need your advice ...plz help me

[desperada]

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hi sis,

nalouy jud ko sa imo sis...its really difficult to be in your shoes right now..
base on experience sis, the more you dig information the more sakit siya...but mas dali hinoun makamove-on if you know and did everything na....

keep on praying lng sis para ma-enlighten ka ni lord on what to do..
he will surely show the way which is best for you to take...

about sa girl, yes she is pretty..
but maybe she's innocent pud..its better that she'll know the truth para pud she can choose
what to do if mopadayon ba sha sa imo bana or not....

cge lng if makit-an ni nako sa ayala, mo post ko diri asa dapita nagwork...

ayaw lng kaayo padala sa kagoul sis..be strong for your daughter...

thanks jud sis pero gi adto na namo ni mama tanang bahin sa ayala nga "something about kids"negative man sis wala jud ing aning dagwaya nag work sa ayala..hahayz ako kaha ning ipa public service sa abs-cbn or gma ...jowk.....but dili man jud ko ka blame sa girl oi kay inocente de ti man jud cya ang akong bana man nga uplok mao jud sad an...ako nalang gisultihan akong mama sa akong prob and now she understand me and she help me emotionally so mura na relieved sad gamay ang pain...then next action is legally....

[desperada]

pic sa girl...kinsa nkaila ani plz inform me...ahaka mura man ta manawagan ani oi...

[Sol_Itaire]

it isn't the situation that needs saving but YOU. remove yourself from the mess, period.

[beyee]

it isn't the situation that needs saving but YOU. remove yourself from the mess, period.

I agree with u sis TS, don't hold on to something that isn't there anymore... don't wait for someone who chose not to stay anymore...

[hizuka007]

ani nalang sis, panabla nalang. ky cgurado wala naman mo sa imong bana, aw pakan-a nag daghag humba nang kano para highblarun...

[nadine eidloth]

joke joke man ni imuha. naa ba gud tawo moingon sa iyang asawa/bana nga mao ni mao na nga naa pa gusto nimo. magsakit ra imo dughan ana maski pa i.save na nimo inyo marriage ganahan ka nga e.*** ka sa imong bana unya lain babaye gihunahuna? kung ganahan ka ingon ana save your marriage kay wala ka mabuhat sa gusto sa imong bana. buang gyod na ang laki halos parepareho na sila. layas mo unya ayaw na na pakit a sa inyo anak. ingna imo anak patay na iyang amahan

[abewtifulmind]

ah.. grabeha pud ani oi... laina ani nga problema oi.. grabe ka lisod...

akong ma esulte no... nagpaklaro man imong bana gud nga wa na magka gusto nimo nimo.. maskin sa inyong mga anak.. nagpasabot nga wala na cya ga pangga ninyo... para nako .. dili ko mo martyr sa akong bana... kay tood love nimo cya.. but.. he keeps on hurting you... nahan ka og love nga daghan og kasakit? do yourself a favor.. set him free nalang oi... kay lisod kaayo nang pugson ang taw nga wa nay gusto.. and... if ma free nimo cya... prove to yourself and to him nga you can stand without him... and basolan niya ang pag biya ninyo..... love with heartaches.. isn't love at all.. it's foolishness....

[richardramram]

sus ngano man tawn imo pang lisodlisoron ang imong kaugalingon oi. the more you hunt the girl the more you feel the pain. ayaw na kaha paghago ng pagpangita sa girl oi, wala man nya ang solution! if makit.an man pud nimo then storya mo then ok ang girl likayan imo bana do you think imo bana dili mangita lain na girl? if mangita lain na girl pangita.on na pud to nimo na girl.ay ka kapoy na sis oi. why dont you let go nalang and enjoy life with your beautiful daughter. remember life is too short!!!

[desperada]

thank you jud tana sa inyong advice..nag media block out jud ko sa akong bana then 1 week after nag cge na cya ug contact pero wala jud ko nag paki...kay i know masakitan ko...then after just few days ago ill try to answer his call..he feel sorry "daw" he is worry "daw"kay ngano wala nko pa ramdam niya...then our talk takes 4 hrs pero with that talk mas nagka grabe akong kahiubos niya kaysa akong gibati nga love niya...then i told her about my actions legally...we also talked for our mistakes as a couple..its really a drama..but instead mag break down mas dili nko kahilak ..cya ang ning hilak sorry cya for hurting me...he even broke up the girl "but i dont believe it that much"..the girl chatted me..and i told her if we can meet in person she refused..when i found out that she is 19 years old,mas gibati ko ug kaluoy sa maong babaye...i know mura nahadlok cya nko...but i want to talk to her now as a big sister..awkward ang feelings...but i can sense nga there is lies behind this girl..my husband want me nga friends nami and patch up things...but its hard right now nga ing ana lang kadali to forget everything and make friends right away...right now my husband and i talked everyday...kinhanglan sad diay nga mag minaldia ko gamay...iam just so nice to him mao giabusuhan ko...but now i informed him about my right as a mother and as a wife...as long as the mariage is still legal and valid i will fight for my right...so far civil lang mi sa akong bana..dili pko ready makig friend nor patch up things..if he want to talk ,mag talk me but just thats it....thank u just ninyo inyong tambag jud ako gisunod....wala pako kahibaw wats next to this,whats really Gods plan for us..but one thing for sure..i wont rush things anymore and listen to friends and my family...

[ibaning]

buwagi nlng sis nya sustento nya tunga sa properties.. cguradoa ang yuta ug balay..