During a fight with your spouse, what's the right way to deal with it?

[Princess Padme]

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depende sa imong husband unsang approach imong gamiton. if ganahan sya ng space, ayaw sa kulitin give him a lil time pero dpat ndi matapos ang gabi na ndi na-settle un z mas madadagan pa yan. & never na matulog na magkahiwalay porket may problem.

[high_heels]

Well, one common denominator which i totally agree is PRIDE. My marriage ended this year and I'd say there's a lot of things that I learned, I know there could have been better ways for us to settle things. His immature streaks and behavior towards issues was too much. He thinks I'm sleeping around and I didn't want to secure him with his doubts. Too much is too much, now I'm happy moving on with my kids. I'm sure he'll be better off with someone...

[Raikage1]

deal with it professionally and always listen....

[bbnescia]

kami sa ako bana kng mag away mi bsan kinsang sala ako jd ang d maka agwanta, kay ako bana d jud motingog. knahanglan ra man na kng kinsay una motingog gud nya storya dayon mo, kami diri kay kng d motingog ako bana bsan iyaha sala kay ako na lambingan then ask nako siya kng suko ba, nya kng storya na gani mi aw diha nami mag open sa amo mga gibati sahay kay d na abtan ug gabii amo away, inigkatug na aw lahi napud na away gud.... ahahahaha

[juan penduko]

adto sa gawas manigarilyo.

[gkoopir]

"dili angay pa-ugmaan ang away nga dili masulbad"

I've heard this once that when you're having a fight with your spouse you should end it right there and then. settle it as soon as possible, don't let another day pass by without solving the problem.

my take on this: I'd do the exact opposite. I'll wait until cooler heads prevail like after a good nights sleep. it's hard to tackle a problem head-on when both parties are fuming mad 'coz it may escalate into something that both will regret afterwards.

opinions, suggestions and objections are welcome..

i agree with this.
You can also opt to listen and not to response with what your partner is saying to avoid a bigger fight.
If madala ra og storya, then solved it ana jud dayon.

[xxSTARLIGHT]

taLk dayun.. bati kaau nang paugmaan oie..
kami gLe sa ako uyb na dugay2x na sd mi kai among away d jd ma abtan ug adlaw..
d man gLe ma abtan ug oras.. except this one time.. amo na lang =)

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

dli man jud kalikayan, labi na kung sensitive imong partner, na ambot lng...

usahay pud, kng wala kay sala, awayun noon ka, pagkatoytoy, kasagaran raba ang girl maoy manguna, hahaha...kana mga baye, dli na sila ganahan pahulaton og dugay, kay kapoy daw huwat, kami d i mga laki, dli d i mi kapuyan og huwat? hulmigason nalang mi og hinuwat dugay kayo motunga sa sabot, may lng sa permiro, mgka dugay na gani, ambot lng, hahaha...pero dli tanan, mostly ra hahaha...mao na away dayun, hilak2x sa daplin sa dalan, uwawa sad ana mag away sa public oi, kani sad uban baye, bisan imo na am-aman, mosamot noon, ahaka, hehehe...

mao na, kung mag away na gani, asus, imo na kupogan, para dli kahunat, labi na kung mapa-akan, mobigay lage na, hehehe...pero do it in a nice way, kay lupig pay himungaan nga bag,o namiso ana nila, kusog kaayo molabok, hahaha...

[princess31]

i like settling things right away. d ko mahimutang man gud. but of course, i settle it in a right way. confronting. not raising voices. storya lng tarong gud.

[yvonne6]

fight and arguments are so devastating. when a person is mad, ang tendency is to say things nga hurtful in which naay tendency nga dibdibon sa usa or dili na makalimtan ug unsa ang nasulti. although lisud buhaton, pero before na mag buhi ug any word from our mouth huna hunaon sa nato kung worthy ba ang taw nga atong gimahal sultian ana. im sure, kamong tanan mo agree, after the battle is over, nya kalmado naka, mag mahay ka nganong nasulti to nimo, and you really didnt mean it. diba??