it is not ideal...but sometimes situations call for it to be so...depende man na sa support group...kon kinsa gibinlan sa mga bata and how you spend time kon together mo...mag unsa man sad na sige tuod kuyog pero sige away...or kasaba the kids...or maka dungog ang kids sa kalisod ...stressful man sad sa ila....mas maayo jud together pero kon di malikayan make the most out of it na lang...and try to always talk to the kids so that they will understand and appreciate the sacrifices intawon sa parent nga naa tawn sa layo....