Are you dissapointed being the bread winner sa inyong pamilya?

[redhot itlog]

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Kapoy oi.. M not the breadwinner sa akong pamilya pero my husband is. Mglibog ka ngano kay working ang papa. Pero na grad ang igsuon og naay work.. Pero cya pa ngbayad sa haus, etc...
Hahay... Ngka-utang2 nlng akong bana bcz of dat obligation... I had to help him get free from debt pero krn ni-gara sd cya og gasto2x... Ngsalig naa koy work. Im a wife of an ofw, bt im alone in spending for my son kay ang kwarta akong bana magasto lng sa iyang self n iyang family.. Hhay, kapoy!!!

Did you ask your husband kung ganahan ba siya maglain mog balay? Kalain pud ang tanan nagtrabaho unya kamo ra nagasto para sa balay. Siguro nag salig pud sila kay OFW imong husband. Unya imong husband pud kay dili makaako ug balibad or hangyo nila na motampo sa bayranan sa balay. Na hala, pagsabot mo diha.

[redhot itlog]

well, i am not a bread winner but i know somebody who is...everything that she gets from working is given to her family and to think that they are capable of earning for themselves..and sometimes she complains that she can't spend for herself anymore and yet she's the one who's working hard... i dont think its wrong to be a bread winner but we must also remember sometimes that we also have a life of our own...let's not forget that we owe to ourselves whatever we give to our family so might as well give consolidation to yourself and relax for sometime...

mao dili nalang ka travel or bakasyon kay imong hunahunaon na ang imong igasto ihatag nalang nila. which is wrong but doing it justified everything na palabihon gyud nimo imong pamilya before yourself. tabangggg! hahahaha!

[redhot itlog]

In our culture,it is difficult for first born children since we are required to help our family. It is actually your personal choice to do so,we are not obliged but it is actually part of the journey,being one,like myself,is very rewarding,although there may be downside because you are trying to survive as well. But when all else fail,your family will be there for you. bow

Filipino culture gyud. But how I wish our next generation sa among pamilya kay everybody is working and dili na dependent. Maka barog na ang tanan sa ilang kaugalingon kinabuhi. Crossing my fingers. Hehehehe!

[dranoel]

Sometimes disappointment strikes labi na pag makakita ka nila nga nag usik usik ra ug gasto sa bisan unsa instead of contributing nya ikaw nagka utang utang to cover up all of your expenses... hahaay Faet dyud pero segi nalang. For me man gud being a breadwinner is not a resposibility I do it because I love them.

[Ronn926]

ps... nglain mi og balay...
ngsalig cla ofw akong bana, wa cla khibaw, na dago kaau ng-utang sauna pgminyo namo...
ok ra man unta bah.. na-hurt lng ko na he spent over 100,000 in 3weeks, buying stuff for himsef n family, without spending a single cent on my son or even on d gas or food that he used...

such a disappointment.. such a mistake of my part... ngano ngminyo.... basic knowledge nmn na unsa imong obligation dba... ngsalig cya naa ko work. wa cya krealize na kuwang pa iyang padala kung sa amo lng sa akong anak... lami kaau undang work para mpugos hunong gasto

[bloodyrose]

Sa akong part kami duha sa akong hubby ga work but mas dako ko og sweldo niya, I'm sad lang kay usahay ma feel nako na ga salig nalang siya sa akong sweldo...Dapat ang gatas og diaper sa bata iyaha unta ng obligasyon...Ang mga utang ako pajud iyang pabayron...faet but I love my husband sab

[estuans]

dili man disappointing kung na pakay ika hatag or ika tabang... But when time comes nga wala nakay ika dunol disappointing jud og labi na kung ikaw na ang nanginahanglan nya way mo tbang nimo samot...

[tormentor_jack]

Sometimes, kay mag depende naman lang nimo tanan.
Like it's a never ending story. How do you stop it?

that is case to case basis man gud bai.even yourself can assess kung dapat ba gyud ka pirmi mo tabang nila but don't forget to set aside for yourself because you have your own needs and wants.but im sure in that case, ngilngig na unya kaayo kag experience when it comes to responsibility.i balance balance lang gud nga dili pud ka ma alaut.

[jgp3230]

Guys remember it's the human nature working. Poor or Rich. Bisan ang taw walay trabaho pangayoan man gani sa ga trabaho. e katawa nalang sitwasyon kay sa kamaot sa sitwasyon kabalibad njud ka ana.

[mtawason]

Ikalipay lang TS nakatabang ka sa imong ginikanan.