Merged: All Love Problems

[twelve11]

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He lied to me.
Should I confront or not?

[pink spider]

i wanna know what's going on between us..kay sweet man me, magcge me kuyog...as in cgeh sad ko huna2x nya..unya sya motawag sad nako/magtext sad..pero kay younger man xa nako...and i know if tinu-od ba iyang pakikisama or jowk ra..hapit nako kapoyon nya..pero mrag lately gimingaw kog maayo nya pwamis..
ako man unta xa i-ask kung unsa jod me duha, pero basin ma-disappoint ra ko, mao pasgdan nalng nako..hahayz!

[psychoshot]

^we`re on the same roof... T.T
we like each other, we`re not in a relationship, he`s taken, he`s younger than me... unsa mn jd mi oe?
maglisud na jd kog sabot... he wants to see me again, i don't want to see him anymore ky maglibog kog samot... i just want to avoid and ignore him, but I CAN`T! waaa

[ViperRKO]

^we`re on the same roof... T.T
we like each other, we`re not in a relationship, he`s taken, he`s younger than me... unsa mn jd mi oe?
maglisud na jd kog sabot... he wants to see me again, i don't want to see him anymore ky maglibog kog samot... i just want to avoid and ignore him, but I CAN`T! waaa

First you have to decide if you really wanna be with him or not.

Because if you do, this is what u should do:

Do u know what causes us to value something? Investment. And I mean investment in any form, from giving your time, energy, knowledge, trust, emotion, money (of course), etc. Think about the things that you value the most in your life like ur family, hobbies, career or education, how much have u invested in those things? A lot, most likely.

The more u invest on something, the more valuable it is to you. So if you want to have this guy, I suggest you DO avoid and ignore him. If he likes you his likely to chase you...give him a little bit of hope, just so he doesn't get discouraged. And by him chasing you he invests more and more in you and your value to him grows more and more until he might see you as of equal or more importance than his girlfriend, when u reach this point then tell him he has to make a decision.

If he still doesn't choose to be with you, then move on. There are millions of men around the world which means millions of chances that you'll find someone better.

[urv@n!tY]

klaruha sa kay basin friendly lang ang guy ... basin nya mahurt ka

so true.. better not assume.. coz in the end, basin ikaw ray luoy

[tibzoy]

Around July last year, ni-court ko sa akong nabuangan na crush kaso lang 'NO' iya answer. Nahagba akong kalibutan, as in depressed jud. Friends ra japon mi after ato pero mailang na siya nako everytime magkuyog mi. Na undang na pud among txt2x. As in, naa nami distance.

Pero karon, makabantay jud ko na murag suggestive iyang pag-treat nako recently (tawgon ko niya "hubby", mag-sweet2x siya nako if magkuyog mi, sulti siya ug "i love you uyab na ta", etc..) pero basin joke2x ra diay ni iya.

Nalibog na man ko oi. Unsaon nako ni mga master? Sakyan nako ni or sabayan na lang nako? naa pa man gud na feel niya, wai binuang. Tabang please

[Maikeru]

Around July last year, ni-court ko sa akong nabuangan na crush kaso lang 'NO' iya answer. Nahagba akong kalibutan, as in depressed jud. Friends ra japon mi after ato pero mailang na siya nako everytime magkuyog mi. Na undang na pud among txt2x. As in, naa nami distance.

Pero karon, makabantay jud ko na murag suggestive iyang pag-treat nako recently (tawgon ko niya "hubby", mag-sweet2x siya nako if magkuyog mi, sulti siya ug "i love you uyab na ta", etc..) pero basin joke2x ra diay ni iya.

Nalibog na man ko oi. Unsaon nako ni mga master? Sakyan nako ni or sabayan na lang nako? naa pa man gud na feel niya, wai binuang. Tabang please

If it were me, moAsk q nya what gud iya gpangMean kay bacn nsaup lang q og sabot para pud maKlaro naq kung unsa na gud. But if dili ka makaDare og ask, how about this, when she says those things, mo baws ka og ingon og, "kaw hap, joke2x npud ka ana. ganahan raba ko ai. manguyab q balik nimo ron". It won't answer your question noon, but it might open up the conversation for that matter.

[jimville]

nindutag mga love story ninyu oi. mao day ni akong 1st participation diri sa istorya. hahaha. makatawa lang ko. pwede pud ko mahimong tigtambag.

[tibzoy]

If it were me, moAsk q nya what gud iya gpangMean kay bacn nsaup lang q og sabot para pud maKlaro naq kung unsa na gud. But if dili ka makaDare og ask, how about this, when she says those things, mo baws ka og ingon og, "kaw hap, joke2x npud ka ana. ganahan raba ko ai. manguyab q balik nimo ron". It won't answer your question noon, but it might open up the conversation for that matter.

Salamat Maikeru. nindot ni na advice dah! cge2x, mangita ko right moment

[Maikeru]

Salamat Maikeru. nindot ni na advice dah! cge2x, mangita ko right moment

@tibzoy: np and good luck