What does a Stable Relationship Look Like?

[mr.krism]

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Basta naa ka money bro ma stable jud na gurl...

reason: ky f daghan ayo ka money feel secured naman gud na ila future. then if daghan ka money tapos d nya type imu luks pwede ka mka pa plastic surgery imu face any luks na gus2 niya maski iya crush pa...

mao ra na ako matambag bro based on xPerience....

[ritchepaul]

My Ex left me only pain 2 years ago. Every time a girl comes to me because I'm lovely but soon she gets off with the same dominance ... What for? Money? So I wonder what kind of harmony do you guys being together for years enjoy? I mean why some people are always breaking up and finding new ones while some stay together and never even anticipate a departure? If it's hard to describe then just tell me what stabilizes a female.

I'm going to ask you a question Bro:
What's your purpose when courting a girl? What's your reason?

The answer to that question partly determines those paths your going to make during the span of courtship and while inside a relationship. Whatever that answer is, review it further and you'll find fragments of your flaws.

Remember, all women may share common traits like watching drama, telenovela, shop for clothes and shoes (it may take them hours just looking for the right pair of shoes, LOL!) but surely they have different persona.

So if your going to ask what stabilizes a female in general?
Well. you'll get general answers like financial stabilty, etc.

As what a fellow istoryan sis Maitoots posted here, nothing stabilizes a female. Each female have different wants, longings, drives (some of these drives does conflict to other drives like for example: a woman may hate a guy and is in love with that same guy....at the same time)

Sometimes we need to stabilize ourselves in order for our partner to stabilize themselves.<------this is why women want their men to lead.

[maitoots]

I'm going to ask you a question Bro:
What's your purpose when courting a girl? What's your reason?

The answer to that question partly determines those paths your going to make during the span of courtship and while inside a relationship. Whatever that answer is, review it further and you'll find fragments of your flaws.

Remember, all women may share common traits like watching drama, telenovela, shop for clothes and shoes (it may take them hours just looking for the right pair of shoes, LOL!) but surely they have different persona.

So if your going to ask what stabilizes a female in general?
Well. you'll get general answers like financial stabilty, etc.

As what a fellow istoryan sis Maitoots posted here, nothing stabilizes a female. Each female have different wants, longings, drives (some of these drives does conflict to other drives like for example: a woman may hate a guy and is in love with that same guy....at the same time)

Sometimes we need to stabilize ourselves in order for our partner to stabilize themselves.<------this is why women want their men to lead.

very well said brod two thumbs up

[:: miss pani ::]

ouch naman .. tskk

me?? me and bf reached 2 years and 2 half na .. pero now ? i dont know if ok pba ni ? coz naa q BIG sala and i cant tell him well my guilt and conscience gets through me every time magsweet2 mi...
tskk bad girl...

[GOthique]

mmm maybe there's something wrong w/ u bro that the girl didn't like.. did u bother asking her for the reason why she left?

[:: miss pani ::]

yap bitaw sakto pod si ate kai kami basin 2 yrs and 6 mos nami kai naa japoy traits niya nga i dont like,,,

[Tirong-say]

Love and security mao ra man tingale na ila gipangita....IMHO lang...

[:: miss pani ::]

yup ..

and magkuwang na nang laki sa sweetness kung magkadugay...

[isidromax]

ako bro, base sa ako experience, kun gusto ka nga magdugay or eventually mag dayon jud mo (kasal) kinahanglan nga similar ang inyo mga gusto sa kinabuhi, kanang match bitaw inyo needs and wants sa life. or ang personality ninyo halos the same bitaw.
You need to be bestfriends so that it will last forever. dili lang kay uyab ang treatment ninyo sa usag usa, but also as a bestfriend. naminyo naman jud ko brod, kun unsa ang amo treatment sa usag usa 6 years ago, the same ra gihapon karon, waly na usab. bestfriend kaayo mi sa ako misis. kunmag talk mi, aw mura mig barkada, or bag-o pa nagkauyab, hehehehehehe.

[:: miss pani ::]

bitaw ana pod 2 aq miga na kung maniguwang mo kai ang mahibilin nnyuu kai ang friendship nlng jud..

ang2 naman mag biga2 pamo nga gakurog2 na inyo tuhod
hhahhaha