Merged: All Love Problems

[ayong]

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baho? jud?

[ayong]

bitaw basin wa pa jud ang sakto nga time.

[ayong]

kabalo mn kha ka mohuwat..

[divine68]

ayaw na pg huwat bro, kay mahuman na ang kalibutan, d ka katilaw ug lami pag matapos na kalibutan hehehehehhe joke lang

[GelaiM.]

Today, my bf texted me na nanawag iyang ex gf makig duwa niya ug badmin with the ex's workmates. He knows na magselos jud ko since I have witnesseD jud how he was crazily in love with that woman when he immediately flies to Mla whenever mgka gubot LANG sila. Their 4-year relationship ended because of his Ex having another man. Its been 1 year lang since they broke up. With that, I guess I have sufficient reasons why I really get jealous. BUT HE NEVER UNDERSTANDS THAT. Mao toh, when he INFORMED me about the duwa(never asked for my permission), I told him that it would never be okay with me and all. After that, I DIDN'T GET ANY RESPONSE FROM HIM. At around 11pm, he texted me calling me with our endearment, INFORMING that he's home and wala daw signal sa City Sports. I never tried to contact him after the moment he didn't respond to my message so I just didn't know na di diay siya ma contact. I felt like what he did, murag wa siya paki samung relationship and nako that he opted to see his Ex KNOWING na its against my will. HERE ARE MY QUESTIONS:

1. What are his actions implying?
2. Gi himu ba ko niya'g panakipbutas?
3. Could it ever be possible na mu balik jud akung BF sa iyang Ex when the girl signals "available" to the "relationship slot"?
4. Should I end it as soon as now than repeatedly getting hurt and having doubts if he's over with his Ex?

PS: I just knew from my BF's ofcmate na in comparison jud daw, he treated his Ex GF waaaay better than the way he treats me.

[reyscott1968]

it seems nga murag gi himu ka niyang panakip butas. if wala na jud na cyay na feel sa iya ex, d na cya makig kita oie..unless there are circumstances nga magkita jud sila bisag unsaon..
para nako noh, hold on lang usa. but if makita nmo nga naa jud something d maayo, better break up. and then accept the fact nga mao nay dako nga possibility nga ma happen in the near future may not be now but too soon.. u know love dba? it hurts a lot. but acceptance would make u better...

[GelaiM.]

it seems nga murag gi himu ka niyang panakip butas. if wala na jud na cyay na feel sa iya ex, d na cya makig kita oie..unless there are circumstances nga magkita jud sila bisag unsaon..
para nako noh, hold on lang usa. but if makita nmo nga naa jud something d maayo, better break up. and then accept the fact nga mao nay dako nga possibility nga ma happen in the near future may not be now but too soon.. u know love dba? it hurts a lot. but acceptance would make u better...

Thanks for the advice bai. I have a follow up question though. Until when should I hold on? I mean, unsa nga "something di maayu" imung gi mean? I fear na masakitan paku further the longer I hold on.

[reyscott1968]

Thanks for the advice bai. I have a follow up question though. Until when should I hold on? I mean, unsa nga "something di maayu" imung gi mean? I fear na masakitan paku further the longer I hold on.

hmm till to the point nga makaya pa nmo ang pag endure.. pero kung d na kaya, nya na feel nmo nga something different jud, just move on.. im on such a situation ryt now.. but u know wat? i cant even move on myself... and i really hate it... ako lang gi agwanta sa, samtang kaya..

[reyscott1968]

mine is different lang coz LDR.. kapoi oie.. i wanna quit. coz im in pain. daghan doubts sa ako mind but ako gi try ug divert ako self...

[GelaiM.]

Kapuy jud! It keeps us awake til at this very hour. Tsk. Naaah, im actually very very busy man jud. I mean, what im currently doing permits me to move on and divert my emotion. I can't even wait that certain time to come na di na nako mkaya and choose to breakaway. tsssk. soooooooooooooo painful!