Only Child

[ramen]

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My mom was great at punishing me when i was a child and damn, they hurt! kaso lang she can't really hurt me physically when my papa is around.. 'cause when papa was still a kid he was punished physically and he didn't want to do the same thing to me, so mag away cla ni mama if she lays a hand on me... but never jud ko nagsalig on papa to get me out of every sticky situation. d pod ko badlungon to the next level, so no i was never a spoiled child. if my papa feels that i am wrong/made a mistake, he usually talks to me but never lays a hand on me..

i guess lesson jud ni sa mga parents, esp sa pinoy parents k super fond jud mga pinoy parents mag punish physically: kurot, bakos, luhod sa asin, etc etc etc... although my mama punished me physically, mas effective ang k papa na way, 'cause i listened to him more... and was more scared of him than k mama..

yeah, i know this feeling too. my mom was the one doing the physical punishment if ever i did something bad. nakatilaw ko walis ting2x, bakos (never the buckle though), tsinelas, ruler, etc. however, i never received any form of physical punishment from my dad. not once did he raise his voice at me. he left the disciplinarian duties to my mom. funny thing is, like you, i was also more afraid of my dad than my mom because i didn't know how would he react if ever he got mad at me. i guess i owe my current self because of the way my parents brought me up. i was a bit spoiled, like most children with no siblings, but i was never really a brat, thank goodness.

[mobskill69]

apil ko aning only only b..hehe..

[Blackjellybean27]

ok ra na oi..as long as we grew up to be responsible people and all...

naa jd struggles ang mga only child sa attitude department sa?

mao jud na akoa problema..den di pa jd tanan taw makagets sa akoa buot ipasabot....miscommunication...ug misinterpretation jd ang show

luoya nato oi. most of the time k misunderstood. hehehe.
unsaon man beh naa man ta own world...
i guess intelligent/smart people jud mga only, way pa hambug LOL, it's only because we acquire knowledge k we tend to read books, watch educational tv or something k hello wala baya ta playmates. hehehe.

[farmboy]

luoya nato oi. most of the time k misunderstood. hehehe.
unsaon man beh naa man ta own world...
i guess intelligent/smart people jud mga only, way pa hambug LOL, it's only because we acquire knowledge k we tend to read books, watch educational tv or something k hello wala baya ta playmates. hehehe.

agree hundred ten percent hehehe
i read a lot kay pobre man mi...we had no tv...waahhh
i even learned to read before i was in school...hehe

[xinevirtucio]

luoya nato oi. most of the time k misunderstood. hehehe.
unsaon man beh naa man ta own world...
i guess intelligent/smart people jud mga only, way pa hambug LOL, it's only because we acquire knowledge k we tend to read books, watch educational tv or something k hello wala baya ta playmates. hehehe.

super agree.

to the point nga g-ingnan kog hambugera..kai i do things on my own..

suko kaau akoa head nako...

kai nikontak kog lain head sa lain branch..

suko xa..it is a sign of disrespect daw kai ni bypass ko sa chain of command...

ngano daw dli xa akoa gpangutana...ana ko..nangta kog macomparahan..

it was not my intention to disrespect you...

faeta..ipamugos raba jd...nga ako daw to gbuhat para ipakta nga wa koi respeto nya...

hambugera daw ko..

nabuang na....ok raman gali nko ako ila dabodabohan sa trabaho....hambugera na nuon.

[farmboy]

super agree.

to the point nga g-ingnan kog hambugera..kai i do things on my own..

suko kaau akoa head nako...

kai nikontak kog lain head sa lain branch..

suko xa..it is a sign of disrespect daw kai ni bypass ko sa chain of command...

ngano daw dli xa akoa gpangutana...ana ko..nangta kog macomparahan..

it was not my intention to disrespect you...

faeta..ipamugos raba jd...nga ako daw to gbuhat para ipakta nga wa koi respeto nya...

hambugera daw ko..

nabuang na....ok raman gali nko ako ila dabodabohan sa trabaho....hambugera na nuon.

sagdi lang sis. kana ingon ana kay feel threatened na sila...career-wise.

[mj_sweet]

ayaw lang pada sa tama

[xinevirtucio]

sagdi lang sis. kana ingon ana kay feel threatened na sila...career-wise.

mao bitaw..mao sad ingon sa akoa parents...

haha..kelangan na daw ko magpractice og workplace politics..which i totally abhor...

but i have no choice but to play along...

unsaon nalang...hahaha..

wa sad uroy ko mahangol sa ilang position...bahala cla....hahaha

[nando]

naa ko cousin onliy child lang cya.. mingawan ko sa iya life unya malooy ko sa iyaha... labi na karon na wala na iya mom.. pasagdan nalang namo cya mo find sa iya kalipay...

[farmboy]

naa ko cousin onliy child lang cya.. mingawan ko sa iya life unya malooy ko sa iyaha... labi na karon na wala na iya mom.. pasagdan nalang namo cya mo find sa iya kalipay...

ako bro, when i was growing up, my cousins (who were well off) looked down on me. how i wish cousins became closer and nice unta kay it is not easy to be an only child...