Originally Posted by
Stephengeek
I did not expect to be part here. Well, here's my story. I have a great 3 year old kid( buyag liwat nako). I was married for 4 years but nagkauyab mi sa akong ex wife since 2nd year high school pa. "usapa na". childhood sweethearts kintahay. classmates since kindergarten. Until last July na found out nako na she was cheating and had sexual relationship na sa laki. I committed suicide 2 times. I know maka ingun mo sus ka OA, laslas2x. But how would you feel, your wife was your first and only girlfriend since 2nd year highschool, first experience, the only person you have trusted your life. Imong kugi sa trabaho, tanang imong gihatag just to make them happy theni betray ka? I thought My world stopped after knowing, I wasted half of my life loving the wrong erpson nga lahi ang image kung kamo mag kuyog but sa laing taw murag laing entity.
We are both 29 ang kabit niya is 44 years old seaman, buwag sa asawa yutaan ug daghang kwarta. Kami we are both registered nurses but Im working as a freelancer but medyo sakto sakto rag kita. We have undergone marriage counselling but I decided to give up after nako gi hunahuna ang tanang panghitabo ang guaging what kind of relationship ang naa sila. Medyo deep naman ilahang relationship, sa sugod it was lust but unfortunately nagka developay na jud silag feelings and it was love na jud. Naabot na sila na ig uli sa laki next year magpamabdos siya nya akoy ipaangkonon isip amahan ug plans to abandon me. I don't know If ako desisyon is correct , as they say taw ra ta nga makasasala. But afterall sa nangahitabo, sa kalawm na sa ilang relasyon ug sa amo past, ( yes she cheated on me once sa uyab pa mi ). I decided to give up, kay I know krn ra ko grabe masakitan, in the end maka move.on rako kaysa magpabilin ko nga mag antoshangtod sa hangtod nga maka hinumdum sa tanang detalye nga ilang gisaysay sa ilang email....
Ayaw palupig bai. Alkanse ka ug pildi ka kung mag suicide ka.
Be strong lang gyud and be a man. Sabuti nalang na ninyo nga sa imoha ang bata then let her be on her own. Bahalag asa siya.
Somehow we have to learn to let go of someone nga dili ta love. Ayaw kahadlok.
Then apply dayon para gawas, dad-a imong bata, ayaw na pakita niya... Naa pay daghan babayi sa kalibutan nga worth your time.
Ang ako ra gyud ani, ayaw papildi.. Magsuicide ka pildi ka. Naa pa kay bata you still have the whole world, your life and your kid to love.
Dili paman uwahi ang tanan. Basta ayaw lang gyud pa pildi.