I TOTALLY AGREE WITH BITCH_GODDESS:
i don't believe in cool offs as well...if ur partner says u need to cool things off its as good as saying goodbye...because if you really love each other, u do not need any cool offs at all...u just have to talk about ur problems and settle it if you can...when your partner brings it up...it's a sign for you to break up...just be ready...as what nast kaken sed...cool off start ra man na sa break up...