Walay dadaanay ug uyab.....what's the point

[beyee]

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okay, I had to add "personally" coz I was simply basing your question "if i were in TS' shoes..."

now i'm not speaking as a girl right now, i'm going to say this as how a MATURE person would
believe...

but think more like a guy would when a guy is helplessly in love

Someone who is in love would NEVER stop his gf from having fun and would NEVER hinder to have
his gf a life of his own.
Someone who is in love would be MORE UNDERSTANDING whatever she decides to do, go or be with.
If you're gonna tell me that the person who's inlove would stop her just so "she wouldn't be tempted" is in fact someone who is inlove BUT A SELFISH LOVER... The last time i checked, true love is supposed to be SELFLESS and NOT SELFISH... hmmm


but wouldn't it be better if we try to keep ourselves from temptations rather than go into them?a mature person in a relationship would know how to keep himself/herself from making stupid mistakes by putting themselves in a low-risk situation.

if you always have that logic then sorry to say, it is simply downright twisted... no matter how much you are immersed in a world filled with temptations, you will never succumb to such nor be swayed if you have VALUES and FAITH in yourself... I pity the gf if the bf thinks of her like that. Meaning to say, ing ana ang calibre sa iya gf? If I were the gf, I'd be insulted.. morag naka minos ako bf kung ing ana iya pagtan-aw sa ako. Unsa tanan naka pantalon nalang, patulan nako? tsk tsk

kung ing-ana nalang inyo opinion sa inyo gfs, don't go into any relationship.. bottomline is you guys have TRUST ISSUES... wala pa gali, unhan pod ninyo lols

[walker]

^^ having fun in the context of this particular thread is...to put it honestly >>> biga! do not deviate from other perspectives on the basis of so called personal experiences. let the context stay as is.

trust is not an issue here. no it never is an issue. ten years na sila. do not discount that people.

[beyee]

i concur with nijazared.

girls can not..and perhaps will never understand how a guy who is very much in love will feel in this situation like the TS is presenting here.

this is a close call and a tight rope walk for a very tempting affair.

if i am the guy office mate who may have some vested interest with the gf, of course i will plan everything including not allowing the bf to come on the pretext of a girls night out in my own home.

the gf here simply throws out the window a ten year relationship for a night of biga. what a way to celebrate sinulog.

If my bf of ten years would have the same views as yours, I'll tell him straight...

"How come you know all these stuffs? It takes one to know one, aite?"

If my bf doesn't trust me that much then I'd start to think twice about him... Maybe he's pulling this
guilt trip on me or giving me all these crazy ideas just to hide the fact that MAYBE he's doing it behind my back... Ang mga tawo na naay sekreto bya, ngita bya jud og bingkil or dali ra kaau mamahid sa ila sala... and this is never a MYTH... proven na jud ni generally.

[beyee]

^^ having fun in the context of this particular thread is...to put it honestly >>> biga! do not deviate from other perspectives on the basis of so called personal experiences. let the context stay as is.

trust is not an issue here. no it never is an issue. ten years na sila. do not discount that people.

As far as I can recall, there was never a recount of any specific personal experience.. i believe most guys shared their own experiences right before they can advise the TS...

not all parties connotes "biga"... maybe you've been exposed to bad sort of parties...
bsag bali-balihon nimo ang post ni TS, underlying issue ani, trust sa iya gf k if he really do trust his gf,
he wouldn't have his doubts and start this thread to begin with.

[aLohaBby]

naa man ju'y times ing-ana. mas lingaw i-bond with friends if walay uyab kay mura man gud ug ma divide ang attention. and isa pa, we act differently when we are alone with our friends. dapat naa japun gamay'ng freedom in a relationship ky lisod na ug ma sakal.

ani na lang TS, maypa mang laag mo before sa iyang laag with her officemates. pag bonding sa mo then ihatod dayon cya sa ilang meeting place para kita ka sa iyang mga kuyog.

[*sludge*]

mag depende rani sa what type of girlfriend do you have .. temptations are always present..

[walker]

well...if ako ang TS and my gf is invited to a girls' night out with her friends at Pres Noy's house..ok ra tingali ko. but if the host guy officemate has suspicious motives and interests, its a big no.

but it seems the gf here is not asking the guy's permission.

[beyee]

How sure are you masaligan si Pres Noy? *winky smiles*
If you're equating that presidents or politicians are respectable
to women, think again real hard.

We'll just have to wait for the TS to tell us that about his gf.

[walker]

i am not making a blanket statement covering all politicians., you are putting words in other's mouth. that is not a good habit of a teacher isnt it?... i just happen to know Pres Noy can be trusted. but this is OT na man.

OnT: girls will always be girls. ani na lang TS, sakto to ila suggestion, kuyogi, ihatod didto sa venue. get introduced sa pipol who will be partying there, then u go kay exclusive man kaha na nila. sort of leaving a guilt scent bah. then ask wat tym nimo kuhaon...even though u know nga buntagay sila. for sure your gf will say, "ayaw na lang ko kuhaa diri".

oh here is another scenario: they will gather at another hang out...say some public place on the pretense of dining out..perhaps some karaoke fun. mao na dha ron...didto ra nimo ihatod. after that, u will not know kung asa sila padung. mao na diha.... its a good guess..they might go somewhere slippery and wet...whoaaaaa.....

[beyee]

OT: Sorry if I inferred wrongly about your statement coz by the word "Pres" it suggested a title of a public servant. Pardon me for being so observant or maybe I'm just reading too much of your statements here but I just can't help notice that your views always lean towards the negative. I hope others would find a good side in other people and not box them to stereotypes.

OnT: For TS, please don't act nor think on your impulse that your gf can do such sleazy things behind your back. You owe your gf your trust from a decade of being together, I believe it's fitting to give her that. It's only up to your gf if she can be trusted or not. What's more important is you can be that giving and selfless of a boyfriend. If you still have doubts of your gf's whereabouts on that night, then that would be a big prob on your relationship coz for sure it will not be the only night she'll be with her friends. mag cge nalang mo ing ani... d na pod healthy.