mga guys ang sad an? most of the time..not always...
your sounding way too defensive..but your entitled to your opinion..and i respect that..
well, anyways..about the topic nlng..i'll just point out something else then... i think it's also a matter of how
deep a person's love is to the other (guy or girl).. . .coz if grabeh jud niya ka love ang person then mu sacrifice pud jud..mu effort pud jud dba? and if there are big fights og mag break..grabeh sad jud ang sakit... . .so yea..
it's not sounding defensive or anything, my dear. i was just sick and tired of explaining my side (on behalf of the other girls who are not able to voice out their opinions) over and over again. if you have observed my previous posts, i always highlight (and always make sure that i always do) that i am not generalizing it. the thing is, people get to be very judgmental, which, in fact, leads to misunderstanding.
Guys are born to be the dominant gender that's why in my point of view we are prone to be noticed. Every single move we make we are watched and our goodness is nearly credited to mistakes. Other people will seldom speak good of us,and i understand exactly why they say so, but we don't have to prove anything at all. Like it or not we cannot expect everyone to see what we really are. We are what they think we are for them. But for us,we are who we really know in ourselves. We cannot change their ideas and perception,neither we can change our environment,but nevertheless we can only change ourselves.
sad to say society remembers our mistakes MORE THAN the things we do right...our flaws are always on the spotlight while the good points are backstage... . . .i agree that we cant expect everyone to see who we really are.. . .i guess we just have to prove it to ourselves..regardless of gender..and to the people who really know us.. . .to the people who matter...
kay para maka get over dayun ang babai... hahahaha
Let them talk about how bad we are,at the end the day we know we are important to them. That's humane being the topic of a conversation which often tells about how bad somebody is not how good he was. We cannot tell them to like us neither demand for their "such-good" opinions at all. Being part of the society which they refer to as "man" we speak we need to,but regarding this i must say don't generalize. We are still good in our own little ways. Most of the time we are but most of the time too, people think we are not. It's a matter of opinion.
Hmm.. Maybe because most of the time we are really the one to blame.. (most, but not all of the time though..) I dont think there is a dominant gender.. i believe in equality in both genders.. We may be dominant in this aspect, but we are weak and frail in others.. Men will owez be men, and women takes men for who they are.. No sense in debating about who's to blame.. LOL!
tungud man gud nato nga dali ra kaayo ta matintal XD, ug tungod sad nga mas prone ta sa mga sayop
Act like you speak. If you mean it then am not in position to judge..but for me?i disagree for dis thread's idea..."permi" is not d right word. We don't speak out to impress other people here,dat kind of thing is for a child who lacks attention.
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