Merged: Selos or Jealousy in Relationships

[thisbe.ara]

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normal man cguro na selos2x gamay, lambing2x sad ba.. kesa indifferent kaayo ang taw, right?
pero if sobraan na, naa nay insecurity na tawhana, sige lang on tiptoe unsay naa sa uban nga wa niya (subconsciously) mao na nga ipaagi lang ug selos--> mao ni sa mga taw nga ang mga uyab tarong ha..
pero kng ang uyab di tarong unya nagselos2x ra cya kutob, clingy ni nga person.. di ka let go.. martyr..
just my two cents' worth..

[RanieBoi]

of course not! that only means that he/she loves you. a relationship without this is kinda boring.. nice sab na naa mga spices. like selos2x gamay basta lng open sab ka sa imo partner about ur feelings. jz my quarter cent worth..

[thisbe.ara]

OT@RanieBoi: mao na nga ayaw sige reklamo ha kung naay magselos2x..hehee..peace out! welcome back to istorya.net....how's dumaguete?

[RanieBoi]

OT@thisbe.ara: imo man ko birahan dayon dri thisbe.. bago pa gani ko kabalik post. lingaw au sa dumaguette.. i hav some great experience there.. cge ra mi laag2x. ligo mi sa forest camp, nice au ang view kay nature.

[**julliene**]

i think jealousy springs out from insecurity, not the absence of trust.

KOREKKK!

i second denomination....hehehe..

[xypher009]

jealousy in a relationship (we have to specify..hehehe) for me will never mean that you went out of trust...it only means that because you love the person so deeply, you became afraid to lose her/him...
it is actually not bad to be jealous but overdoing it results to possible fusion... you will only have to clarify things first with ur gf/bf before actually exploding...doing the latter would mean insensitiveness and narrow-mindedness on your part...

[Apo ni Barabas]

jealousy...hmmm...kung ang bf is flirting with another girl? latigo jud!!!

kung friendly lang na approach...no prob...

[thisbe.ara]

i agree.. di man cguro na walay trust.. somehow, look deep in yourself nganong sige kag selos.. insecurity na..

OT@Raniboi: peace bes.. hehee.. lingaw ra man kog bira nimo gud.. m glad u enjoyed dumaguete.. wa ko ninyo kuyuga! waaaaaahhhh!!!

[chixmoi]

basically jealousy means (according to webster)
1 a : intolerant of rivalry or unfaithfulness b : disposed to suspect rivalry or unfaithfulness
2 : hostile toward a rival or one believed to enjoy an advantage
3 : vigilant in guarding a possession

so it refers to being selfish, but then it really depends on how you give meaning to being jealous
in any case that only shows that you and inlove with that person...

[SpW_Clear]

more opinions please... moderators, i will appreciate if you can share also....