last time i check, it isn't a competition.
there are tons of ways people show their love.
does the person who texts more or calls more better than person who makes you smile?
does the person who is giving you gifts better than the person who is always with you?
does the person who is always on your side [even if your wrong] better than the one who confronts you when you're doing something wrong?
love your partner truthfully and wholly then it should be enough...