LOVE PROBLEMS ( post em all here ) READ FIRST POST...

[babypaupau]

Just because you love someone, do you expect that someone to behave a certain "good" way or do a certain "good" thing?

If you expect such, then expect this-- the possibilities of failure and the coming disappointments.

One of the most well-known and beloved bible quotations is Corinthians 1 Chapter 13 Verses 4 onwards, the Holy Bible's description on the virtues of true love. It's been dedicated in love letters, read during marriage ceremonies:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs...

There it begins but please do get the Bible and keep reading on and on until you get to the end of the chapter until this part here...

When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.

Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Now what does these passages mean? Well it means a lot of things. It means that Love has Ideals, it is ideal but being human we just have to make it real, keep it real.

We are to have faith in it, believe in love. Having faith can give us hope, hope that the one we love will be kept in love and finally we might experience the greatest love of all; one that is given and received.

@babypaupau, I humbly believe its time for you to wake up, grow up and please get real. Nowhere in the passages say that one should ask questions and make expectations when it comes to love.

This is what Life is, this is what Love is. Real Love is between people and people are not perfect.

You are in pain and I greatly sympathize with you but for a lot a lot a lot a lot of people, most of them don't have happy ever afters. Welcome to the human race, you get some falls but you only lose if you don't stand up and keep moving on.

If you keep crying and moping then you're just wasting your days while there is a lot of happening out there that be your happiness.
There is so much beauty in this world for you not to see, and a lot of that beauty could come from you.

Wishing you all the best in Life and in Love!

i so totally agree with you...but dont you think you're kinda out of the parameters when you said i should grow up? come to think of it, even grown ups whine just for the sake of feeling better.whining is a form of therapy for some people, and it holds true to women(and it holds true to me). and i hope you are aware that people say things that does not necessarily mean what you think they mean... and what i said is meant for one person alone, and is written in such way to convey anonimity...or so i think. but anyway...thanks for the heads up..and in case you want to know, im not crying and mopping around...in fact, im loving and celebrating life. thanks for your concern though.

[bokiratx]

keep your cool babypaupau, madaot imung beauty basta for me your one of the pretiest in istorya k?...

[diem]

i so totally agree with you...but dont you think you're kinda out of the parameters when you said i should grow up? come to think of it, even grown ups whine just for the sake of feeling better.whining is a form of therapy for some people, and it holds true to women(and it holds true to me). and i hope you are aware that people say things that does not necessarily mean what you think they mean... and what i said is meant for one person alone, and is written in such way to convey anonimity...or so i think. but anyway...thanks for the heads up..and in case you want to know, im not crying and mopping around...in fact, im loving and celebrating life. thanks for your concern though.

[color=navy] I'm sorry for the misunderstanding, babypaupau, its just that I assumed it was a serious problem of yours since you posted it here in LOVE PROBLEMS. I cannot assume to make light of what may be hurting you in deep respect to you, in case that you were really hurting that time. If my words seemed to come on a bit too strong, its just that I really felt strongly at that time. So I'm sorry for the "tough love".

But if you say now it was just you venting out what you're feeling and not really serious then there are other threads in other boards for that kind of thing so as to avoid misunderstanding, like the "IPAGAWAS ANG INYONG GIBATI" and the "HOW ARE YOU FEELING TODAY" threads in the General Discussions Board.

Despite this, it was an opportunity for me to share what I would strongly like to suggest people, particularly the very young and the inexperienced, that they should do when it comes for the matters of the heart. So for that, many thanks.

Glad to know that you're happy and well, hope for you that it will always be like that because for me the most painful thing to see is a woman crying. Wishing you all the best in Life and Love! :mrgreen:

[shaxyra]

d ko maguyab2 oi aron wa problema haha

[babypaupau]

[color=navy] I'm sorry for the misunderstanding, babypaupau, its just that I assumed it was a serious problem of yours since you posted it here in LOVE PROBLEMS. I cannot assume to make light of what may be hurting you in deep respect to you, in case that you were really hurting that time. If my words seemed to come on a bit too strong, its just that I really felt strongly at that time. So I'm sorry for the "tough love".

But if you say now it was just you venting out what you're feeling and not really serious then there are other threads in other boards for that kind of thing so as to avoid misunderstanding, like the "IPAGAWAS ANG INYONG GIBATI" and the "HOW ARE YOU FEELING TODAY" threads in the General Discussions Board.

Despite this, it was an opportunity for me to share what I would strongly like to suggest people, particularly the very young and the inexperienced, that they should do when it comes for the matters of the heart. So for that, many thanks.

Glad to know that you're happy and well, hope for you that it will always be like that because for me the most painful thing to see is a woman crying. Wishing you all the best in Life and Love! :mrgreen:

no worries diem..im sure that was not meant as a personal attack or something to that effect. i was really hurting the time i posted that reply but its not really something you could consider as a matter between life and death, so no wailing and lamenting is necessary. lest sulking in wet blanket . im sure that it was just a piece of your mind and was said in gud faith..and really, thanks. and yeah..maybe i was kinda got a little lost in the threads..hehe..sorry for that. nway..you too. wish you all the best...

[bokiratx]

d ko maguyab2 oi aron wa problema haha

ako nahan ko para naa ko problema hehehe joke di sad bitaw ko nahan kapoy

[monrose29]

kanang problema matud pa sa drama sa mga radyo..

" pagktawo nato aning kalibutana gikaluha-an kita og problema"

" apan adunay problema nga deli nmo masulbad sa imong mga ka ugalingon paningkamot"

og ma-o na tawo kini atong programa aron adunay kitay ka sumbungan sa atong problema sa gugma...

tambagi ko " Kuya Diem" ubos sa produksyon sa istorya.net og gibito-onan sa atong ubos nga higala nga si " Kuya Diem" nga bantogan na ka ayong manunulat mahitungod sa mga problema sa gugma,

Busa mga higala kong adunay kamoy mga problema og mga kasakit nga gi kumkom sa inyong tagsa2x ka kinabuhi i sulat kana deri sa atong programa og ato kanang taga-an og pag tagad....


daghan salamat sa inyong pag basa.. kini inyong higala si Noy_Noah ma ayong gabi-i kaninyong tanan...



hehehehehe....

[bokiratx]

kanang problema matud pa sa drama sa mga radyo..

" pagktawo nato aning kalibutana gikaluha-an kita og problema"

" apan adunay problema nga deli nmo masulbad sa imong mga ka ugalingon paningkamot"

og ma-o na tawo kini atong programa aron adunay kitay ka sumbungan sa atong problema sa gugma...

tambagi ko " Kuya Diem" ubos sa produksyon sa istorya.net og gibito-onan sa atong ubos nga higala nga si " Kuya Diem" nga bantogan na ka ayong manunulat mahitungod sa mga problema sa gugma,

Busa mga higala kong adunay kamoy mga problema og mga kasakit nga gi kumkom sa inyong tagsa2x ka kinabuhi i sulat kana deri sa atong programa og ato kanang taga-an og pag tagad....


daghan salamat sa inyong pag basa.. kini inyong higala si Noy_Noah ma ayong gabi-i kaninyong tanan...



hehehehehe....

OT: toweweng!

[diem]

[color=navy]^^master monrose! nindot kaayo imong intro dah--! Mag IN-JAY ta na... Internet Jockeys hehehhehe :mrgreen:

Concerning problems though especially that of the heart, I feel that there are simple and sure ways to solve these and even better yet, prevent such problems to occur frequently in one's life. These may sound simple though truth be told these are hard to do. But these can be done. These can be done.

The first step is to know oneself, truly, complete and without compromise. One must know one's own happiness and one's sadness.

The second step is to be fully aware of one's self with others; this concerns also of respecting other people's happiness and sadness.

With these two steps, we move on to the third step which is to pursue one's own happiness while avoiding causing the sadness of others. The third step is only effective when the 1st two steps are always, ALWAYS, practiced.

The fourth step is a fall-back. It's a step back just in case the 1st three steps don't work, then stop, step back and consider what went wrong.

Then correct that wrong or choose another direction that works. The fourth step is where one should Retreat, Relax, Reflect, and yes Re-start.

The fourth step is a step back where one leans on one's own faith, family and friends. This is the step from where one can re-start from Step 1 then 2 and 3.

Wishing you all the BEST in LOVE AND LIFE :mrgreen:

[r0mm3L]

i need help