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  1. #171

    Quote Originally Posted by secret tool View Post
    hello everyone,

    it's been a year i got married to a white guy,so far my life has changed,financially, and emotionally as a mother. I have a 6-month-old kid. we will be flying to my husband's place next month.

    my agonies are:
    as a foreigner,
    1.my husband think our best tourism is the girls,and that's why he came here,then he met me
    2.he doesn't want our kid to live here because streets are the playground of the children,basing to what he saw
    3.our politicians are corrupt,he kept asking me where our 12% vat go
    4. He laughs at small shanty houses in major roads,coz for him is terrible to see,
    5. he never rides PAL,or sea ships of the philippines
    6.that filipino vehicle drivers are boang,no clues and never give way to ambulance
    7. hospitals are too far to be alive
    8.that ambulance brings you dead on arrival
    9. that majority of us lives in 2 dollars a day
    10. that everybody wants to leave the country
    11. that government agencies is money greedy,he can prove it,
    12. that majority just eat rice and fish
    13.that we fight with each other
    14.that we do not produce anything,if we do,no quality
    15.that we suppose to have a very beautiful place but the government is busy in corruption
    16. homes here dont have grasses
    17. and he wonders what country's future be
    and more....all these are present in his mind,i cant change it,he shakes his head to my country
    i cant take it anymore,its killing me,its hurting me,i have been defending my country eversince,i always give counter reasons to my husband,but it just makes him see me as no clue too!
    now,im tired defending,in the end i realize my husband is true.im leaving philippines now,if i come back,that's becoz of my family.

    ubos kaayo iya panan-aw sa mga pilipinos

    kung ingon ana siya mo descriminate why man nga gi minyuan ka niya? so beware SIS muabot ra ang time nga e look down rasab ka ana niya, tungod anang iyang perception sa mga filipino, bitaw tinood dili ikalimod pero dili unta mag ingon ana siya kon love ka niya as a Filipina..

  2. #172
    Racism is ignorance. Your husband is partly right but i think no country is perfect. Basin taga heaven na imung bana kay perfectionist man kaau na cya. Mura sad nag dili sila mulinya sa ila para sa mga free foods da! Hasta gani cents sa ilang bill,riklamo daun. Nganong wa man cyay salig sa hospitals dire? Na ICU na cya dire? Ayaw niya ipageneralize tanan kay it strongly shows how uneducated and ignorant he is! Goodluck nalang geng basin himuon kang maid the moment u get there.

  3. #173
    basing from his opinion about our country, hes either super rich or extremely arrogant! if i were u id divorce him right away. criticizing ones country and the citizens like that mura ra sad ug ikaw iyang g ingnan ana indirectly!

  4. #174
    Quote Originally Posted by pnoize View Post
    what an ignorant racist!

    i have an american brother-in-law who does not see the Philippines as mentioned by the thread starter. in fact, he has high respects towards the filipinos. That being said, that racist attitude usually comes from foreigners who do not read and have nothing else to do but go to porn websites.
    amen to that! my bf is a foreigner and he likes Cebu alot, he wants to settle here. before he came here he joined a community or group at msn about foreigners in cebu. He reads about the philippines that he buys 2 newpapers when hes in the philippines and when hes back home he reads sunstar online... have u ever asked ur bf if he sees anything good with the country and its people?

    and btw, wa ka na insulto na ni ari siya diri because he thinks our best tourism is the girls? did u ask him why he didnt go to thailand instead?

  5. #175
    i'm just wondering why your husband picked you as her wife? it just sounds ironic... =/

    i agree with your husband, what he's sayin' but sad to say, it's TRUE!!!

  6. #176
    Quote Originally Posted by ~*~M~*~ View Post
    and btw, wa ka na insulto na ni ari siya diri because he thinks our best tourism is the girls? did u ask him why he didnt go to thailand instead?
    bro, i know why her husband doesn't like thailand...'coz bisan bayot ngadto mailad ka kay daghan ang nagpa S*X change ngadto. =)

  7. #177
    asa na karon si TS?

  8. #178
    what wrong with PAL?

    ni react jud ato foriegn fellow istoryans..

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    for me.. daghan na pud kaayo mag minyo nga taga laing nasod.. maybe for money but i still don;t know unsa jud ang rason.. daghan reason. but i heard that one of my friend is so lucky.. he married a foreigner ka pwerteng but.ana... as pud kami nahatagan og grasya...

    for others naminyo og way ayo nga foreigners,... i felt sorry for them...

  10. #180
    all the things that her husband itemized are real concerns and i feel sadly true. The exact expression or his manner when he said those things is probably more important. If it was filled with malice, he should get the hell out of our country because another counterproductive critic is not needed here.

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