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[crush_23]

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guys can you help me?
I met a guy over istorya.. we dated once and everything was normal.
we watched a movie and that's all.
daun we will talk almost everyday na thru gmail.
instead nga 2pm ko out 3pm nalang for him.
magtxt pud mi pirme. mening we always kip in touch.
daun nasundan ug ikaduhang yugto. nagdate nasad mi.
eat mi first den watch movie.
bisag he knows nga nakakita nako ato nga movie, watch japon ko for him.
so graveyard manko. while nagreview xa sa movie, sleep ko iyang shoulder.
we just held hands. bu t i can feel something like a kiss on my forehead or nose..
i am half asleep kay kapoy man gkan sa shift.
on our way home, we held hands.. dugay kayo mi nakasakay,
kay you know, the feeling nga you dont want the momen to end.
we talked and laughed a lot jud.
since then we know nga we liked each other.
i guess i pressured him kay sa txt naman ko niya gi ask if i can be his gf.
di na daw xa kahuwat nxtweek nga magkita me. cos we were both working.
i said, he have to be sure with what he's asking me. i did not answer his question.
but he knows i love him. i told him that.
basically, when you overdo thinking of a person night and day that's love right?
daun karon. murag busy na xa, he has no time. we haven't chat that much nor he txt me.
he is a musician with a lot of gigs.

kmusta naman mga friends..?
should i expect or what?
i mean will i just foorget everything?
i dont wanna open this to him.
i dont want to sound so agressive like what my friends said.
bsag agressive nagud gamay. hahaha

help!

bai, best thing to do is to stop thinking of him..the more nga magthink ka niya the more nga ma miss nimo sya....its like this if he really likes you he will make a move para magkakita, magkatalk, magkachat mo balik bisan little ra kaau na time.....he will find time for you and to see if you're ok...bisan unsa ka busy sa tawo mangita jud na way para lang ka niya ma communicate..if luv jud ka niya bai, personal jud ka niya i ask nga "would you be my gurl?" unya dapat he is sincere..you look at the eyes. I think iya ra ka gitest atong time nga niask sya nimo pwede ba ka niya mahimong gf...advice lang, dont beliv ryt away sa iya mga itell..u know, guys nowadays...try na nila to be gentle, sweet and caring para jud ka mo believe nga luv ka nila but the truth is they're playing around lang. so careful lang you nya watch out ka sa mga guys manguyab thru txt lang...you dont deserve nga txt lang bai..so forget that guy...let him go and look for sum1 better than him..owki? cge, ingatz!

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Mod's Post: I don't understand what happened. I thought the original topic was about relationships with musicians, authored by Gypsy.

[Gypsy]

Mod's Post: I don't understand what happened. I thought the original topic was about relationships with musicians, authored by Gypsy.

I reckon its been moved to this thread because it was originally posted on the Music and Radio thread...there goes my bad...

[maia_79]

Careful about "loving" musicians. They can drive you crazy but when they do have real feelings for you, they're da best! .. well, any guy who loves you and respects you (regardless if he's a musician or not), should be da best! :mrgreen:

[jugs_06]

@ronna:

you failed to include the most vital information that we may need to know------->how long have you been dating him?

anyway, i'll just give a somewhat (i'm thinking of a word ) "doubtful" advice and i'll purely base it on your post alone, so that's gonna be my bad in case i'll step on your toes eventually..

first stuff, i would like you to kinda distinguish the difference between "REAL LOVE" and "INFATUATION".. coz a lot of people fail to correlate between the two.. most often than not, one might think that what he/she feels is REAL LOVE but on the other hand, never realized that what he/she actually feels is the complete opposite, if you get the flow..

now with that said, i encourage you to go on with your thoughts and feelings.. try to reflect with what you really have DEEP INSIDE.. don't look at the outside picture and try to go within yourself.. but take note, don't ever, and i mean EVER, change the friendship that you guys once had.. in other words, don't make it too obvious that you actually have the FEELING for him.. reason why? let me put it this way, you guys have already entered (although it might not actually sound that way) the next level of friendship.. now tell me, would you want to go down from that level you're in instead of going up?

i don't wanna sound like someone who dictates things on you.. but i want you to reflect girl.. reflect..

and don't forget.. don't rush things.. take time for yourself.. if he's too busy with things, try to understand.. in other words, don't be too paranoid..

good luck..

[ronna]

thanx, you guys are great..

yeah, i guess i am paranoid now..
coz, duh! it has been centuries, since i last got paranoid..

i tried not to think of him anymore and just bury myself at work.
though i cant stop myself from texting him.. just to check if he's ok..
i mean cant i do that too?
we are still friends. that wont change, absolutely..

i am back to the queue..

[jugs_06]

^^as i've said, don't EVER change the friendship that you guys once had.. there's really nothing wrong if you text and check on him from time to time.. but you wanna kinda have that distance to establish time for yourself and think it over.. don't rush.. i bet things would be easier for you once you already "know" yourself..

[fingolfin]

.. OT. listen to kuya jugs - or should i say JUGGY LOVE . hehehe

[jugs_06]

.. OT. listen to kuya jugs - or should i say JUGGY LOVE . hehehe

OT: hehehee.. atertz.. kaw jud doc..

[sheeshcute]

* OT: WOW! Rabbit hunter na, doctor love pa!