which is more hurting? being the other girl? or the girl being cheated...

[Insanitarium]

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All 3 sides are hurt. If the man truly loved one of them, then he is also in a dilemma. He may be acting on his selfishness but he also has his feelings... if they were real.

It hurts more when all 3 sides are aware of each others' existence. Given that all 3's feelings are real...
1st Girl. It hurts knowing you are not the "Only One". Even if you are 'legally bound'. You no longer are the only one in his heart... or his heart fully belongs to someone else and is staying with you merely because of his responsibility and contract or status quo.

2nd Girl. It hurts to be number 2. Number 2 cannot proudly claim the man as his. Especially if she does not want to share and is aware of the moral complications and the judgment of society.

[palanggako123]

ang gi cheat moy sakit kasuway ko ani... ouch gi dungan mi, sa mall pa jud mi nag kita... naka ingon jud ko nga unsa may problema nako nga naka ingana cya nako... dd2 ko na down jud... so sakit ang gi cheatan so far wa man ko kasuway nga 3rd party ko...hehehehe... or ako bay ang 3rd party ad2?! paeta ani...hehehehe..

yap yap..sakit jud kun if u've been cheated kaysa ikaw ang third party..naka experience nako twice ani..la pako ka try nga ako ang third party..basin karon mu try ko..hahaha

[palanggako123]

All 3 sides are hurt. If the man truly loved one of them, then he is also in a dilemma. He may be acting on his selfishness but he also has his feelings... if they were real.

It hurts more when all 3 sides are aware of each others' existence. Given that all 3's feelings are real...
1st Girl. It hurts knowing you are not the "Only One". Even if you are 'legally bound'. You no longer are the only one in his heart... or his heart fully belongs to someone else and is staying with you merely because of his responsibility and contract or status quo.

2nd Girl. It hurts to be number 2. Number 2 cannot proudly claim the man as his. Especially if she does not want to share and is aware of the moral complications and the judgment of society.

this is so true..i was in the same situation months ago..my partner and i have a child na..the girl knew about us but prefer not to let to of the guy..proud pa cxa sa ila pics sa facebook ug friendster..but i can't stand the situation any longer so i made the decision to end our relationship..murag cla japun sa guy karon..kebs nako!!

[sugbuana]

hmm ka experience ko ani:

para nako lang ha, same ra...

i caught my bf with his new girl...i've been cheated and it hurts like hell

i had this guy for a fling for a long time na, naa silay anak sa iyang gf...

i know masakitan siya if she''ll finds out!

[LeeLeePot]

i think it's the same..because both of you are being cheated on...kung ikao ang original gf tas nadiscover nimu nga naay kaparty imung bf, sakit na xa..same pud ang mafeel sa third party if she knew nga d diay xa ang number one...peo if aware c third party peo ngpartey partey japun xa bf nimu, lahi na na nga story..mas lahi ang story pag same *** ni bf c third party..mao na nai gikaahak ron! wiw!

[THE KID]

THe same.............

[glamour143]

it really depends on the situation

but i think being cheated is more hurtful, because your actually thinking the relationship is going well and standing strong but then later on you'll find out the guy has another woman i mean come on..your expecting so much that it'll just you and him then suddenly theres another guy in the picture..wouldnt that be rude?

[PRESIDENT_GLORIA]

para nku...same lang...different situations pero same ang sakit nga mafeel

[speakmore]

the girl being cheated!!!