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[diem]

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well, 7months to be exact..yap thru txt nya chat2..never meet him pa man hoon...pero dle man gud ko gusto pasakitan xa...

@babyjoy, you are a kind-hearted young lady to consider your 'virtual' boyfriend's feelings... but in all that 7 months, having not met each other face-to-face and even heard each other's voice? (text and chat ra man kaha).. would you consider that as a serious boyfriend-girlfriend relationship?

I'm sorry but it just seems to me not so serious. Unless the guy is living far far away from you and has no immediate means to visit you, maybe what you have is a long distance kind of relationship. But if the guy just courted you online? Can you really call it serious? Maybe what you have is a strong, intimate friendship of spirit, but boyfriend-girlfriend relationship? Seems a bit of a stretch.

If your 'virtual' boyfriend was sincere and true to his feelings for you, he would do anything possible just to meet you face-to-face. That is if he is able.

Anyway, your problem is how to break up with him. Sadly I just feel that you two were never serious enough in the first place. Please consider this point so that you could be strong to tell the truth... that you need more than just words and kind thoughts. You need something more.

You need someone to be there, for real, physically. A hand to hold, a shoulder to lean on, a sincere smile that will brighten your day. You need to hear a voice who says your name as if its the most beautiful word in the world. You need to look into eyes that only see you in a given moment. You need to see and touch a face that is the very portrait of your heart.

That's what romance and love is-- basically more than just the idea or a fantasy-- it is the reality of life. Love matters-- take note of the word MATTERS-- It occupies space and definitely has volume.

And when a person loves another, he or she will bear and give more than just words to prove one's love.

And I think that's what everybody wants truthfully and I feel that's how you should relay to your 'virtual' boyfriend your feelings. That you need something more. You need someone else who is here, now.

Just tell (text or chat) him the truth, and respect his reactions. Maybe he did feel strongly for you but please be serious, if he ever felt something true and sincere for you then his love should have brought him to you in reality and made you happy but 7 months through, has his so-called love given him the courage to see you face to face?

What do you think?

[jugs_06]

@babyjoy:

mao nay naka faet sa OGG---Olipon sa Gugmang Gi-Liver nga nahituyok sa kalibutan sa text ug chat.. ug kon nganong wala ka mu desidir nga makigkita kaniya, wala ko kahibaw sa rason..

wala koy nakitang igong rason nga ikaw maglisud sa pag bulag kaniya nga unta wala pa man mo nagkita.. kon mu abot man gani ang panahon nga kamo magkita puhon, kining matang sa masakit nga butang nga atong gitawag ug BGG---Biktima sa Gugmang Gi-Liver (matud pa sa pikas hilo nga akong nabasahan ) mao na ang imong matagamtaman.. kining atong gitawag nga BGG sama pud kini sa liver sa baboy, nig kaon nimo lami, kon mabahaw na gani wa nay lami, CHAR.

ang imong igsuon,
juggy

[rainne]

my boyfriend thinks im choosing my friends over him... i think thats being too possesive,, he expects me to stay home on moments we cant be together,, i mean ,, cant i have a life? now it seems this relationship is really gonna sink... we're not talking for 3 days already,,

[potterboy]

rainne,

inday, normal ra kana kanamong mga lalaki ang pagka-possesive. ang imo nga mabuhat ana is ang pagpasabot nya. nan, imo naba sya nga gipasabot ana? there might be other factors ngano dili sya mosugot. you might have guy-friends nga feeling nya is a threat to your relationship. or, basin kuyog imo ex. or it could boil down to wala sya salig nimo.

pasabta sya. basin sad ug kada adlaw sad ko molaag. ayaw ana yadz, makadaot na sa future. or basin ug buntagay sad na nga laag? makadaot ghpon na sa future.

3 days namo walay tingganay? basin sa ika-limang adlaw nag-uros uros na ang iyang mingaw nimo, hala tawagi, storyahi na ninyo. ayaw padala sa init sa ulo kung mag-away mo. pasabta sya sa imong gusto ug knhanglan kung maka buhat mo ug decision, make sure nga both of you will be satisfied with whatever it is that you have plotted.

hala, taas na ni. wala man gud ko tulog maong nag gugma gugma ko dri yadz.

[ronna]

@rainne

that's what made me fell to my 1st bf. funny but i love it that way.
He showed his love thruough his selfishness pero when you see right through it you might understand that he just loved you.
In your case, i beleive you feel suffocated. You might want to talk about it.
Make him understand that you need to enjoy life with your friends too.

[diem]

my boyfriend thinks im choosing my friends over him... i think thats being too possesive,, he expects me to stay home on moments we cant be together,, i mean ,, cant i have a life? now it seems this relationship is really gonna sink... we're not talking for 3 days already,,

@rainne, I would like to ask some questions if you would be kind to answer... have you and your boyfriend discussed about this aspect of your relationship? Were you able to relate to your feelings about his 'expectations'? What were his reactions/reasons/explanations?

[babyjoy]

thnx sa inyo advice guys..i really appreciate it...i realized ur right...

[diem]

[b]@babyjoy, I hope everything works out for you! Wishing you all the best in Life and in real Love! :mrgreen:

[babyjoy]

[b]@babyjoy, I hope everything works out for you! Wishing you all the best in Life and in real Love! :mrgreen:

thnx po...

gain sakow ug courage para maka tell...

[diem]

thnx po... gain sakow ug courage para maka tell...

@babyjoy, i-email mo na lang...