ok ra dili mo mag minyo pero be a responsible father.. pero kung naa mo budget magpakasal,, mas maayo,. hehe.. God bless your family
ok ra dili mo mag minyo pero be a responsible father.. pero kung naa mo budget magpakasal,, mas maayo,. hehe.. God bless your family
dependi sa situation...f nabuntis xa kay tinuyuan nya u think na u meant for each other go..f dli tinuyuan ang pagkabuntis i dont think so na magpakasal..
para nako noh... a person nga mo ingon "di pko ready.." tapos nka buntis ... kay IMMATURE.... kblo man diay ka nga di ka ready..kblo man diay ka di ka stable..kblo man diay ka nga di ka nmo kaya.. ngano gbuhat jud?
i think it's better to say na the person is either "immature" or "bogo" ... bogo is too harsh? cge kuan nlng, not using the coconut...
but really, i really hate hearing people... and reading these kinds of threads saying nga di pa ready and churva unsaon man ni nko.. hoy dodong and inday.. nangutana mo namo kung angay ba na buhaton? i think not kay dagko na mo and you can decide for yourself... and karon, sa amo mo mangutana unsaon ang situation, well ask yourself.. if you will be human enough to face the consequences.. you know nga pag mag j3r-j3r bata resulta..swerte kung kblo ka mo control..swerte nmo kung baog ang isa.. swerte kung di ka timing nga fertile ang isa... but everywhere you look, you know and we all know bata ang resulta ana...
but generally and if wa naa na jud. i would say, keep the child.. face the consequences..if you can't marry the girl then at least face her family, answer your responsibilities and be a father...
please guys and gals.. nagkadaghan na ang broken family..nagkadaghan sad ang mga anak sa gawas... and most kids that i know that came from either of that situation kay luoy...
sorry pero murag ma highblood jd ko ani nga mga pangutana aahahaha... should've not just click this...
not necessarily.. dapat nimu e make sure na mabarogan nimu ang pag minyo sa imu gf.. if dili gane just be there for the child.. be a responsible father.. lisud na mag minyo2 mu kai na buntis nya in the long run magbuwag ra ghapon mu.. mas luoy ang bata.. mas traumatizing..
for me,.. i u both love each other,..
then pakasli siya,..
but if magpakasal mo kay tungod kay nabuntisan ra nimo siya,..d na maayo,.magsuffer ra mong duha
just support the baby and the girl,.. if ur not yet ready to marry her,..
My answer would be a no because the question is implying that the only reason for the marriage is the pregnancy. But if you got her pregnant because you love her then the answer is yes, marry her. But again, if you love her but you're not ready yet, then think again...maybe you don't love her at all.
The mistake many of us make is that we enter into a relationship thinking it shall pass...why not change the way we commit and instead get into a relationship thinking someday that person will become our husband/wife? If this is how we lived our life then it wouldn't be that hard to decide if ever a situation like this would happen!
As a single mom, I thought I should be together with the dad of the baby because the baby deserves a complete family because I came from a broken one and so is the father. But a complete family doesn't mean a happy one. What good shall it offer to my child if we are together but we are always fighting. It would not do any good and might even cause the child a trauma.
Love is the bottomline of the answer. Think it over and you'll know what to do.
kung love nimo...hala game over ngadto...pero kung accident lang...moral financial support will do...for now
no. it would only complicate things in the future. if you have no plans at all of marrying her, never jump kid. it's like long-term suicide. huna-hunaa sa makadaghan kung ready na ba jud ka.
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