Originally Posted by
sgrnim
People My Girl friend is 2 month pregnant, and i am confuse kung unsa ako buhaton. daghan kaayo ko ug na feel when she told me that she's pregnant, first i feel happy cause maka kita naku sa ako liwat, 2nd nabalaka ko ky ma puno mi sa sungug ug istorya sa amo office cause lahi mi ug culture cya japanz ako pinoy kannal. 3rd i don't know if our japanz employer will accept me as his husband kana kung makasal me.
and we have a fight karon, we were schedule unta next month to palawan kami ra duha...naka book naku. but naa mi fight because of this matter..maybe sa ako ego nai ang problema no so what? whr been on for almost 1year but now we always fight. but when i ask her if what if dili ta ma kasal unsaon mna ang bata. she said she iya ipanganak ang bata for the sake of her love to me...but me i admit i love her jud..but ako kahadlokan ky if masakpan mi sa amo employer maybe matang tang ko sa ako work...
pls help me people...what should i do....
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hmmmm, under what grounds man nga nakaingon ka bro na basin mataktak ka sa trabaho tungod nga buntis imo gf? is there such a policy in your company you work for that is against office romance? or is it because your thinking that the girl got pregnant out of wedlock, w/c in a traditional japanese point of view is very demoralizing?
Kung company policy gane bro, well, i can say jud na you should start job hunting na coz like we all know, japanese people put honor above anything else jud. But if it's the other reason gani, pakasal nlng mo sa girl before mudako ang tiyan sa imo girl, and yaw lang pud mo saba nga mao day na nahitabo para wala na daghan istorya, and dili pud ka mataktak sa trabaho nimo.