Merged: All Love Problems

[Wynna]

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I maybe very much sexually attracted to girls, but I always wanted to settle down with a guy..

Been there, done that TS!.. almost the same experience as you had,but in my case, I left my man for this b!tch!.. all I can say is that, stop fooling yourself on loving someone, who cares less about you.. You will never realize that, until you get hurt that much..

that kind of relationship has nowhere to go.. trust me..

[Scott Bernard]

all I can say is that, stop fooling yourself on loving someone, who cares less about you.. You will never realize that, until you get hurt that much..

that kind of relationship has nowhere to go.. trust me..

I agree for the TS. If dili ka tarungon ug dala sa imong BF, then leave him than getting hurt and wasting time with that person.

But, it is not a valid reason in turning your heart away from male partners... and geting fixated with a similar gender.

[rosygemini]

Guess everyone pain is addicting ... We all know how much pain is pain but we still go for what we really want for that very moment.. but I know one day Ill stop and realize a lot of things and ill wait for that day.. and I know after ill be more mature and be more futuristic ingon pa s usa ka istoryans.

[Scott Bernard]

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Mao na ang kasagaran esulti sa mga dili maminaw ug advice kay magtuman sa ilang mga gusto bahalag sayop. If mobuhat gani ka ug sayop, malingaw paka karon... pero later on mobalik ra gehapon na nimo, and dinha raka maka feel sa kasakit ug pagbasol ngano imo tong gebuhat.

Same sa mga single moms, drug addicts, convicted law breakers, out-of-school youths, HIV infected persons, etc... Wala naminaw ug advice kay lingaw lage sila sa ilang life.

Anyways, dako naman ka TS. If you continue doing it, mabalik ra pod na nimo ang kadaot sa imong binuhatan ron. Sa awahi ra baya ang pagbasol. If you value your reputation and your future, better stop it.

This is just a "kuya" advice.

[i_am_fairy]

Good day istoryans. I seriously need your advice.

My ex, who happens to be the father of my child and I separated ways a year now. We used to live together for almost 4 years. Our kid is now 3. Since sa among panagbuwag, makita lang mi ani nya if moduaw xa sa bata. Our relationship was traumatic for me tungod sa akong naagian nga kasakit sa iya. I've been beaten physically and tortured emotionally. Everytime mag ask ni xa before nga makig meet sa ako, dili jud ko mosugot and maglagot noon ko if mag adto2 pag opisina just to see me.

After pila ka months, nabalitaan nalang nako nga naa na xay bag-ong uyab. I figured he has finally moved on and found myself happy for him. Pero things changed pag Feb.14. He wanted to see me that day coz he needed to give me the flower he bought for me. I was hesitant at first kay simpre naa na baya xa gf, pero he insisted nga he will just give the flowers. So there, I met up with him. Then he invited me out for lunch and since udto naman sad to gikan ko office wala pa koy kaon, nikuyog ko. There we talked about how things have been, kumbaga, catching up. I asked him about his gf. Then that instance, nawala akong hatred nga na feel towards him and we were so casual. Mura mig kadtong uyab pami.

Then he started texting me everyday, asking for another chance. So of course, nibalibad ko coz naa na xa uyag lage and I don't want to interfere sa bag-o palang sugod nga relasyon nilang duha. But he told me nga he love me still and that kanang iyang gf karon kay murag mao lang nay niagak sa iya when he was so down after our failed relationship. He told me he was never the same again after we broke up. Ang nakapaot kay confuse na noon ko karon. Murag nagsuya ko sa iyang gf nga wa ko kasabot. Then i realize, I still love him pero di ko ganahan makigbalik kay tungod sa iyang gf. Pero ingon xa nga kung makigbalik lang daw ko, ako jud daw iyang pilion. We both know nga dili na jud pwede kay wala nay gusto akong family sa iyaha tungod lage kay manapat xa. Karon super confuse na jud ko. What should I do, fellow istoryans. Please help. I need your advice.

God bless all!

[MaInEvEnT]

Number one, ayaw anang tao nga manapat... Nausab cya? pero nag tuga2x cya uyab2x lain pero ga cge cya kig balik nimo, what does that tell you about him? Ga binuang cya currently karon ug isa ka babae... ngano gud masuya ka ato iya gf? Ka pait ato kahimtang iya gf, ka expect to nga love cya sa iya uyab pero diay ang iya uyab ga cge hangyo makig balik sa ex.. toink! saon... Naa rajud na nimo pero if ngayo ka tambag, I wouldd say no.

[yvonne6]

want an honest opinion ts? para nako, dili na angay balikan imong ex but again, the decision will be yours to make. been there, done that. trust me, magbalik mo, same problems will arise. nabuhat before, mabuhat na anytime, esp nga naa nay precedence. pero ikaw man ang mo decide, dili man kami

[dc_sigbin]

Number one, ayaw anang tao nga manapat... Nausab cya? pero nag tuga2x cya uyab2x lain pero ga cge cya kig balik nimo, what does that tell you about him? Ga binuang cya currently karon ug isa ka babae... ngano gud masuya ka ato iya gf? Ka pait ato kahimtang iya gf, ka expect to nga love cya sa iya uyab pero diay ang iya uyab ga cge hangyo makig balik sa ex.. toink! saon... Naa rajud na nimo pero if ngayo ka tambag, I wouldd say no.

mao mao , gnahan cya makgbalik unya naa pa cyay uyab? basin gimingaw lng cya sa imong pinikas or kulata nimo

[trinalla]

why go back to your X when you have a traumatic experience with HIm, if you go back with him, its like going back the pain. and i had a friend who have the same experience with you, everytime mag away sila or mag buwag the guy will always find a way to win her back, but after a few months mo balik nasad ang tinood batasan sa guy.

[i_am_fairy]

thanks guys. mao sad akong gihuna-hunag maayo karon. honestly, i feel so empty inside.
pero cge lang, nakalimot man gane ko sauna, karon na noon ko molingi og balik.
salamat sa inyong opinion guys. wala man sad ko plano makigbalik.