dillemma

[joshbonz]

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i dont condone living in.. for all the morality sake.. i say trash it also.. BUT.. living in is not the whole be there and ends there approach..

we all know mas sayo pa gani ang relationship.. mas lami kaau.. the more it grows longer.. anha na mo magkabaw.ay sa inyong tinood nga color..


Live with yourself nalang.. and I would 100% advise you that. No ifs and buts.. your uncle needs space from you.. and you i'm sure needs space from him as well..

No mere talks for now can pacify your uncle's ire on you.. space lang sa ninyong duha ang kinahanglan..

in time, all woulds and scars would heal ra pud.. Blood is thicker than water, sure ko ana..

[lady_blackrose]

well...it was ur fault...u didnt give respect to ur uncle's house and uve done the deed there.so what can i say to u is to get a place on ur own if u can afford it.im sure ur uncle is really hurt and now u put urself in embarassment and troubles.if u can afford it...then why not get a place on ur own...but remember that if he dumped u...where will u go this time?

[Sol_Itaire]

It won't hurt to live alone for now, I SWEAR. It's good practice for everything--married life, live-in arrangement, forever-single lifestyle, whatever.

[jewel_anne10]

well...it was ur fault...u didnt give respect to ur uncle's house and uve done the deed there.so what can i say to u is to get a place on ur own if u can afford it.im sure ur uncle is really hurt and now u put urself in embarassment and troubles.if u can afford it...then why not get a place on ur own...but remember that if he dumped u...where will u go this time?

sakto sya... nagdamdam imong uncle kay sa wa sya ga expect na ingon ato ang imong mabuhat.

[Kishin888]

ayahaya ........

[jimmy128]

toinks... ka drama king gud sa imo uncle.. tungod lang na ni sulod imo bf sa imo kwarto pa layason na ka??

i don't support the idea of living in.. i'm against that... sorry but its what my religion believes in and what i believe in as well ( lets not go off topic and talk about religion coz we will go no where)

rent a place lang usah.. learn to live on your own before even "practicing" living with a guy.. coz once you two are married (if ever) you won't ever get the chance to experience living by urself anymore.

[jenny223]

yeah...0A ra jud im0ng uncle....but w0rst rasad im0ng gibuhat, u tw0 can make it s0mewhere else unta...but things already happen and di na nimu mabalik ilang trust diha nimu...


if were u,m0ve out...have ur own place....


live in?....ayaw,n0t unless mgpakasal na jud m0...

[chad_tukes]

we're in modern times now. living in is perfectly okay. if one day you wake up and go "oh, i don't wanna live with this guy anymore", then by all means, LEAVE and live on your own.

but to tell you honestly? from the way you sound, i don't think you'd survive living alone. the mere fact that nagpa control ka sa imong uncle only means that you can be totally dependent emotionally. living on your own means being independent in every aspect (physically, emotionally, etc...).

[hunt99]

guys, naa ko i share, im in a state of dillemma jd right now, hope maka share mo ug insights and share ug experiences if naa moy same situation with mine. I know some people will have harsh comments but that's fine, kay we are all entitled to our opinion and everyone has their own values and morality..

last week, nagbalik mi sa akng bf,he went to our house to reconcile , we ate, watched movies, it was around 12 am na man, so sleep na mga tawo sa house, we decided to do it in my room. After a few minutes, naay ni gawas sa room sa ubos, mine is upstairs, it was my uncle , and he knew na naa akng bf sa akng room, now he wants me to get out of the house and look for another place, and he is not talking to me na, then ni ask ug sorry akong bf, even went to talk to him the following day, gusto sa akng uncle pakasal na mi, but ganahan ko na mo move out sa balai and rent a room, but my bf wants me to live with him, unya nalang daw mi pakasal.. dili pa baya mi dugay nagka relasyon, wala pa mo 1 year. do you think mo go ko sa idea to live with him in his family's place? or mag lahi ko on my own while continuing with my relationship with him. thanks kau ninyo

no don't ayaw sa og pakasal just observe him first and ayaw sa og adto poyo sa lugar sa laki or mag lahi ka onya nana kung minyo namo gyud

[GOthique]

i dont condone living in.. for all the morality sake.. i say trash it also.. BUT.. living in is not the whole be there and ends there approach..

we all know mas sayo pa gani ang relationship.. mas lami kaau.. the more it grows longer.. anha na mo magkabaw.ay sa inyong tinood nga color..


Live with yourself nalang.. and I would 100% advise you that. No ifs and buts.. your uncle needs space from you.. and you i'm sure needs space from him as well..

No mere talks for now can pacify your uncle's ire on you.. space lang sa ninyong duha ang kinahanglan..

in time, all woulds and scars would heal ra pud.. Blood is thicker than water, sure ko ana..

+++ very well said dude....dOn't rush up things...u said uv beEn together for almost a year..it means..both of u still don't know each other that much...if u want to get away from ur Uncle..live on ur own..alone..but not LIVIN in wd Ur BF..tsK tsk..that's tOo risky..think of possible consequences.. and wHat if's..