Relationships with Foreigners~ All About it

[s27earlin]

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what if naa na sa gawas ang babai then nakamit ug kano, nagminyo then uli pinas para bakasyon? Im sure pag mag laag sila ayala, naa gyud daghan bad comments ang mga tao, diretso dayon ug hunahuna nga tungod sa kwarta or tungod sa green card. Ang sa tinuod biya and pag uli sa pinas tungod sa tinuguman sa babai ug before pa nagminyo sila naa nay green card. Depressing kaayo ni nga situasyon. Especially para nako kay mo uli biya ko cebu karon bulana then dad-on nako akong kano nga bana, ma hadlok man tingali ko mo gawa kuyog niya kay ang mga tao karon dinha puros negative man ang hunahuna kung makakita ug pinay ug kano. Pero sige lang, taas gihapon ang ulo! Mo uli ko ug pinas tungod sa akong paningkamot, ang kwarta nga ako i gamit ug pali kay ako gitrabahuan ug ang ako green card kay akong hard work!

[krushuddel]

Actually, we can't judge others. If they marry a foreigner with good intentions then that's their choice. But we can't dismiss the fact that mostly is the contrary. It's her life too. There are consequences on marrying a foreigner. I have a lot of friends suffered, battered, killed for insurance, raped and including their daughters.
You are fortunate if you will meet a good husband. Lots of factors that would make our Filipina marry KANOS. But the most common is, they cant find a faithful husband that could give them security(financially, emotionaly). Im not saying that no Filipino can be a good husband. If we have to check our tradition(if only kept) our grandfathers are actually very responsible and loving to our lolas.
As a husband we should know our responsibility and always make sure that we can provide for our family. It is really shameful knowing a husband would get drunk and hurt his wife and kids and don't even have a job. But i salute those dads who would do their best to show how much they love their families and those people around him. Let's take it as our challenge. Man, power up!

[captstar]

i really condemn the motive of having a relationship with a foreigner just to lift one's economical status...this is definitely degrading to one's personality and this also degrades the essence of love...the simplified view of this kind of relationship is that you are using someone you dont really love just for your own materialistic needs...however, some really do find love...this solely depends on one's motive in the relationship...

[lady_blackrose]

well...if a girl marries a foreigner...what is it to u?its her reputation whose gonna be at risk not urs...its her life and her business so why u guys try to invade it...isnt it rude to pry?ur not just prying...ur being judgemental.why dont we just let them live they're lives and lets just mine ours.they're filipinos too...and with this shit crab mentality we have...we're trying to pull them down...arent u tired of what goin on in philippines?u should compliment them pa nga coz without "them""the gold diggers"as u call it...theyre'd be no tourism in philippines nor dollar money coming in.why dont u check?majority of those dollars going to philippines are sent to foreigner girlfriends and not ofws?if they are scammers...at least they're not just helping themselves but the country too but i know in some ways they'd bring harm but they're just simply VICTIMS of poverty. instead of criticising them...why dont u try to see and live their life first...the life that they've got used too?ways?like what?can u easily get a job there in philippines that can make u eat 3 times a day?is there really heaps of work hiring?i bet not!!!!so u tell me what are the ways?if u dont have capital..u dont even have finished high school coz of lack of money,NOW WHO AMONG U GUYS HERE CAN TELL ME IF THERE IS ANY COMPANY THERE WHO HIRES A UNDERGRAD?ARE THERE HEAPS?u better should rather keep ur mouth shut and if u wanna open it..try to live their lives first so u know.even a small shops there cant even sustain a person in daily basis.how much does a saleslady in a small shops there pay?who accepts undergrads?like 1800 pesos?divide it by 30..U DO THE MATH...makabuhi pa na ba ug tawo?esp.now a days?ur full of jackshit!u dont even have no idea how much they've done and suffered to give their family a better life. do u know how it hurts when how much u wanted to be with ur family and enjoy life with them but yet u cant?coz ur in the foreign country...working and yet ur countrymen think shit of what uve done?its not really selfishness...just think of how much they've give up just to give their families a better life...their happines...which money cant buy.so stop the criticisms...if u got nothing good to say about it...just shut the **** up!

[spectre]

errr, the last time i checked, this is still a forum. who are you to tell them to STFU?

[Kyl_Turbo]

awww ambot lang naa may uban na they love the person bisan lain sila ug race

[Kyl_Turbo]

ako mama married na siya to an australian ... ako nakitan ...

sauna when she is still with my dad ... makuha man niya iya needs pero dala kasaba (verbally abused)


pero now she is married to this white guy ... bisan sila duha ga work to reach their needs and dreams ... ok baya ang life niya happy man siya ...

not like with my dad na grabe kaayu ug pag kastigo niya ... because lahi man gyud batasan sa ako dad ...


not all ladies who marries a foreigners kwarta man gi.apas or para maka abroad ...

naay uban they find their selves happy man ...


depende sa sitwasyon ra na


any way usa ra ako masulti ....


pwering gubota ani nga thread

[Kyl_Turbo]

paita noh kung sugton ko sa ako gi panguyaban nga thai which is foreign


hugaw na diay ko ani

opportunista diay ko ani

mangwartahay na diay ko ani


grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[Kyl_Turbo]

daghana bayot ani nga thread uie ... mga himantayon , chismoso ,


maayu pa pag kuyog mo ni deathfox ug boy abunda ug john lapuz



THE BUZZZZZZZ

[tinynasty]

We should not judge filipinas who married a foreigner kay dili tanan marries a foreign man for security reasons. Naa man filipina nga tarong sad like educated, good family back ground, stable job but na inlove ug foreigner nga more or less has the same age. We should be happy that they found true love...