How can we be sure that we really love someone?

**MrCheap** · 04-01-2011, 08:37 AM

How can we be sure that we really love someone?

**nodols3** · 04-02-2011, 11:34 AM

haha...are you having second thoughts bro??

**gannie** · 04-02-2011, 07:44 PM

imagine her in someone else's arms . . . your feelings will give you a hint.

**james_mustaine** · 04-03-2011, 01:46 AM

follow your instinct

**beyee** · 04-03-2011, 09:33 AM

It has come to a point that the person you are into has a strong effect on you whether u guys are together or even in ur waking moments without the person. He/she matters to you and this would affect your decision-making or even planning for a day coz you want him/her to be a part of it. You make sure you wouldn't mess up coz what he/she thinks of you is already a deal breaker for you.

To make it simple, if you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with the person then that's already a give-away

**myk101** · 04-03-2011, 09:43 AM

when you're willing to put all your assets to her name. =)

**khalvz** · 04-04-2011, 03:03 PM

when you do things for her which you dont usually do....

**Githyanki** · 04-04-2011, 03:10 PM

Here's my take on this.

Most people have this feeling inside them but are not sure whether it is simple affection, a crush or maybe love. Well love is a lot more stronger word than simple affection and attraction towards someone. Love involves much more than what you find in simple attraction towards someone. Read on to find out some of the simple yet powerful ways to find out whether you love someone or not.

You're happy when your partner is? - If you feel joy when your partner is happy and just a mere smile or his/her face gives you happiness than you are definitely in love with that person. Love is all about feeling one with your partner therefore you tend to enjoy all joys, lovely moments, moments of satisfaction with your partner.

You don't mind public affection? - Do you often hold hands in public - maybe kiss or hug? If this is the case than you might be in love with your partner. Normally most couples don't prefer showing much public affection until and unless they are in love.

Caring like family- Do you care for your partner just as you care for your family? And get sad when your partner is sad or maybe get happy when you partner is? Love is all about caring and sharing. And if you treat your partner just like you treat your family than you are definitely in love.

You feel like being an open book- When you love someone you feel like being an open book and tend to share some of your biggest secret which you would never even share with your closest of friends. Love makes you surrender totally and you feel like pouring your heart out.

You talk without getting bored - Mostly when it's just a mere crush or attraction you would easily get bored after a while. Everything would just seem boring and you would not feel like carrying on any more. But when you are in love you would always have something to talk about, it would never get boring no matter how long and how much you talk.

You would sacrifice- This is the best way to find out whether you are in love or not. If you are ready to sacrifice something for your partners comfort then you are definitely in love. Love is all about sacrifices and compromises and if you are truly in love you would not mind being committed and making sacrifices for the one you love.

**hotdeity** · 04-15-2011, 02:29 AM

if u cant get enough of dat person..and seeing him/her wud make ur hart jump

**a1va** · 04-15-2011, 06:09 AM

just think of this bro.. think if ur GF in other arms, think what will u do if u lost her,
ask ur self if ur happy and contented to ur partner, ask ur self how happy and blessed u r to have her..
ask ur self na i want to settle down w/ her..

if ma answer na nimo bro.. aww.. in love ka niya.. ayw pag2nd tot..kay mura man nagduha2x ka niya..

LOVE REASON W/O ANY REASON AT ALL..

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