My everyday agony as a foreigner's wife

[jdsanz]

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@TS: I cant imagine how your husband is treating you out there. He has wicked views about your country and your people. He shoudn't have come over in the first place. Yet he chose to come. One of the reasons was the "girls" that he was referring to and you are one of those girls. I wonder how you met. Needlessly to say, you proved him right.

[inc-pankz]

how the hell did u end up with HIM. . ask ur self !

[sugarStoned]

Hmm how old is the Am-guy anyways? I hope he isnt one of those oldfarts/DOM's who come here and feast on our young Filipinas. The guy is obviously ignorant. It is sad the TS married some d**che but she had a choice to begin with. My bf is a Brit/Aussie and guess how we met? He was defending me over his SOB American friend's racist remark. Makalagot lang jud nang mga taw who thinks theyre better than us. Power and money is nothing if imung batasan or principles are bulok.

[li_29phl]

well, partly sa foriegner says are true..naa pod ko friend naa cya foreigner husband suppose to be dri na mo stay pero ni balik sa gawas because he is pissed off of filipino ways..that foreigner is very kind jud.mahibulong na mn lng cya na nitunga na daghan paryente sa akong friend para mangayo ug datong and mostly wala raw discipline ang mga drivers..so amao to iya nlng gi kuyog akong friend sa gawas nya akong friend pwerteng adjust sa ilang country..

[norz21]

hello everyone,

it's been a year i got married to a white guy,so far my life has changed,financially, and emotionally as a mother. I have a 6-month-old kid. we will be flying to my husband's place next month.

my agonies are:
as a foreigner,
1.my husband think our best tourism is the girls,and that's why he came here,then he met me
2.he doesn't want our kid to live here because streets are the playground of the children,basing to what he saw
3.our politicians are corrupt,he kept asking me where our 12% vat go
4. He laughs at small shanty houses in major roads,coz for him is terrible to see,
5. he never rides PAL,or sea ships of the philippines
6.that filipino vehicle drivers are boang,no clues and never give way to ambulance
7. hospitals are too far to be alive
8.that ambulance brings you dead on arrival
9. that majority of us lives in 2 dollars a day
10. that everybody wants to leave the country
11. that government agencies is money greedy,he can prove it,
12. that majority just eat rice and fish
13.that we fight with each other
14.that we do not produce anything,if we do,no quality
15.that we suppose to have a very beautiful place but the government is busy in corruption
16. homes here dont have grasses
17. and he wonders what country's future be
and more....all these are present in his mind,i cant change it,he shakes his head to my country
i cant take it anymore,its killing me,its hurting me,i have been defending my country eversince,i always give counter reasons to my husband,but it just makes him see me as no clue too!
now,im tired defending,in the end i realize my husband is true.im leaving philippines now,if i come back,that's becoz of my family.

there's no point deffending your country when the very reason you chose to marry a foriegner is the lack of confidence in our country. he will never believe you. aren't these 17 reasons of yours, the very reasons filipina marry foriegners?
but good for u gurl, just do your best in ur hobby's country, work hard and send your family more money.

[Soul Doctor]

hello everyone,

it's been a year i got married to a white guy,so far my life has changed,financially, and emotionally as a mother. I have a 6-month-old kid. we will be flying to my husband's place next month.

my agonies are:
as a foreigner,
1.my husband think our best tourism is the girls,and that's why he came here,then he met me
2.he doesn't want our kid to live here because streets are the playground of the children,basing to what he saw
3.our politicians are corrupt,he kept asking me where our 12% vat go
4. He laughs at small shanty houses in major roads,coz for him is terrible to see,
5. he never rides PAL,or sea ships of the philippines
6.that filipino vehicle drivers are boang,no clues and never give way to ambulance
7. hospitals are too far to be alive
8.that ambulance brings you dead on arrival
9. that majority of us lives in 2 dollars a day
10. that everybody wants to leave the country
11. that government agencies is money greedy,he can prove it,
12. that majority just eat rice and fish
13.that we fight with each other
14.that we do not produce anything,if we do,no quality
15.that we suppose to have a very beautiful place but the government is busy in corruption
16. homes here dont have grasses
17. and he wonders what country's future be
and more....all these are present in his mind,i cant change it,he shakes his head to my country
i cant take it anymore,its killing me,its hurting me,i have been defending my country eversince,i always give counter reasons to my husband,but it just makes him see me as no clue too!
now,im tired defending,in the end i realize my husband is true.im leaving philippines now,if i come back,that's becoz of my family.

I hope this guy is trust worthy.
Basin ipa-insure ka didto ug dako nga kantidad--
simbako malumos lang ka
unya dayon sa inyong swimming pool.

[pugak_79]

taga asa imu husband?

[redcheek]

maybe your husband is a victim of discrimination in his own country that is why he complains like that. He may find relief in his revenge... LOL

[jforzado85]

well, he has no right to underestimate filipinos. simple, if he doesnt like philippines then he should have settled down with a woman from other country.... despite all the fact he has in his mind, he still ended up marrying u...

[joan624]

i feel sorry for the TS.. murag kung kana pa lang daan ga-rigor na imong utok, manghinaot lang ko nga magmalipayon ka sa inyong kaminyuon