
Originally Posted by
King
bisag wala ko kabasa sa ubang post,
in my point of views, Not inborn, naa ni sa upbringing ng parents, encourage, influence, environment, society, ug "individual experiences".
why?
upbringing ng parents - usahay ang parents kay masuko or magginadili sa ila anak nga mag binayot pero magkulang man sila ug explain why....
encourage - ang sayop sad ani kay ang uban tao or parents sad nakakita nagbinayot ang bata mukatawa lang abi noon sa mga bata natural or normal ra toh buhaton, ang sakto unta sultian ug tarong ngano dili toh mao buhaton.
influence - mga bata kaduwa kay maimpluwensyahan sad nga sugsugon man nga bayot! then ang bata wala kabalo unsa na nga word ang "bayot". naa sad uban bayot manakod... lolz no offense but its true..
environment - makakita man ang uban bata nga ang bayot aligre or funny in their ways, so abi sad mas cool ang bayot, <<-- no offense usab sa bayot ha, sulti ra ko sa tinuod.
society - gidawat man sa kadaghan mao nabayot na jud. from politics to other religions. from little town to biggest city in the world.
personal (Individual) experiences - makahunahuna man ang bata ngano siya magsige ug hilak basta awayon siya, mahadlok sa ngitngit, ug uban pa nga kabayotan kuno ingon sa ubang tao, mao maka conclude ang usa ka bata nga bayot siya. Noone has a chance to explain to him why all those emotions happens to him are normal. sometimes people misconclude when a man are a better / or much graceful dancer than a woman, to give an example.
anyways my comment here are just for the thread-sake and explanation for others... but in my part i believe that God Created only 2 kinds of gender in Man and Animals even Plants, from tiny Species to Giant Beast... only 2 gender. peace out!!! other gender is God Forbid
Noted:
sometimes men who look at the same s3x as attractive commonly misunderstood as gayish. but it was common to men to appreciate the looks of the same s3x just like women do. it is our nature to appreciate beautiful things around us. It's like if you are a man that likes pretty flowers doesn't mean you are gay. it is the society that tells, you are gay cause you love flowers, that's why you can't admit to yourself that you love flowers. also the people set a standard for how to become real men, e.g. crying is for woman not for men, this is not true, even Jesus Christ cry (John 11:35), does that mean he is gay? I think not! Homosexuality is a sin just like what happen in Sodom and Gomorrah, their generations/clan are perished forever (Genesis 14).