I think bro you need to boost your self esteem.
Ang mahitabo man gud ani kay bisag duwa-duwaan ra ka sa mga babay kay you're too nice and but.an pud kaau.
Naa man gud tendency to abuse.
I'm not saying na change ka right away pero try to practice having authority and power pud para makaboost sa imong esteem and confidence.
Once nigrow na imu confidence, focus on achieving things. Pamaayuhun nimu imung self with what you are good at doing and excel in it. Chicks love guys who can do something great pud. Plus points kasi yun eh. Then keep yourself neat and presentable all the time. Hygiene is always a plus pud.
Don't focus your energy looking for women bro. Sometimes its best that you focus on yourself muna. As they say... The right person would come some time along the way pud. Just be patient, do yer thing and have faith.
*Cheers and good luck!*