What will you do if ur ex call or text u? pls answer me...

[hunt99]

I had an ex, 1 month and half nami buwag... sa pagka karon i can tell naka move on najud ko...
4 months almost me nagkauyab...

1 month na wla mi communication after feb 6 na nagtok mi wla na text nor call.. march 6 dha xa nag paramdam nag chat xa nangumusta but wala ayo ko tubay coz i was too busy with my work.. wala lang man pud to sako, this night cge ko think okey lang bah mo text ko niya? if ako una mo text k ra kaha?? ? i mean kong ako pud mangumusta lang bah? okey ra kaha? nahan ko makigfriend sa iya para wala na gani hatred or unsa bah, but hadlok pud ko.. wala naman sako ron i already accept it naman na his happy na sa iya new girl.. kung kamo kaha ako ex textsan tika will u reply to me?? what will you do if ur ex text or call u? huhuhu.. unsaon man oi... lisod ayo... naglibog jud ko.. pls advice me ..

This was our story with my ex...,
We broke up last jan.30, 2009... It was my guy's decision that we shud have to cool off with two reasons , he just want time for ourselves daw and the reason that i was so possesive... Ako xa giingnan why shud we cool off , what if dritso nalang jud buwag coz for me ara raman pud padong, sakit kaayo sa ko part coz i really love him so much.. i was too possisive coz im afraid na mawala na xa sa ko but sayop ko kay nawala najud xa..

Possisive mean having or manifesting a desire to control or dominate another, especially in order to limit that person's relationships with others..

It all started ang prob namo last december 2008 he has an ex, 4 years sila ato, nagbuwag sila coz ang girl nakig play og lain team and mas gi prefer sa girl na mo kuyog sa lain na guy.. he met me after 1 month la break up and then he courted me for almost 1 month pud,so during sa amo relationship the girl kept on texting him pa, didto ko lagot na atong girla.. naay one time text2x mi ako bf, her ex texted him.. sa amo ag text2x naapil ang name sa girl sa iya txt nako, i freaked out cz y namention ang name sa iya ex.. then he explained na ya daw naapil ang name sa iya ex kay ni text daw nangumusta lang, he never meant it man daw, accidentally lang na sa ex niya ang name ya na text... but then, ako giaway ang girl coz y nag text2x pa niya... i textd d girl na "bitch" tungod lang pd to sako kalagot.. didto nlain ako guy kay why ingato daw ko ka freaked out!.. new year her ex called sa iya fam didto napud ko lagot kay unsa paman jud gusto sa girl y ingato pa ngita jud way na as if close jud ya fam.. nag post ko bulletin sa friendster paigo nako ya ex na sip2x kaayo, bitch , etc.. but i never mentiond a name, then after dat the girl change no.

after dat nana pud xa textmate.. didto napud ko lagot kay when i called him wala tubaga ako tawag kay nag tok xa sa iya textmyt d.i.. y ingato paman, unsa paman ya gusto.,is he not contented with me jud dat time?. he just said he want to make friends lang man daw..

we had a date last tues. and okey pa ayo mi ato.. nanghid xa na laag daw xa on saturday kay iya friends invite man niya.. ako xa ingnan if laag xa then expect na laag pud ko, di man ko pugong unsa ya gusto, di man pud xa sugot laag ko kay why daw molaag pajud ko.. its unfair dibah coz laag xa nya ako buro lang sa house xa lingaw2x...

Friday morning.. he texted me he wants us to talk daw... so i went at there bhaus 2pm... then that time he asked if am i still happy samo relationship.. and then i asked him "kaw?" he said "maybe we shud hav time for ourselves, and prob jud niya im too possesive nadaw ayo, nsakal na xa.. ya lang gusto na mag enjoy sa muna karon.. we jst let ourselves unwind muna .. maybe after dat we cud get back... sa iya man gud nauyab bfore na 4 yrs he never experienced to hang out, get drunk, and party diri didto so mao na ya nahan daw muna.. he said he love me so much but then iya lang daw, na lessen ang love coz im so possesive sa 100% maybe 70% nalang daw ang love,
so dats it even sakit kaayo sako part wala ko mahems alangan naman ako e pilit pa ako self sa iya even na dili na xa nahan so sakto ako decision end nalang jud kay adto rapud padong..
1 week samo pag ka buwag we still text each other twag2x pa and still exchange i love u's..

february 6 (fri) 1 week sa amo pag buwag we talked again and didto iya na gi tell sa ako na his courting with that textmate niya na nag date2x ndaw xla adto paman gani xa sa bhauz iya textmate... nalain jud ko.. 1 week pa gani mi nag kabuwag ingana na dayon kadali na naka court xa...

so didto na ... after dat na nahibaw an nako it was really not me ang prob kundi xa.. iya lang reason out sa ako ang pag ka possesive and nahan xa time iya self blah2x iya jud d.i main agenda is kay naa xa new girl na naganahan.. so 1 week ato wala najud naka move on najud ko... and karon uyab na sila.... wala napud ko text na niya nor mag tan aw ya friendster i erased hs no.na and also his ym..

is this still your problem sis as i remember you post your problem but in your situation sis its in your BF the problem not you wala pa siyay klaro just ask him unsa man gyud iyang reason na nag-ing ana siya if ma dawat nimo negative then mas ok na mo move on ka kysa magpasakit kag maayo mangita kag lingaw para di ka cgeg ka huna huna sa inahitabo coz someday youll find the right partner and also past is past most important is the present but imong ma dawat na tubag niya postive just observe his moves,style and attitude ky it's not yet 100% sure na matarong siya bisan tino-od laki ko onya akong past sa una reverse sad pero di man tanan tao ing-ana but mangita langl agig lingaw aron di cgeg ka huna huna sa nahitabo coz someday maka-kita raka sa imong right partner and past is past most important is the present

[drotz]

sa tinod-anay lang no,wla ko kasabot sa imo gisuwat kai pwerte gyung sakita sa mata imong color gamit sa imong font.pwede raman cgro black gamit nga font,palahi pa jud oi,lol

[Maikeru]

this night cge ko think okey lang bah mo text ko niya? if ako una mo text k ra kaha?? ? i mean kong ako pud mangumusta lang bah? okey ra kaha?

Well, there's nothing wrong kung makigFriend ka.. And there's nothing wrong kung mangumusta. So it's okey. Naa na niya kung unsa iyang hunahunaon.. basta imong intentions are clear.

kung kamo kaha ako ex textsan tika will u reply to me?? what will you do if ur ex text or call u?

If I'm your ex.. well, depende sa imong tnxan and dpnde sa situation. Probably if the situation and the way ka tx suites me then moReply q..

Anyway, yaw au kalibog.. I mean.. ayaw lang liboga imong kaugalingon.. Just pretend nga nakigFriend ka og someone you just met.. hahah (Assuming, nga friend jud imo intention )

Hope this helps..

[junie]

klaro anang lay clear imung X! move on girl. yaw sa jud commu niya til ur over him.

[elatagaw]

he's not sincere.... mao lang... if a guy courted you bisag bag-o pa sila nagkabuwag walay ayo na na guy... beware.

[ashmae_01]

at least uve moved on na sis....
forget him nlng jud kay cheater man 2 cya so no rison pra e forgiv 2 nmu or mkig frnds pka nia blik
its not ur lost 8s his lost
bt btwa naa jud uban guys na gnahan cla sa girl kanang dli cla but-an sa ila gusto bt kng sa ato gusto kusog cla mgbuot libog kau noh
at least naa nkay na learn na lesson from dt rlationship na dli nka mging posesive sa sunod rlationship nmu

[iron_v]

if naa na xa lain ky.. mejo dli kaayo ok...

[baxterbax08]

chill and relax

[jimmy128]

i didnt bother to read the story, the only thing i had to read was that you are totally over him...

look at it this way... the choice is yours..

there is no harm i'm keeping a perfectly good friendship..

you are making a problem out of something that isn't a problem at all

if you wanna make friends then sure no problem.. do not put meaning into anything that your ex does to you nor should he put meaning into what ever you will do to him..

simple as that

[shreanluck_bhing]

bkt mo p cxa ittxt...hayaan mo cxa pakita mo sa kanay n kaya mo even if wla n cxa sau..kaya lumalaki ang ulo ng mga lalake kz pinakikita natin n mahina taung mga babae...pg cnabi nilang mghiwalay nlng tau then say "OK" d mo cxa kawalan noh....if somebody broke your heart asahan mo my darating n much better p jan sa nanakit sau....matatauhan din cla n napakalaki nilang tanga at niloloko nila ang gurl n loyal sa kanila....pero be sure n wla kng sama ng loob sa kanya kz d k din matatahimik kng ung galit mo ay nasa puso mo parin..ok just forgive him and stay away....