well yah.. actually there might be no changes regarding ur past up to the present... of course there's no kilig factor already coz ur already used to those kindof stuffs that u usually do both....
as what archspace said.. u need space, so that ull gonna miss each other... that way u might bring back those kilig moments that ur seekin for...
you both need to talk... why? its unfair to his side coz as what uve said he's already planning for future.. right? now this means that he must have love u so much.... you must both balance ur time and enjoy at the same time when ur together... think of sumthin that uve never done b4... dont stay with the familiar...