Originally Posted by
burikoy12
I was 27 once, single, not even dating and in the midst of a blooming career. The pressure was greater kay eldest, only son ko and my father was already in his mid-70's (Apo nako Dong, kay basin next year wala na ko.).
Sa processing line, kataw-an ko sa akoang mga subordinates kay ang ila daw bosing bugnaw ug simod (torpe-pero ang tinuod wa ko'y time kay sige ug overtime/higher study) kay unsaon ako ra'y single sa tibuok department (BBBBBBBBIGGG department). Aww naa pa diay 3 ka mga single pero mga certified syoki.
I always thought marriage will get in the way of my career until...
I gave in to pressure and got married.
Share lang ko sa akoang experience TS kay mora'g dili ko kasabot how in your case, relationships/marriage will get in your career's way. In my case, mas focused, mas determined ko sa akoang career after I got married. Never in my mag-18 years of married life did it get in the way with career or making money.
Lain-lain lang pod nuon ta'g panan-aw sa kinabuhi. Pareha ta'g panan-aw niadto pero later on narealize nako nga sayop diay to. I should have done it (magminyo) sooner.
Sa akong tan-aw, ang imong pseudo-gf nadutlan na jud na siya. She must have seen something in you that made her fall for you. Kaluoy pod niya. If I were you, tinud-on ko na lang na, pakaslan, anakan. Happy mong tanan. Ayaw kahadlok TS, you will be a successful, filthy rich husband/father.