa imoha sus, ayaw nlng pag suicide sis kay ikw ray masakitan in the end.