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THIS IS GOING TO BE LONG BUT I JUST WANT TO BE AS DETAILED AS POSSIBLE. SORRY.
Ok. I am a married person for over 8 years now. Never had 'kabit' before. Yes, had those fling-fling moments with other girls pero never ni try laing babae other than my wife outside of marriage.
Kitang mga lalaki usahay mo tukar man jud atong pag ka lalaki, maibog man jud ta ug lain pero like i said never ko ni tilaw ug lain na babae before. I got caught couple of times na naay 'uyab' sa text but dala sa tama ra gud, not something serious.
Mao ni ang na experience na problema nako. This is how it all happened.
My wife and I were just new to this smartphone thing. Last year lang mi naka smart phone. Since december, iya nang i lock iyang phone, at first iyang i share sa akoa ang passcode. But slowly she has been changing the passcode and ako sad dili lang sad ko mangutana sa iyaha but i sometimes access her phone to see what she's up to, nothing unusual man sad so i left her be.
Last 2013 nasakpan nako na siya nga naay ka skype. I confronted her and she said na friends ra daw, 'lingaw-lingaw' lang daw. Of course, i didn't see anything bad sa ilang conversation, though few i love you and other sweet words, but nothing 'out of the usual' man so ok ra nako. Move on nako ato.
Balik ta sa to present day. Sometime in January this year, while nag pa tabang siya sa iyang phone becuase some youtube video was slow audio, like slow motion audio ba, i happen to stumble upon her open browsers, natingala ko why there are 7 open browsers sa iyang phone, when i checked, dateinasia.com na website ang naka open sa most browsers, not logged in hinuon.
Iyang FB sad kay naay mga mag mesasge sa iyaha, naa say lalaki nga consistent na mag message sa iyaha, 'friend' niya. Dako sad nga issue niya nga nag message ko sa friend sa akong ex before asking how she was na, like really? Dili pwede mangutana lang? 'Cheating' na dayon na?
Didto nako nag duda and now kasabot nako why she was locking her phone. She was accessing a dating site diay. Well, i didn't really mind at first kay lagi 'lingaw-lingaw' ra man sad na niya, pareha sa skype before. Move on nasad ko ato.
I am a short tempered person most especially when wala pa koy tulog. And yes, there are times na ako siyang ma banghagan kay even if she knows na dili ko ganahan ana nga butang, like mamugos ug pangutana bisan dili ko ganahan mo tubag or kahibalo nga wala koy tulog unya mag suko-suko, aw ma highblood sad ko pero love jud nako siya. And she took those tantrums as a sign na naa koy lain gi kabuanangan na babae (maybe because naa siyay gi kabuangan na lalaki..? you know kung kinsa to ang kusog mag duda maoy naay binuhatan.) pero ang tinuod wala jud, saputon lang jud ko niya kay dili kasabot kinahanglan pa sultihan.
It did reach the point na dili mi mag tagad ug few days, ako likay lang sad ko ug, yes, pride lang sad dili ko una mo lambing, well, usahay ako jud, pero if mo lambing na siya nako dili nako siya i shrug off.
Last March of this year, payday nako, gamay ra man akong sweldo, ni ana siya nako na ako lang daw ang mag budget sa kwarta. Ok ra sad ko. Naa mi halin sa mga puppies na nabaligya namo, i think it was at least 5k at that time. Pag abot namo sa balay, since ako may mag budget sa kwarta, nag palit ko ug mga kinahanglanun ug wala lang sad ko nag hatag para niya, kay lagi naay naman mi kwarta daan aside sa akong sweldo for which she can use. Nasuko man hinuon na siya, tapos ni ingon "aw mag iyahay nalang diay ta ani..?"
Na init akong ulo ato nga gi sulti niya, para nako ba na abi siya man ang nag kupot sa kwarta, yano ra niya nga mo ingon ato nga mag iyahay lang mi ug gasto. I didn't think of any other reason bahin ato. So on my way to work nag text ko sa iyaha about sa iyang gi sulti, and i told her na wala ko naka uyon ato, bisan gani unsa iyang gusto paliton gamit akong sweldo dili jud ko mo react kay siya man ang nag budget, wala siya mag work, tanan sweldo nako akong i hatag nya. Tag 70 pesos akong allowance everyday plite para trabaho, mangayo pa ko niya if naa koy gusto paliton, to think akoa na nga money ha, mangayo pa ko niya.
Yes, namuyboy ko in a way but i was stating the honest truth nga tanan nako sweldo i hatag nako niya for budgeting ug ako gani dili halos maka palit sa akong gusto pero if siya naay gamitan sa kwarta, like naa siyay ganahan paliton, mo laag few times in a week kuyog iyang amiga, or mo hatag sa iyang relatives, wala ra jud ko kay lagi siya man ang mag budget sa kwarta, and then all of a sudden abi naa siyay gi kuptan na kwarta ana lang ka sayon nga mo ingon siya nga mag iyahay mi sa gasto?
Few days later na ok nasad mi. Then few days later nasad, nasakpan nako iyang skype status na naka butang "i've finally found the one. I was you lee. Love you forever (heart) (heart) (heart) (heart)"
Wla nako siya gi confront dayon because i wanted to know more about this lee person ug unsa iyang binuhatan. Ni text ko sa iyang amiga nga sige ug kuyog, wala daw siyay alam about aning lee person. So my wife had been hiding this lee guy from her best buddies as well, smells something fishy, right?
Before that day na akong nakita ang iyang skype status, nag install sya ug skype sa laptop, ako na bya gi uninstall ang skype before pero nag install siya ug balik. Something smells fishy again, and nag himo siya ug lain na skype account, leejennXXX (Lee and Jenn). I thought this is really something na jud.
So far, sa tanan na discover nako, nag status siya na she finally found the one, nag install ug skype, nag himo ug lain na account, i will still get her standard response na nag 'lingaw-lingaw' lang siya if i confront nako without hard proof, something na dili niya ma deny. So I decided to check (hack) her new skype account. And it was there where my heart broke in sooo many small peices, reading all there conversations. And not just conversations, there were doing skype video calls (at least 30 mins per skype sessions nila ha). And here is the best part, she was naked and was letting this lee guy see her whole body while she was looking at him masterbiting. Yes, it was all there sa chat, there was like nangutana siya "what is that" and the guy said "yours". meaning he was showing his pnis. And the guy was asking her to lower or closer because he can't see (her you know) and there was even a log that she said she will kiss it (the pnis).
They were planning to go out on a vacation this month, may, the guy supposedly will visit the phils may 10-15 and she wanted the guy to visit sometime between May 25-30 kay gusto sa akong wife na mag kuyog sila sa iyang birthday, gusto siya mag bohol sila.
While i was reading it, all of what i've been discovering made sense. Oh, i wasn't able to mention that my wife shaved, like shiny shimerring shaved (you know what i mean) and that was the FIRST time she did it, so, yes, naka pa samot sa akong duda, and that was the reason, because she was showing it to the other guy.
I took a screenshot of the skype status sa akong phone, and i showed it to her. Before that, while i was at work, i said that i wanted to talk to her about something. Pag abot nako sa balay, she was really asking me what it's all about. I only showed her the screenshot and she went silent and surprised. That was her reaction, wala na sad mi nag tingog ato nga time.
She did not know about sa chat log nila nga nabasa nako tanan, she only knew na nasakpan nako iyang skype status.
Naa pay sumpay pero para ninyo mga lalaki, as husband, kung inyo to ma basa or experience tanan, while kamo nag trabaho, inyong asawa busy sa pag hubo-hubo ug nag mastirbit ang iyang ka skype call sa iyang hubo nga lawas unsa inyong ma feel..?
Ako na igo akong pride. As in sobra na tandog akong pride. I didn't understand why she did that. Was i not providing enough for her nga mag ingon ana siya? Mangita siya ug foriegner maybe for "greener pasture"? And to think she said that 'lingaw-lingaw' ra to niya, yes, she did say that.
Kamo nga girls, if minyo mo, 'lingaw-lingaw' ra ninyo ang mag hubo sa cam sa tao nga dili ninyo kaila? Kamo mga guys, madawat na ninyo nga rason nga 'lingaw-lingaw' lang ang gi buhat?
What if gi record siya ato nga guy, ug ni anhi sa pinas ug i blackmail na i katag ang video if dili siya mo kuyog sa guy for *** or whatever, unsa man kaha ang mabuhat niya..?
Mo sumbalik ra ba siya nga ako naay ka chat or na uyab sauna, yes, angkon ko ana, pero not to the point nga nag *** mi or something atong mga girls before, 'uyab' ra sa text or chat. Heck, never ever seen those girls in person, well, there was one lang pero no physical contact whatsover. Siya, nakaya man gani niya mag hubo sa cam bisan 'walay nakuha niya'. Kamo mga guys, uyon ug mo dawat mo sa ana nga rason?
Unsa man inyong buhaton if kamo naa sa akong sitwasyon?
What happened next will follow, i want to hear your reactions or opinions on that happened above lang sa. Para bya niya, wala jud siyay sayop nga nabuhat. As in, ingon ana siya ka confident na dili or wala siyay sayop nabuhat ug ok ra to ang skype video call naked sessions nila.
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