Is it right to stay in a relationship just because you have kids with him?

[icycles]

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I think that if the relationship is not working anymore why burden yourself in living the rest of your life with someone you dont love anymore...you just prolong your suffering...


But paano ang mga bata? Lalo na if they are still young and wont understand the situation...at mas lalo if attached sila sa father...di ba lalabas na parang ikaw ang magiging dahilan ng emotional trauma nila?

Can you give your insights with this matter?

[rhanz82]

If you are married, YES.

[ruz32]

Kids are not reasons for staying in a relationship. You have to be in one because of love. Sometimes a relationship just needs a little spice to keep the love burning. Try to think before you let go.


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[arvinbenitez]

what is the reason y naka sulte man ka nga wala nakai love para sa imu partner?

kong married namu dayon naa pa jud moi anak, lisod na kong ang mga anak ang ma apektohan... ayaw lang e give-up dayon, try to build it agen like before...

[tessF]

nope. if wala man love whats the reason to stay?.. pede ra man support sa kids if wala nay gusto ang both parties

[Dickiesss]

nope. if wala man love whats the reason to stay?.. pede ra man support sa kids if wala nay gusto ang both parties

Mao gyud, ana raman na pero dili lang dali.

[makie]

Depende sa conflict. I believe that every conflict has a solution provided that both parties are willing to work it out.

In a situation nga naa na moy anak, you better have to talk more and consider some more options. Di lalim magbuwag mo karon and later on regret it tungod kay nadala ra mo sa inyong gibati. There are a lot of relationships nga lisod kaayo ug naagian yet nisurvive gyud. It is a matter of either sticking and fighting for it ot give up and find the easy way out.

[PseudoSurgeon]

Nope. Ing-ani nahitabo sa among family. Gitago jud sa akong parents nga wa najud diay silay ayo, for the sake of me and my sister. Nahadlok sila nga di mi makasabot and magdumot mi or something. Pero sa tinuoray lang, mas murag nagsuffer pa mi atong years nga nagpretend ra sila nga okay pa ilang relationship. Mailhan man gud gihapon nga di na magkasinabot. Nya kung mag-away heavy kaayo. Mas sakit na actually.

Tarongon lang gud pag-explain sa mga anak. Masakitan man jud na or maglagot at first, but eventually your children will understand. Kung feel najud nimo nga di na nimo kaya, magsuffer najud kag maayo if mustay pa ka in that relationship, bail nalang. Kay ang negative effect ana basin adto padung sa imong mga anak.

[reginakrys]

if mao nalang gyud na ang only reason, i guess it's better to end it.. sensitive man ang mga bata, and parents tend to underestimate them.. maka-sense jud sila nga something isn't right.. like sa akong parents sauna.. sigeg away and they think wala ra ko kabantay.. 8 yrs old pa ko ato pero tatak kaayo ang memories sa akong head..

pero mas nindot unta if both parties committed to making it work jud..

[ShrewdMuch]

I think it's better for the kids to see their parents separated yet actually civil to each other, kesa seeing their parents live under the same roof pero sige ra pud ug away.