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[karljadon]

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Life is too short, half of our life span spend on sleeping, just forget and forgive na lang and find a way to enjoy your life......

[r0mm3L]

hi wicked

what happen to ur love d i ?

[wicked_b]

@r0mm3L
okay raman akong love dong..hehehe, single jpon..and looking for
a potential one this year..LOL,sumtimes failure jed kai even u try
to build-up a nice one, tapos dli mo support imong partner wa jpon jamo..
so far my longest relationship dong is 6months..LOL, 1 day is the shortest..

hahahahahaha

[n`gel]

See? I read somewhere kinsa to gaingon... I also believe in sparks BUT before lagi kuno mo spark patyon na daan ang flicker. Same as falling for someone.

I know I know most people would say if it happens it happens and you cannot really avoid it but you really can. Mao nay nakapait sa style nga "let's wait and see" kay it gives you room to allow yourself to spend enough time and spend it with somebody... the more you get to be closer to him... the more chances of you knowing and seeing his beautiful side thus... maganahan ka eventually which is what happened to you Meowkyu.

Bisan ni start inyo relationship ug friendship, personally I have also something to say about people who are lovingly involved and are exclusively committed and inlove with somebody who opts to find bestfriends of the opposite ***, like your guy. Especially kung LDR. I'm very particular baya pud ug ingon ana, basta naa ko uyab, dili ko gusto makigsuod siya as in bestfriend gyud ug babae because I know mo care gyud siya kay bestfriend lagi. Yes, I am selfish but ey that's my rule. What's my use kung ngita pa siya lain nga bestfriend. You see, oftentimes man gud there's that thin line between gf and bestfriend relationships. Usahay raba sa mga bestfriends nga guy ug girl kay ma-aan ug uyab tungod lagi anang care, unless duuugay na kaayo silang bestfriends prior pa siya nakauyab. But still... ug makauyab na gani dapat naa nay kausaban. Personally lang na ha, I've always preferred that. I want to be my significant other's bestfriend man gud and kung pwede ako sa suoron ya bestfriend and evaluate kung wala bay hidden feelings ya bestfriend niya before ko mo trust sa ila friendship.

But to get back to "allowing yourself to fall" stage should always be avoidable. Loving is a choice they say. Yup dili ka kapili kinsa ka mainlove BUT before ka mainlove ug taw mo na diha ang CHOICE. You chose to be closer to him, you allowed yourself to be closer to him nga almost uyab namo, you allowed your feelings to flourish... so if you can... ALLOW YOURSELF TO BACK OFF pud. I know you like him so much na and you've fallen for him and you want to tell him how you feel. Dili ba unta dapat siya mismo ang mo sulti nimo kung para niya worth ka i-pursue kaysa keeping his relationship with his gf? Pero kung dili gyud mada, be honest with your feelings na lang, kung dili man pud gani ka ma peaceful. My point here is... basta ang guy maigo... mogukod gyud na. Kung torpe man gani... mailhan pud nimo nga naa siya'y intention mogukod nimo pero dili lang kaabante. Or ba kaha, maong dili nalang ka niya i-pursue kay kebaw na siya daan ma busted ra siya, fear of rejection gihapon mao niguro nalang siya sa ya uyab. Tsk. Kita mga babae maka sense man ta unsa gyud feelings sa lalake ba, at least 99% of the time.

Ang kalisud man gud noh, no matter how strong-willed you are, when you've crossed that bridge (the allowing bridge) nya magsugod naka ug ka fall sa taw? UGG na gyud na. I admit I am like that pud. Everybody is vulnerable. Mao kung pwede, sa katong mga seryoso sa mga uyab nila, don't cross that bridge gyud ever to reach another woman's territory kay basin mahulog ka sa yang lair. You know why I say this? Nobody's perfect... and if your relationship with your bf/gf hasn't been too long yet meaning dili pa ingon ana ka strong, daku ang chances nga makit-an nimo ang special beautiful trait (which i believe everybody possesses and are unique) sa imo amigo/amiga and ma fall ka, hurting the one you love.

So for women... try not to be too close with a guy nga naay uyab... at least respeto nalang sa imong pagka babae kay ug ikaw pud naa sa shoes sa uyab... sakit pud nang ingon ana. Golden rule lang gud... bisan tuod moana ta "buot pasabot ang guy tintalonon kaayo and dili gyud diay siya super inlove sa ya gf kay natintal pa man"... pero considering that we're all educated... let's remind ourselves especially us women to be decent and respectful sa atong isig ka babae.

OT: Honestly this happened to me once baya pud. Sa akong kamaldita noh? Once upon a time nagkasakay mi sa bestfriend sa ko ex (sorry b example lang) sa v-hire. Liman ka gasige ug bira sa ya kamot ang babae and wa na nisaka na gyud akong kilay. She was just too much nalang pud kuwang nalang ingnon nya... I dunno basta there was something about her... labi na di ko ganahan ug mga babae ingon ana? I mean come on, most of my close friends are guys pero ug naa gani na ilang uyab taas kaayo ang respeto uy bisan dugay na wala gakita, never never show great closeness kay awkward kaayo na sa ya uyab. Respeto lang gud. Mausab man gyud dapat ang closeness sa friends ba kung makauyab, mo nay atong gitawag ug "limitations". And besides makasense baya pud tang mga babae sa "pa friend friend lang" naa diay toy HD. And so you know what I did? I looked at the girl straight on the face and told her "pagtapad nalang kaha mong duha" kung mag-ingon ana naman lang mo!" Duh. Shut up lagi. What's up with women like that man pud nga as in super extra sweet nalang sa tanang amigo? Mao nay akong gitawag ug "pacute cute para ibigin" then wala gihapo'y mo ibig. Poor thing. Then dili diay to sila ingon ana ka bestfriends. Pagkaaaa shallow. I didn't care what she thought of me! No way! What she did was utterly indecent and out of place.

OT: Sus b ug nimo mahitabo haaaay nalang asa kaha ang babae puniton. Lagpot gyud ba!

[r0mm3L]

@r0mm3L
okay raman akong love dong..hehehe, single jpon..and looking for
a potential one this year..LOL,sumtimes failure jed kai even u try
to build-up a nice one, tapos dli mo support imong partner wa jpon jamo..
so far my longest relationship dong is 6months..LOL, 1 day is the shortest..

hahahahahaha

moba potential one? ako na ni? heheeh JK

gud lak

[KaTzKi]

daghan mn kayu love problems uey.. kanang mga things na di mu mgkasinabot.. or lets say mgselos.. either the gurl or ang guy, in short, wala'y trust. altho normal rman ang mgselos.. ambot bsta daghan.. bsta ang impt lng is, before the sun sets, u get to talk about it, kiss n make up. mskan unsa pay mahitabo.. yer still there for each other, no matter unsa ka dagku ang problems ninyu..

[cookie_cola]

i received this txt from my sister,

Fnd sum1 hu wnts 2 kiss u evryday, hu lift & hug u wen ur jealous, hu patiently kip silent wen ur mad, hu fix ur hair jst 2 c ur face,
& d 1 hu wants 2 hve lunch w/u w/his family..d 1 hu shares his drnks w/u...hu squiz ur hand 2gedr wen u squiz his & d 1 hu cut
just 2 hve a date w/u. find sum1 hu plans & imagine his future w/u 40yrs from now
& wen u fnd him....NEVER LET GO...

Waaahh!!! ka nice sad ani oi... naa pa by ingon ani... mayra man ni sa bag.o pa... magkakaraan kay mawa naman...

[meOwkyU]

@ n`gel

i allowed myself to cross the bridge because i was clueless that he had a girlfriend...it was only a mistake...and now that he finally admitted that he has LDR with some other girl i tried to stay away from him, and guess wat, its already too late...i know he has feelings for me, but i wont tolerate it...i juz want a proper closure between us, whichhas become very hard to do, coz we're no longer talking, not even the casually...

[n`gel]

@ n`gel

i allowed myself to cross the bridge because i was clueless that he had a girlfriend...it was only a mistake...and now that he finally admitted that he has LDR with some other girl i tried to stay away from him, and guess wat, its already too late...i know he has feelings for me, but i wont tolerate it...i juz want a proper closure between us, whichhas become very hard to do, coz we're no longer talking, not even the casually...

and I truly understand... ako basta love advices sa inlove dili kaayo ko ingon ka insist this and that, do this and that kay I know myself lisud when na inlove naka. May lang unta ug wala pa pero kung naa naka diha, one of the hardest thing in life is to stop loving someone that you still really really love. Sakit nga lisud. Agwanta ra gyuy tambal ana. Let's say magkalagyo mo, di namo mag-istorya, kung kamo gyud kamo man gyud di ba? He'll make his way back to you kung ma realize niya one day if he truly wants you.

But as for now, I dunno unsa pud imo buhaton. But if maka relieve nimo nga mosulti ka niya how you truly feel, go ahead. At least relibohi pud na imong pagbati nga galisud ka. Breathe a little pud.

[maibe]

mine:

.. inlove sa fren(as in close jud) he knows all my secrets sa lovelife.
..wer frends way way back.. more dan 3 years na,,
.. daghan nag too nga kami duha kai close jud daw me den sweet daw,, ka2 iya ex gf told me na kami nalnag daw a2ng fren nako (morag gipamugos style) but mo refuse jud ko kai for frendship only ra jud ako kaya ka offer sa iya ..nag try jud xa court but d jud ko.. nag ka bf/gf nalang me both
....if both me free napod .. mo ask napod xa if okay raba mag court xa nako and be his gf,, ako lang xa kataw an.. ako xa ingnan nga love ra nako xa as a fren .. frendship 4ever lage daw kuno ingon pa nako,,
.. bag o lang nako na discover nga na develop na diay ko sa iya but gi pugngan lang jud nako coz nag sulti na raba ko og "friendship forever"me duha
.. last month nangulit napod xa nga mag court daw xa and d daw xa mag dali2 basta mag wait lang jud daw xa nga mainlove ko nya...
.. na ambot ngano jud 2 oi.. wala nako ka pansin nga nadevelop na diay ko nya.. and know wat i did?> me ask ko first sa iya og advice na "wat if ma inlove ko sakong fren and wat maayu buhaton?" and me advice pod tawn xa.. nga isulti lang daw nako sa akoa fren ako na feel a2 sa iya basi daw naa pod diay 2 feelings.. mao 2 ako gisulti jud sa iyaha.. ako xa giignan nga xa ako gi mean a2 ako gipa advice sa iyaha...
.. and iya reply kai d daw xa mo sugot na.. kai as wat ive said daw nga "friends me forever"and d pod xa gusto ma sakitan ko nya..
.. after a2 wala ko nag tingog2 wala nakipag talk sa iyaha but xa pila ka weeks me call jud xa.. nag ask xa musta nako.. nag ask if naka recover na ba daw den ana xa nga gi tinood jud daw nako akong gisulti nga d mag paramdam nya para maka limot..
.. last nyt me ask jud xa if naka recover na ba jud ko.. ana ko nga giignore nalang jud nako.. and wala ko ga cge think a2.. akong na confess sa iya..and iya reply kai "d lang jud daw xa gusto ma sakitan ko"

galibog ko.. "d xa gusto masakitan ko but sa iya gibuhat ron nga frends ra daw me )morag na busted style ko ani) samot ko na hurt mas okay nalang daw nga goodfrends me forever.. sugot xa i love nako xa as a frend nalang daw.
.. pro sa iyang gibuhat ako ang sobra ka affected.. sakit au wahh wahh..
-- labi na ron nga naa daw xa gi date na.. waahh nag jelly jud ko

unsay maayu buhaton.. ka faets.. ngano lage pasagdan nako ma inlove ko sa iya..