My boyfriend and her X are close... should i get jealous?

[rhadamantus]

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honey, its all in the mind. a relationship not built on trust is deem to fail. u are supposed to talk this over with him.. i think he has the right to know how ure feeling. after all, u guys are supposed to be honest with each other, dba?

[nunobone]

do you trust your guy?? if you do then no need to be jealous..

and also we cant hide the fact that they were together,and with no asurance that they are not hiding/doing anything.. also maybe the fire is still there..
and if jealous is all you'll do, then say bye bye to your bf.

[elord]

just a thought..

be more anxious of your jealousy than with her ex-gf..

sometimes it's things like it, not people, that could lead a relationship to its virtual collapse

bai bert im not in mood ryt now.. lami kaayo kulata ug tawo karon.. ganahan ko i release akong negative feelings.. para btaw mahawasan ko.. unsa kaha sa BF lang ani para mas ok?

[DebutsAndIDos]

No, dear!
I was very close with my ex when I had another bf and I can tell you from the heart that my bf had nothing to worry about.
Nevertheless, if it's causing an issue between both of you, you need to honestly tell your bf what you feel. If he loves you, he will minimize his dealings with his ex.
They shared a past and will always feel close to each, you have to understand that. But, he also needs to see, that because he is now in relationship with you and not with her, your feelings come first.
Still, don't choke him with your jealousy. It will only succeed in driving him away.

[fd]

tskkk.. tskk.. maybe your BF still likes her? you know what they say "Love is sweeter the second time around".... the question now would be.. who he loves? or what does "2nd" mean? is it your the 2nd? or 2nd time na cla magbalik ang sweeter?

just a thought.

[fd]

No, dear!
I was very close with my ex when I had another bf and I can tell you from the heart that my bf had nothing to worry about.
Nevertheless, if it's causing an issue between both of you, you need to honestly tell your bf what you feel. If he loves you, he will minimize his dealings with his ex.
They shared a past and will always feel close to each, you have to understand that. But, he also needs to see, that because he is now in relationship with you and not with her, your feelings come first.
Still, don't choke him with your jealousy. It will only succeed in driving him away.

correct! dont choke him with your jealosy.. tell him how you feel.

[ellamae]

i have always been close with my ex boyfriends for the reason that we started out as friends so u have to take their situation into consideration but does not mean that you won't feel what your feeling i totally agree on the matter that you u talk it out with your boyfriend because men are so immature in these matter called love. I he loves you then i'm sure that he doesnt even know ur hurting.
But there are always to sides of every coin, be very watchful with the way he treats the girl amybe he chose u over the girl but deep in his subconscious he's never gotten over her. But i doubt that....
Jealousy is one of the things that can destroy a relationship and how you feel towards each other.

[kilmike]

u should!

[partypoooperz]

yeah you should..

men are polygamous in nature

[sassy_suzzy]

i understand how you feel... peeps, we should admit that sometimes, when we see our bfs/gfs talking to their exes,we can't help but feel a lil' jealousy and insecurity...

its okey for you to be jealous... but i tell you, its all in your mind... being together in one classroom does not mean anything... trust him and don't be paranoid.