Merged: All Love Problems

[muchacha00]

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nya ok ra nimo og magkadayon sila sa imong ka uban... unya sunod hisgotan about sa ilang ******2x? dili kaha ka ma sakitan ana? saman sugot lang ka or mag buhat naka og paagi diha.....

[kolo]

panguyabe dayon TS hehehe

[Code Talker]

do your fair share in winning her heart. ask her out. tell her how you feel. i know it's no walk in the park but you got to do what you got to do.

[zaira45]

thanks sa advice..ako plan is ako nlng xa pabalikon og gym aron dili na mg bisyo..hopefully...sakto pud makabuhi ko sa ako kids..pero di jud ko ready if mawala xa maski ingon anah xa..

[SHADES]

Share lang kog ako...kai di nalang ko mag make ug new thread...diri nalang daw nako i post...
hmmmmm

unsaon man... unsa inu ginabuhat??... i know mo ana jud dayon na nga pag lingaw.... easier said than Done....... naai times nga okay ka..... but mostly.... dili jud... kai dba... ge tanom naman gud nimo siya sa imong heart gud... mao murag.. ambot.. lisod.... samot na nga mag kita2 pa jud mo.... murag sa isang iglap lang PoOF... everthing changes...SHES not yours anymore...... maka understand man ko sahay mo ana sila nga di ko dapat mag maoy kai laki ko.... naa pa daw daghan Girls.. pero lisod jud oi ig igo jud kaau ka sa gugma ...... murag walai lain jud.... dili jud ka ma attract sa uban... ma attract man cguro... lingi ra pud.. dira ra
kutob... walang spark..... woooohooooo........... kamo ge unsa ninu naa nai naka suway ug ingon ani?? sa akong kahimtang karon? =//

[Paks]

Need help istoryans !

Ani man gud ni, pag monday palang wala na siyay load2x which khibaw siya nga bag-o lang ko na unli atong pag sunday night [15 pesos 2days unli text] wa dyud ko textsi niya for from 6am-12am , ning txt na xa pag 12am+ gamit number sa iyang kaboard pero kadyot ra kaayo kay natog na dayon.. Mao to naabot ang tuesday wa ghapon xa mi text, wala man lang dyud nakitext bisag sa iyang klasm8s, wa nako nakaya nagpa unli call ko ug nagkastorya mi nya ok-ok raman pud ang among mga gpang storya.an.. Nya nangutana ko kng unsay problema nganong di xa kaload, ana ra xag wa daw kwarta ga budget daw xa kay na short, ok ra ana ko[nag pa as if nakasabot ko] ... pero para nako lang ba bisag 15 pesos di dyud mada ? wala nalang ko ming hisgot ani niya... nya pag wednesday , wa dyapon xa kapa unli ug di pud magparamdam mo huwat rasag txsan, ako nalay mo hangyo gud nga text pud tawn oe bahalag sa imong mga amiga lang, mo ana man hnuon kapoy oie... Mao ana napud ko nga paramdam lang gud bahalag makitext raka sa imong kabord, so ana xa ok-ok mo text.. after ato nga conversation nananghid xa nako nga SUNDAY padaw xa mag pa unli which is 4days pa ang mo labay, murag sa ako.a nga part ba nalain ko; kay murag WALA raman ko para niya [ hunahuna ra nako hap] mao naka question ko sa aqng self, "kng ganhan man gani SIYA nako mag paunli unta xa, 15 pesos ra btaw oh"...I know mubo ra kaayo ni nga rason nako nga malain, kuan man gud mi LDR mao ng ganahan ko naay communication ba... Karon Thursday, wa ghapon xa ka paunli pero maayo nalang kay magparamdam xa, kana pud lagi kng mo text rapud kog una... MIGA/MIGO ato lang isud nga nakasabot mo sa aqng sitwasyon hap, nya mangutana ko ninyo:

1. Unsa may dakong pasabot ani ? 1 Week di xa mag paunli, OK rana ? - Para nako dili
2. Mag paabot nalang pud ko nga mag pa unli siya ?
3. Mo text2x dyapon ko niya, para iparamdam niya nga naa ghapon ko ? [ ako mani gbuhat everyday, magparamdam man dyud ko niya, di MADA kanang MINGAWAN ka oie huhuhuu ]
4. Gisuwayan ra kaha ko ani niya ? Ug kng iya kung g-suwayan, unsay purpose ?
5. Or mo sabot/respetar nalang ko, kung mao nay gusto niya ?

[cjmagowan]

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1. ok ra na (bacn nag.budget jud d.i cya)
2. murag magpaabot jud ka... if d ka mkapaabot.. try kunog load niya kanang unli.. f mu.txt ba cya nmo.
3. text ghapon... naa man kha kay load.
4. wa ka niya suwayi brod... murag mao jud ni iya status karn.
5. sabot nlng, wa man kay gahom nga mausab iya huna2x

but... to tell you the truth.. something is wrong..asa man d.i cya karn?
What is wrong was with her or someone with her.. wa nko gi.cloud imo mind brod but as history would tell us.. people act this way especially if someone or something is preoccupying their minds.

that is where you start to investigate.

[Paks]

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Thanks kaayo sa imong mga tubag bai. hmmmm naa siya sa layong lugar. hmmmmm ~! Ako lang siyang loadan nga di ko mo saba, tan.awon nako mo text ba siya.. About ani nga line "people act this way especially if someone or something is preoccupying their minds" i dnt know pud, wa man pud koy nabantayan nga lain.. Salamat again sa tubag

[cjmagowan]

@SHADES:

I've been there...

Sakit jud bitaw. but you have to go on with your life. you won't be happy if you stick to something which are left in the past.
Make your self useful do something that makes you genuinely happy at the moment, even on smallest thing you could possibly do to divert your attention to something else.

Yes you dont have to worry kay usually you are the one to initiate a spark for a relationship to grow(the concept of conservative pinoy), tungod kay laki ka ikaw kinahanglan mag.una2x. But, unless you are ready to fall again. if not then don't waste your time and somebody else's time just to fillup your emptiness, you might end up hurting them because of your foolishness.

Give yourself a break... have fun with your friends.. spend time with your family. tell your self that you can do it. and most of all pretend that you are ok until such time that you'll realize that you are no longer faking it. it doesn't sound much but that's everyone been doing ever since, they just don't realize it.

[SHADES]

Paks!

i dont really know unsa ang inung foundation before nagkakamo.... so be openminded lang ok??

1. if you think nga unusuall jud kaau ni nga na happen.... i mean if sauna dili xa ingon ani..ning ning kalit lang ug change.... MAYBE! theres something wrong..... BUT BUT BUT... dont overthink it.... kai u know sa relationship dili jud dapat stagnant inung status.... kai for me lang ...theres a need for some changes in order mo grow inung relationship.... you can take this as TEST sa inung relationship...depends unsaon ninu pag handle..... ~be positive.

2. you can wait..... really... patience imung need ani....BUT BUT BUT.... para nako you have all the right to know whats happening jud...esp kita mga laki, kinahanglan jud nato sabton nga ang girls ana jud na sila...there are times di jud ma sabtan.....libog sila but still we love them.... =) you have to accept sa ilang imperfections...... that way the more nimo ma understand imong partner.. ~be patient.

3.Of Course you can do that...... ako i always show care... not pinusgos..but thats just the way i am.... and my GF loved me for being me nga caring...... i always let her feel that im always here for her to listen and comfort her... BUT BUT BUT...there are times nga samok.an na sila kai imbis nga wala untay problem mag cge kag pamugos "naa tai problem?" blahblah.... imbis nga wala no.uy problem mag make jud kag problem... so its how u handle the situation...ikaw nay mag balance2 na coz you know Her more....than us..... natural jud na MINGAW bai.... most esp na attached naka.... ~be gentle

4.Ge SUWAYAN.......kana we dont know that...thats why i told you nga i dont know unsai foundation ninu BEforehand.... UNSAI PURPOSE..... there are times nga PEOPLE (both male and female) mag TRIAL EN ERROR jud na sila.... hmmm.. murag "try.an lang gud tani gud...basin diay mo work" most especially if ang imo partner is really a good person..... did you get my point?? para nako Everything is trial and error man gud....... uncertain man mo both partner, how will you end up after an hour,day,week,month,year......... gets?? mao bitaw na ang saying nga "you dont have to see the whole stairscase, just take the first step"....... ~ be loving

5. If thats what she really wants...so be it..give it to her....BUTBUTBUT....you really have to talk...personally....to settle thing down....please do tell her to not to left you hanging.......kai Saaaaakiiiiiiit kaau na.......you'll be thinking a lot, to that point that you dont know whats right and wrong anymore.....and ull be thinking about the past if "ok ra kaha to sa kadtong ako ge buhat before" ..~be understanding