Love is all about the little things. When you are really, truly, in love, you don't feel the need to dress up for them. The most important thing is being with them. Butterflies are not usually present in love. You should not feel nervous when you really love someone. Love means you connect with them spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally. And love means differences, disagreements, and arguing (but not fighting) because who wants to be with someone who is the same as they are? You feel refreshed when you are with them, but not necessarily weak when you are away from them. If you think about them all the time, always, it is probably lust or infatuation, not love.
The most important thing you should consider is, can I say 'I love you' and truly mean it?
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Thread: LOVE or INFATUATION?
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08-03-2010, 07:59 AM #11Elite Member
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08-03-2010, 11:02 AM #12C.I.A.
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maybe this will help:
Triangular theory of love - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
love is so hard to understand and define..
the best way to define it is through experience..
books can be written..
theories can be created..
but real love is best defined in experience..Last edited by butong101; 08-03-2010 at 11:04 AM. Reason: add words
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08-03-2010, 11:54 AM #13
love is sharing of emotion, trust, and growth of relationship. enjoy each others company, trust each other with more secrets, you care about them as a person, not just as a girlfriend/boyfriend. you respect them. you know they have flaws, but you love them anyway. you would still love them just as much even if they gained 200 pounds whoah.. hahaha... you fight, but still love each other at the end of the day. it is about growing old together..
infatuation thats when you think of someone all the time, you go out of your way to be around him/her, and you begin to center your priorities around him/her as well. you both daydream about each other and get all crawly in your underwear... form of happy madness, brought on by huge doses of hormones...mao na mga unrealistic expectation of blissful passion without positive growth and development... nya lack of trust, lack of loyalty, and above all lack of commitment...
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08-03-2010, 01:15 PM #14Elite Member
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ambot lang...but ma know nako when it is love, or not...
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08-03-2010, 01:19 PM #15C.I.A.
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love kung I love you
infatuation kung I infatuate you...
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08-03-2010, 05:32 PM #16Junior Member
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when your with the person at your worst and not at your best.
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08-03-2010, 08:54 PM #17
Infatuation - you can't sleep, eat, work, study. etc...
Love - Pure plain acceptance. Having UPR (Unconditional Positive Regard)
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08-03-2010, 11:04 PM #18Senior Member
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Originally Posted by coolguyiam20
AGREE..sakto jud
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08-04-2010, 12:42 AM #19Junior Member
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FOR ME, when you say LOVE it means that you are definitely committed to the person that "s/he is the one" no questions ask. That you have accepted the person as a whole, and has seen and doesn't mind with that person's imperfections in life. Especially when you're a close friend and you're questioning yourself whether it is LOVE or just INFATuatIon, it's hard to tell. Though, I think if that's the case, the only way you can tell is if, s/he is the one you're thinking about each and every single time when you guys are apart. anyways,
INFATUATIon, its not love it is more LIKE to LIKE. a simple word, ADMIRATION.
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08-04-2010, 12:09 PM #20Elite Member
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infatuation, mawa ra guro na dayon, or dali ka mdsappoint niya...
love..mka acept ka bsag unsa p xa...
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