MERGED The "EX-" Factor: All About being an Ex-, Dealing with Ex-'s

[ngehhh]

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let the girl decide!

[Jollibee]

You know why women are more crazier than men?

"coz they really think the next guy would be different"

bwahaha... i just heard that from a stand up comedy... haha..

[jefelin]

ur bestfriend ofcorz....in the first place y man imo pajud na g.hilabtan ang ex sa imong bestfriend oi...kadaghn lain dha...n dont tell me na it just happen and na fall raka niya ky pwede bya jud na nmo mastop and control imo feelings ha...even if na fall najud ka nya, wa nlang nuon ka ni continue, respect lng bah...murg mn gud traitor ka sa imo bestfriend..maskin lets just say wa na cya feelings sa iya ex, still u dont have the right..if tarong ka u know wat i mean about that...how would u feel if u'r in the situation of your bestfriend and makahibaw ka na imong bestfriend gf niya imo ex?? just think about it......

[neE_c]

best friend oi. that's where your loyalties have to lie.

[lambigit]

ang babae papili.a bro!.. pero dapat jud follow what ur heart feels! alangan mo lng pud e.sacrifice mong happiness! lols...ka.igat! hahaha! wakoko

[cuttie_angel]

ngeek!!! friend man naku akng mga ex's oi bisan we have different partners na. i mean, there's no hindrance between our friendships na man.

[aridoasis]

let's say you had a break-up that wasn't so bad, and you and your ex still are good friends. anyway, before you broke up, there was something you made him/her stop doing, obviously fro hi/her own good. then, out of nowhere, you find out that he/she is back doing the same antics...

share your experience...

here's mine...

i just recently got out of a relationship, amicably ending it or so i though. while we were still together, i made my partner quit smoking, for many many reasons that are so obvious, and especially because i have a ZERO TOLERANCE rule when i comes to smoking... anyway, just tonight, we had dinner together as friends, and suddenly, out of nowhere, out popped a pack of cigarettes and even had the nerve to offer me a puff!

i got so pi**ed off that i walked out and ended the friendship as well. GRRR! kapoi2x lang ko ug luhod2x, nya nibalik ra gihapon sa karaan nga agi!

[junmar4]

ngano kaha jud na noh nga ingana? ngano man diay ug let him be na lang? wala naman kaha mo? or basin what pissed you off kay nailad ka niya?

lisud jud tawn madawat labi ug naa pay nahabilin nga pagbati niya.

[joshbonz]

FRANKLY, I DONT SMOKE.. and I cant get into my system having or even going out w/ a girl who smokes.. just me lang...

I dont have qualms to those girls who puffs a cigar butt but for me lang.. I cant get them inside my system.. I dunno.. it's matter of preference lang siguro.. if your a guy who smoke/not smoke and have no qualms about your gf smoking..i salute you.. me.. I despicably HATE IT..

going back on your issue bai.. I think what touch you was your pride and ego.. You cant take the fact that your ex/gf is on her old self again and its hurting your pride that she disobeyed her promise to you on not to smoke again...

I guess you really cant change people' especially w/ their habbits.. -Old habbits never grow old or die at all...

BUT, one thing lang sad I maybe noticing is... it could be your ex/gf (as you said you are 'friends' already right?)
is just making you pay the consequences of ending up the relationship and not wanting her back no more..

girls/women have this tendency sometimes to annoy us guys, especially if they still like the guy and they know what things ang pinaka hate jud nimo?.. then they would explore this hateness and stirs it up, until you would eventually fall apart...

I think your ex/gf is just observing your actions, on how you reacted (especially the looks on your face) when she offered you that cigarrette.. I would imagine the smirked on her face and even thinking (maybe thinking even nga "its what you get for breaking up w/ me").. just my thoughts though...

you cant change any person even if you wanted them to be.. it has to be that person's WILL to do it and it must be from the heart...

[ngehhh]

tanAw nko bi no..murag gpa suko man ka a2 nya i n purpose..ky ngano gd tawn mo offer xa nga mo puff ka nga khbaw bya xa nga di ka mo smoke...basin bitter xa sa inyo pag buwag mao nag inA2 cya..

just my 2 cents =D