What do you think of nosy parents?

[necrotic freak]

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^ i can really relate to this bfore ko nagrebelde.

manghilabot ug dli ilaha, mkasapot mulang. hastang kada lakaw pangutan-on asa ka. ma duol o layo. mura mag ig lakaw nato pulos lng kabuang ra atong buhaton.

nya kung clay manglakaw mayg pagpahibaw...nga dli jd raba.


pero human atong nilayas ko, nka amgo ra sila nga i need privacy ug space. dli tawn ko mabuhi anang naay cge ga monitor sa akoa.

pagkanindot ani. ang parents pa nuon ang naka-amgo. hehe

mao ni gi ingon sa anak, ikaw ray ginikanan nga mosukol ug anak!

[Snowfly]

I was there before. Even if am 52 with grownup (professional) children already, I still value the advices, comments and suggestions of my parents coz as the saying goes - " mas na una sila sa duyan".

Guys, let us be thankful nga concern pa gihapon sila nato. It only proves nga love gihapon ta nila and they are just making sure we cant be adding problems in the family as well as in our society.

Children, will not yet understand it today. Somehow, they will realize it when they will be parents someday.

[Jbond168]

parents that snoop around your room when you're away
parents that open your notebooks and see your not-paying-attention-in-class drawings.
Parents that go through your box of mushy recollection letters and read them.
Parents that look inside the contents of your wallet, especially the pictures. And maybe, something else.

Waaaaaa!! Ambot ug ngano na ui.. My father used to do this when i still lived with them. Samok kaayo ui. Unya kung d sha gnahan sa iya makita kai kasab.an bya ko.. Mao na i don't keep diaries kai basahon jud! Unya kng mkahibaw grounded dayon ko! Pagka paeta lage.. Strained amo relationship sa ako father kai d jud ko gnahan sa style niya. Murag pangitaan ra ko ug sayop prmi..

Thank god wala nko sa iya poder.. :d ako napod manghod nxt in line.

ouchies!................

[epoaxlan]

i think I will be nosy parent if modako na cla..grabe ko ka paranoid, i even cried katong nasamad ra gamay ako anak, unsa na kaha nang mas involed cla ug grabe nga issue..people's comments here are right, over protective lng gyud usahay ang parents kay grabe kasakit sa among dughan kong naay mahitabo nga d maau sa among mga anak..

[arvinbenitez]

soul doctor is right.
it all boils down to GUIDANCE.
in our modern world, there are so many temptations.
nagkalat ang mga scandal, mga porn, mga uyab uyab.

bisan early high school years di na virgin.
kung dili nimo imonitor imo anak, mao na lang imo mahibaw-an nga nahagbong na diay ang grado, nimabdos na diay, nainvolve na diay ug crime tungod sa barkada nga di mao.

in other words, teenagers today really need guidance.

not to mention Bloods & Crips.

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by the way, if there is a very good parent-child communication/relationship wherein open kaayo ang bata sa iyang mga problema ug sa iyang activities, then the parents might not need to be too nosy at all.

daku jud ning sakto bro...

[markynina]

UP ta ani...nice topic...very helpfull sa family..

cheers

[Snowfly]

Up sad ko,,,,so that others will know.

[shey0811]

Parents just do what they are supposed to do --- GUIDE...

It is a parent's job to keep updated about what goes on with their children and they'd go to great lengths to know what they're up to -- up to the point that their children's privacy are invaded. Unless their children are at an age where they can be depended upon, only will parents start to trust and let them go. I guess it is more than just a responsibility that parents are performing. It is about love. Besides, parents who really care and love their children really make sure that they have a big "participation" in their children's lives, even when sometimes they're misunderstood and taken for granted.

[reginakrys]

i think I will be nosy parent if modako na cla..grabe ko ka paranoid, i even cried katong nasamad ra gamay ako anak, unsa na kaha nang mas involed cla ug grabe nga issue..people's comments here are right, over protective lng gyud usahay ang parents kay grabe kasakit sa among dughan kong naay mahitabo nga d maau sa among mga anak..

true gyud nga you can only truly appreciate your parents when you've become one yourself.. sayon ra kaayo ignon nga i will give my child the freedom due to him/her, pero truth is mas mulabaw usahay ang protective nature sa parent..

[MarLouDX]

been there done that.. labaw na f the only ra ka.

just wait if u'll become a parent, and you will know.
now that i'm a parent. and ive realized It's not an easy Role. Tanan buhaton pra sa anak.

makaingon ra ka karon nga "sinamukan ang mga ginikanan"..


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this.